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thesun

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Forgive me if I sound shallow but I have a dilemma here. I am dating this woman and she is amazing in bed. She has some serious skills and feel so damn lucky. However when we sleep together, she snores very loud. She actually vibrates the bed. This is such a major turn off for me. I would love for her to go home after we finished fucking but she won't. I know I sound shallow and ungrateful but what would you do in my situation. The snoring is sooooo loud that it s difficult to get a decent sleep. Despite her incredible skills, the snoring is actually turning me off. Suggestions?
 
Ear Plugs....talk to her.....she probably does not know....
 
You should tell her you're worried she may have sleep apnea and that it's potentially life-threatening.

If sex is the main reason you are together, try different times and places to have sex and avoid the bed/nighttime.
 
thesun said:
Forgive me if I sound shallow but I have a dilemma here. I am dating this woman and she is amazing in bed. She has some serious skills and feel so damn lucky. However when we sleep together, she snores very loud. She actually vibrates the bed. This is such a major turn off for me. I would love for her to go home after we finished fucking but she won't. I know I sound shallow and ungrateful but what would you do in my situation. The snoring is sooooo loud that it s difficult to get a decent sleep. Despite her incredible skills, the snoring is actually turning me off. Suggestions?

I dated an MPA in Vancouver who was incredibly hot, but snored the walls down at night. I had her checked for sleep apnea, and offered to pay for the machine, but she refused to wear it. After a few weeks, I got used to falling asleep quickly before the snoring started, otherwise it kept me awake. All I can suggest is you will eventually get used to it...hopefully!
 
Turn her to the side. Seriously if she sleeps on her back she will always snore.

Again.

Make her sleep on either left or right side.
 
Curly said:
Turn her to the side. Seriously if she sleeps on her back she will always snore.

Again.

Make her sleep on either left or right side.

I know it's against conventional wisdom, but people sometimes do snore on their side. Depends on the airway obstruction, which is why a CPAC machine helps. But it's like wearing a gas mask to sleep in, so I understand why many people don't like it.
 
oldguyzer said:
All I can suggest is you will eventually get used to it...hopefully!

Hoping is wishful thinking to those that have tried and failed.
 
The resentment that comes with being sleep deprived will soon outweigh the sexual pleasure. Find a way to deal with it quickly because if you can't find a way to deal with it the relationship is probably doomed.

The voice of experience speaking ...
 
I agree with Ms. Sarah believe it or not. Thesun, convince her to seek help. As Oldguyzer mentioned a CPAP machine will work although I'm sure her fear will be how she will look with it on and trying to sleep with it. Please read this for some alternatives to the machine your girlfriend may consider trying.
 
Baz said:
I agree with Ms. Sarah believe it or not. Thesun, convince her to seek help. As Oldguyzer mentioned a CPAP machine will work although I'm sure her fear will be how she will look with it on and trying to sleep with it. Please read this for some alternatives to the machine your girlfriend may consider trying.

Thank you Baz!

:biggrin2:
 
Use a pillow.....or

Have a 3some and you sleep on the sofa.....:biggrin2:
 
TheSUn, I hate to be the bearer of bad news but..... um.....hmmmm are you sitting down??

Ok, brace yourself.....you ready........


Your girlfriend is really PAPASMERF in drag!:sick:

DUMP HIM, the snoring will not go away. My ex use to snore so bad I'd hear her over the TV and it was in another room!
 
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