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Question Can someone explain the MP rules.

ICE

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What does within limits really mean?. I know sex is a no no but

What parts of her body can you touch?

Kissing OK?
Licking her pussy OK?
Fingering OK?
Asking her to meet you after work OK?
BJ is allowed I hear, or no?.
BJ in the shower OK?


What else is or not included?
 
Everything you are asking should be asked of the MPA you are seeing. Every woman will have different limits/boundaries. Some are in serious relationships, some are married, some have kids. It's just a job at the end of the day. MP Limits usually means no bjs or sex. But depending on the attendant, can also mean no daty, kissing, digits, etc... Bottom line, ask respectfully and see where it takes you.

That being said, massage sessions go well beyond the "limits" quite often. Sometimes you have MPAs that were former SPs, MPAs who work like SPs, spas that operate like a brothel, and sometimes you build a rapport with a regular enough that you end up doing more in the room. MP Limits is that sweet spot that massage enthusiasts love to push.
 
Everything you are asking should be asked of the MPA you are seeing. Every woman will have different limits/boundaries. Some are in serious relationships, some are married, some have kids. It's just a job at the end of the day. MP Limits usually means no bjs or sex. But depending on the attendant, can also mean no daty, kissing, digits, etc... Bottom line, ask respectfully and see where it takes you.

That being said, massage sessions go well beyond the "limits" quite often. Sometimes you have MPAs that were former SPs, MPAs who work like SPs, spas that operate like a brothel, and sometimes you build a rapport with a regular enough that you end up doing more in the room. MP Limits is that sweet spot that massage enthusiasts love to push.

Thank you. Now I can ask for kissing and other goodies if they allow but won't bother with the sex part.
 
Thank you. Now I can ask for kissing and other goodies if they allow but won't bother with the sex part.

Tip 1: bring mouthwash
Tip 2: treat it like your first highschool kiss and don't rush it
Tip 3: don't just stick your tongue in the other person's mouth (this tip is for both the client and the MPA)
 
Brutal reply you got there.

Mp limits technically mean no sex & no BJ's. If a session is within mp limits, that is what it refers to.

Do not expect or demand things like kissing, that's very personal & based on things like chemistry, hygiene, etc.

If u want a bj, in or out of the shower, see an escort.

As for those that claim things go past mp limits often.... I'd check a few facts 1st before believing it. 1. If they are claiming that to seem like some kind of stud. 2. Where they hobby. Some spas run as brothels, some don't. Expectations should match the place you choose to frequent. Also, just cuz one guy gets something doesn't mean anyone else will.

Touch nicely, be clean, let her lead, and voice what your wishes are. You should be good to go! :)
 
Brutal reply you got there.

Mp limits technically mean no sex & no BJ's. If a session is within mp limits, that is what it refers to.

Do not expect or demand things like kissing, that's very personal & based on things like chemistry, hygiene, etc.

If u want a bj, in or out of the shower, see an escort.

As for those that claim things go past mp limits often.... I'd check a few facts 1st before believing it. 1. If they are claiming that to seem like some kind of stud. 2. Where they hobby. Some spas run as brothels, some don't. Expectations should match the place you choose to frequent. Also, just cuz one guy gets something doesn't mean anyone else will.

Touch nicely, be clean, let her lead, and voice what your wishes are. You should be good to go! :)

thanks for clarifying this Emily.
 
Muse, thanks for saying what I said. :writing:

ICE, just a note about reviews. I don't know if you go to other sites and read reviews there or not, but try to take all reviews with a grain of salt. Trying to read between the lines will drive you crazy. In my reviews here, I've tried to keep the actual acts out of the reviews and focus on my impressions of the MPA. At the end of the all reviews are just impressions the reviewer had of his experience.

A body rub is supposed to be a fun hobby. It's about getting naked with a beautiful woman and having a good time. Stay focused on that. Yes, sometimes other things happen, and most of those times, it'll happen for money. Just remember that those "extras" will wind up costing you way more than the same service with a SP.

I don't know about anyone else, but kissing is an intensely personal and intimate thing. More so than bjs and sex. I've seen girls who I don't want to kiss stick their tongues in my mouth with no warning. Not fun, no matter how hot they are. The irony is that because it's such a personal thing, some MPAs won't do no matter how regular you become. It's all part of what makes this hobby so fascinating I guess.
 
Mp limits technically mean no sex & no BJ's. If a session is within mp limits, that is what it refers to.

Do not expect or demand things like kissing, that's very personal & based on things like chemistry, hygiene, etc.
If u want a bj, in or out of the shower, see an escort.
+1, unfortunately some girls that escort use MP as fronts, as they use strip clubs, even years ago.
If you think that you are special, you are not. I remember one online feud where one MPA was stating that another MPA gives out BJ to ALL her customers, while she picks and chooses, LOL it means she just wants to make sure she is paid extra in advance.

ICE, just a note about reviews. I don't know if you go to other sites and read reviews there or not, but try to take all reviews with a grain of salt. Trying to read between the lines will drive you crazy.

Beware of MP that have groupies posting for them, especially on other sites. I have been told ( by good authority ) that some reviews are posted by people who have never spent any time with them in the room.

A body rub is supposed to be a fun hobby. It's about getting naked with a beautiful woman and having a good time. Stay focused on that. Yes, sometimes other things happen, and most of those times, it'll happen for money. Just remember that those "extras" will wind up costing you way more than the same service with a SP.

I don't know about anyone else, but kissing is an intensely personal and intimate thing. More so than bjs and sex. I've seen girls who I don't want to kiss stick their tongues in my mouth with no warning. Not fun, no matter how hot they are. The irony is that because it's such a personal thing, some MPAs won't do no matter how regular you become. It's all part of what makes this hobby so fascinating I guess.

Kissing, only once in many many years of going to MP, it became a personal event, or at least I thought, but I digress.
 
Shilly.

You specifically said sessions pass mp limits often. That is not true at some spas. And not special if you do at others. Just look at your own choices, and that's why you think that. Lol.

You don't need a group of them for posts/handles/reviews to be fake. Just look at this section lately 😂😂
 
Shilly.

You specifically said sessions pass mp limits often. That is not true at some spas. And not special if you do at others. Just look at your own choices, and that's why you think that. Lol.

You don't need a group of them for posts/handles/reviews to be fake. Just look at this section lately 

I think someone has been sucking a sour watermelon lately. Ironically, you and I are saying the same things but you seem to be taking a dig at me between the lines. That's fine. Dig away. You did me a favour a long time ago. You probably don't even remember it, but I do.

I know in some spas, girls don't exceed the limits. In fact, when I used to hobby in the west end a lot, Blue Lagoon, Allure, Utopia, SRM, HFH, I never got extras. Granted, I didn't know how to ask for them before, and I'm much more laid back now that I was 15-20 years ago so maybe that has something to do with it too. These days, the extras are more the individual MPA's choice. Yes, some spas seem to put unspoken or overt pressure on the attendants, either by creating a competitive environment where MPAs feel they have to put out to ensure repeat clients, or plain out telling the MPAs to do full service. It happens.

Take a look in your own house before throwing stones at others.
 
Beware of MP that have groupies posting for them, especially on other sites. I have been told ( by good authority ) that some reviews are posted by people who have never spent any time with them in the room.

I know what you mean. I've gotten better at spotting these I think. I'm at the point in my hobbying that I don't rely on reviews anymore. Kinda like how I was before I discovered these review sites. I've met some folks whose tastes are similar to mine and i rely on their feedback now.

I think it's time I went back to the SP side of the fence anyway.
 
Actually it's epic times atm w/our new spa opening, but always fun to see shady characters reveal themselves all by themselves ;)

Precisely. Those spas you listed + back in the day = exactly what I'm referring to. You don't hobby there nowadays now do you? Let's stop pretending ;)

My house is excellent. As is MUSE. And we don't offer fs. But you wouldn't know that now would you sweetie?? *cough*
 
ERecTile said:
I know what you mean. I've gotten better at spotting these I think. I'm at the point in my hobbying that I don't rely on reviews anymore. Kinda like how I was before I discovered these review sites.
LOL,

Because I have some programming knowledge, especially in database as well as being on the admin side of a forum I kinda know the workings. A for instance is that you can provide different levels of security to different groups. So what a registered user has access to can be different than a advertiser for instance. Also there is nothing private to admin level, not even pm's. BUT it is really nothing, abusing it is.
 
MUSE said:
Actually it's epic times atm w/our new spa opening, but always fun to see shady characters reveal themselves all by themselves ;)

Precisely. Those spas you listed + back in the day = exactly what I'm referring to. You don't hobby there nowadays now do you? Let's stop pretending ;)

My house is excellent. As is MUSE. And we don't offer fs. But you wouldn't know that now would you sweetie?? *cough*
I have been to Muse several times, and agree with you that the other spa's have far more liberal policies surrounding extras. Your MPAs do not offer blowjobs or full service, in the room. However, as erectile pointed out, it is not unheard of for a Muse attendant to moonlight as an escort, and exchange emails or phone numbers, if the client is interested. This occured last summer (she has since departed).
 
MUSE said:
Actually it's epic times atm w/our new spa opening, but always fun to see shady characters reveal themselves all by themselves ;)

Precisely. Those spas you listed + back in the day = exactly what I'm referring to. You don't hobby there nowadays now do you? Let's stop pretending ;)

My house is excellent. As is MUSE. And we don't offer fs. But you wouldn't know that now would you sweetie?? *cough*

Don't know why you keep poking at me, but that's up to you. I don't like being called shilly or shady, but that's your perogative as a poster here. I don't hobby any more at the places I mention simply because I'm not in that area of the city much any more. I used to drive by HFH every day and would often pop in for a quickie. I used to work up in Brampton so I would visit SRM and Utopia quite often. I'd write reviews of the ladies I met there, but it's my understanding that they've retired. I've made no secret that I go to Perla so much simple for geographical reasons. If I were closer to Muse, I'd go to Muse, fs or no fs. It's that simple. If I wanted sex, I'd see a SP.

On a tangental note, I'm very excited about Flirt's move. Yeah, it seems they've had some hiccups, but being in the same Plaza as Perla means that I have more options.
 
Rodi said:
it is not unheard of for a Muse attendant to moonlight as an escort, and exchange emails or phone numbers, if the client is interested.
Absolutely nothing wrong with it in my eyes, even if by chance the MPA GOES OVER THE LINE once or twice a year, but NEVER for added income. HUGE difference between offering herself up as a full course meal and I am certain the other ladies that don't provide would never even bat an eye.

BigGuy said:
Please let all have their own POV without name calling or accusations.

A person's POV is better made without trying to belittle an opposing viewpoint

MUSE said:
Actually it's epic times atm w/our new spa opening,

Although luck has very little to do with a new business venture, I'll say it all the same.
Good Luck
 
Mp limits technically mean no sex & no BJ's. If a session is within mp limits, that is what it refers to.

For me that is what most guys say. I generally used to say all within mp limits but that was just to prevent all the pms asking for details. Most of the guys that I pm'd about this after their reviews told that they received much more than posted to prevent idiots asking for all the details.

Do not expect or demand things like kissing, that's very personal & based on things like chemistry, hygiene, etc.


I totally agree with that. Go with the flow and see how it goes. You might not get a lot of extras with the first visit but comfort between the 2 of you goes a long way to the extras AND there is almost always extras with the regulars.

As for those that claim things go past mp limits often.... I'd check a few facts 1st before believing it. 1. If they are claiming that to seem like some kind of stud. 2. Where they hobby. Some spas run as brothels, some don't. Expectations should match the place you choose to frequent. Also, just cuz one guy gets something doesn't mean anyone else will.


I have had fs at all of the higher end places and at a lot of the places. Yes, even at Muse. Some places are easier to get the extras than others, that is true. Some guys brag too much and some just out right lie. The best thing to do is read a bunch of reviews from different people and different websites to get the info on what you are looking for or someone in particular. The ladies will all say the same thing "I normally do not do this but for you I will. Please do not tell anyone." You will here that a lot.

Touch nicely, be clean, let her lead, and voice what your wishes are. You should be good to go!


I agree 100%. The ladies are human beings and deserve to be treated like most people with class, caring and dignity.


 
Since when did the attendants at Muse NOT give BBBJ's?
I got one on my first visit there by a girl I had never met before. Didn't flash the cash or push the limits. I got her off in 69 and she said she wanted to return the favour by getting me off orally.
It's all good
Cheers
Chongqing

PS- if anyone wants the name of the attendant you can PM me. I don't mind sharing my experiences
 
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