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Large Breasts, Business Attire and First Impressions

Rebecca Richardson

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Dear esteemed members of HUBGFE,I would like to know what you think when you encounter a woman in a business situation who has large breasts (in proportion to her body)? Do you think she's less competent or somehow more sexual? Are you more or less likely to engage in business exchanges with her because of this? Do big boobies indicate a woman who is "fun for a moment" but not to be taken seriously?.

Please assume that she is appropriately/conservatively dressed and the size of her breasts is minimized as much as possible.As I have lost a significant amount of weight my breasts have remained relatively the same size, and I am struggling to dress appropriately for the "real world". I'm having to get button-down shirts and blazers tailored to fit properly, but even then I still think they're looking ...big.

Thank you in advance for your honest answers. I'm probably going to ignore your requests for pictures, I was just curious from a male's pespective (especially ones involved in a conservative white-collar environment) if this is something I am rightfully/ should be concerned about.
 
It's not just the big boobies, it is also the pretty face. You can do two things,

1) use your sex appeal to further your position or
2) carry yourself with a firm tone and serious facial expressions, over time providing you have some good ideas and business plans they will begin to take you serious.
 
I always have and always will judge a business person on their ability, regardless of gender, age, ethnicity, etc. Anyone who does otherwise is a fool.
 
+1 on what A1 said.I adhere to a strict "don't shit where you eat" policy, so although I may appreciate her physical attributes on some inner level, I will deal with her based on the assumption that she can fulfill her responsabilities, and her performance.

@Boing: the pics don't lie. Go to the Select website. I'd even say she's even more toned now.
 
My wife goes to work everyday in business attire and she is 34DD 25 34....I'M TELLING YA ONE THING....HER BOSS BETTER TAKE HER SERIOUSLY!!:grrrrrr:
 
I agree with Player, it doesn't matter what the person looks like it's how they present themselves in the business environment that I base my decisions on.

By the same token though, if a homely person comes in dressed in dirty, wrinkled, and food stained clothes they'll be treated with less respect than one properly attired. I'm not saying someone has to be wearing prada or vesace, but if they're clean, neat and well groomed? that speaks volumes. I kid you not, I had a sales rep come in to do a presentation once poorly dressed with illfitting clothes and her hair was all greasy and stringy and believe me, I hardly paid attention to her.
 
You can strap in and camouflage your curves but I think your eyes will give you away, Becky.

Wear sunglasses to work to hide the blazing sexual wattage you send out.
 
Men are men and their first inner thoughts will be how good of a lay would the new sexy lady be, not all but most!!
 
Ms Richardson

Today's women are more empowered than ever before. First impressions are always very important and your breast size will not be a factor as long as you present yourself well. Spend the extra money, get the shirts tailored to fit, dress nicely and people will be automatically attracted to you.

I think you will find that as many women will be attracted to you based on your apparel as men are attracted by your cup size.

Once you get by the first impression ..... its all about attitude.

Good luck in whatever you do.
 
Ms Richardson

Today's women are more empowered than ever before. First impressions are always very important and your breast size will not be a factor as long as you present yourself well. Spend the extra money, get the shirts tailored to fit, dress nicely and people will be automatically attracted to you.

I think you will find that as many women will be attracted to you based on your apparel as men are attracted by your cup size.

Once you get by the first impression ..... its all about attitude.

Good luck in whatever you do.

ditto, what he said
 
Dear esteemed members of HUBGFE,I would like to know what you think when you encounter a woman in a business situation who has large breasts (in proportion to her body)? Do you think she's less competent or somehow more sexual? Are you more or less likely to engage in business exchanges with her because of this? Do big boobies indicate a woman who is "fun for a moment" but not to be taken seriously?.

Please assume that she is appropriately/conservatively dressed and the size of her breasts is minimized as much as possible.As I have lost a significant amount of weight my breasts have remained relatively the same size, and I am struggling to dress appropriately for the "real world". I'm having to get button-down shirts and blazers tailored to fit properly, but even then I still think they're looking ...big.

Thank you in advance for your honest answers. I'm probably going to ignore your requests for pictures, I was just curious from a male's pespective (especially ones involved in a conservative white-collar environment) if this is something I am rightfully/ should be concerned about.

I have about 700 employees working for me. Of the floor employees I would guess about 1/3 are women. Of the white collar workers about 60% are women. I have one foreign division where the manager has a talent for hiring ace women employees in very senior positions. These women are all way above average in looks and fortunately in brains as well. They take full advantage of their looks and I think it has proven to be an asset for them. They dress professionally but they don't try to "hide" an attribute. They don't flaunt it in your face but they don't hide it. They have developed a confidence that sort of says " I know I'm good looking, get over it, or I will take advantage of you with my brains while you're in a daze". Best marketing and sales execs we have.

In an unrelated field , and I have recent experience in this, has anyone else noted the very diproportionate number of extremely hot women working in residential real estate in Toronto?
 
I'll admit that big tits or a great set of legs will get the door opened but if the first thing out of her mouth is stupid then ........
 
My experience is that there will always be a number of people that will judge you by your looks and in general there are still a number of people out there that equate attractiveness, large breasts or certain hair colours with a lack of intelligence. The best thing to do in that situation is to beat the stereotype and demonstrate that you can not only exceed expectations in job performance but that you do so in a professional manner. If you handle yourself well and present yourself in a professional manner (both in manners and image) then those above you with a say in how your career advances will take note of that rather than your level of attractiveness or bust size.
As far as how to dress find a woman that is in a position that you would like to have one day and mimic her overall style, it may not be necessary to always wear high cut tops or avoid accessories that may draw attention to your chest but if it's the norm in your industry to dress conservative then follow her lead, if it's the norm to dress more fashion forward and modern than invest in that image.
 
^^^^^ what she said....emphasis on the "present yourself in a professional manner".....Whenever I encountered, umm, well endowed, women, and they had the camisole underneath the suit jacket showing their grand canyon cleavage I always thought: ok, they're big, so what are you trying to use them for?

I've met RR and dressed appropriately she'd fit in fine in any office I worked in....(as long as she doesn't bring up the topic of anally fisting some dude that is lol)
 
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