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SP's real name

olayda

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I just got back from a lunch date and the SP told me her real name towards the end. This is the 3rd girl to do this. It's sweet, but in a weird way takes me a bit out of fantasy and closer to reality.

Any similar thoughts?
 
olayda said:
I just got back from a lunch date and the SP told me her real name towards the end. This is the 3rd girl to do this. It's sweet, but in a weird way takes me a bit out of fantasy and closer to reality.

Any similar thoughts?

How do you know its their real name Olayda? they could be playing with you.
 
Senor Gomes said:
How do you know its their real name Olayda? they could be playing with you.


Tru dat Gomes, but what would be the point?

Anyway, my question was: is is this a sexy thing or a bit of the opposite?
 
When the fuck did you get back Big O? I thought you were still bangin' $5 Senoritas in Meh-HEEE-co.

I've had real names and personal numbers...kinda cool for the ego.
 
Excellent input all, but I assure you I did not want to start a pissing contest.

I didn't mean to piss in the first place. I don't see it as a point of pride, I was just surprised at my reaction.

It's always: " Wow, that's cool - I guess we're really clicking. Wait a minute...now your just a civilian. Can I act like a sex crazed inpatient with a civilian?....well I guess it's kinda cool "

You know what? I think too much. Please don't post anything else on this thread.

I forgot to mention..the first real name I learned from an SP was Brian. That was kinda a turn off.
 
Yeah, you are overthinking, but your reaction's not that uncommon. Many guys hobby for the fact that it IS a superficial connection, they're not looking to get involved.

Personally, if an sp gives me a real name, I feel honoured that I have her trust. It makes the experience all that much more intense next time because we're suddenly [real name] and [real name] instead of just sp and john. But then again, I have an intimacy fetish.
 
I am surprised that a young lady would let her guard down and tell their clients their real name. I would be willing to wager that the older more experienced SP's would not make this mistake.
 
Jawbone said:
I am surprised that a young lady would let her guard down and tell their clients their real name. I would be willing to wager that the older more experienced SP's would not make this mistake.

I think it is an experience thing. There is a darker side to some of the creeps out there, so I would advise most ladies to keep their names, places of daytime work or school, etc...as private as possible. Most already know this though.

So yes, I know peoples names too. And yes, I have been invited over too. And yes I now forget the names quickly and no I did not go into the house, but the driveway was fun.
 
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