A question for the guys.

[gom]

Hi fellow mansluts.

I don't know if most of you have girlfriend(s) or not, but if you do, I have a question. Is your average cost of hiring an SP (200-300/session) more or less than the total amount of money you spent to a girl between the time you picked her up to the time that you had sex with her?

 

[Bubba]

There is no guarantee getting laid after movie and dinner. Plus odds are CIM won't happen either.



SP, all the way.

 

[Bastrad]

SP rules.

 

[Boing]

I am a cheap bastard. Movie, $25 for two with no popcorn. Dinner, I go Korean. Another $25. That is $50 for a night out. I voted girlfriend.

 

[a 1 player]

I voted GF is cheaper. But then again, I won't date a high maintenance woman either.

 

[George Costanza]

SP, why they are called that. Keep her for one hour and go home to reality. Nff said.

 

[tboy]

IMO if you only apply a dollar figure to the "cost", then on an annual basis a gf or civvie is probably cheaper. I say probably because if you're with her a year, you'll have an anniversary present to buy, plus a birthday present, plus a christmas present, valentine's day, plus easter, then you have NYE, that'll be another $200 easy, plus a present for her mother, etc etc etc. I also say "only" a dollar figure because in all my relationships, it cost me so many hours or stress, it was ridiculous. I spent SO many hours trying to pry out of them what I did wrong, those hours I'll never get back (and in more than half the cases I actually didn't do anything wrong, it was just perceived that I did something wrong).

I'd like to say that sex is better with someone you care about but there have been a few escorts I've developed a repoire with that far exceeded any sex I had with a gf.......

One of the big factors? They never say no.......

(btw, you're a bunch of cheap bastards, I have yet to go out on a date that didn't cost me at least a hundred and more often closer to $200)

 

[Dan]

Most of my dates run between 100 and 200 depending on the restaurant. Last week I took out a co-worker (a very sexy lady) to a nice dinner ($95.00) then to the movies (33.00 with popcorn) then dancing (60.00 doorfee+drinks) . At the end of the night I was rewarded with a pair of blue balls which was priceless!:grrrrrr: Now, I've asked her out again for next weekend because I love the hunt and I need to see if my initial investment bears fruit.

 

[a 1 player]

Here is where I am different...

If like in tboys situation, the woman I'm dating starts arguing and tries to break my esteem... relationship over. Done. I don't have time for that bullshit.

My average first couple of dates cost me $50 max. I need to know the woman likes me for me, not for my money, (or lack of). Some of my best first dates include:
Kensington Market and Hot Pot for dinner
Bicycle riding on the Toronto Islands
Snow shoeing
Geocaching
Playing tourist in Toronto
Going to a Jays game (with free tickets)

In my experience, a creative date almost always works out better than an expensive one, as I find many women value creativity over the standard 'try to impress' type of date.

 

[tboy]

Hey I'm with you there playa, but as stated, in Toronto, a basic decent restaurant is going to cost you $100 and I know not of ONE woman who ever would consider going to my place for our first date...considering (at the time) I lived in my workshop lol....(though some escorts LOVED seeing what I was working on...my ATF Summer at GOE used to, when I opened the door, kiss me, hug me, and scoot on to see what was being built lol).

I have to ask: wtf is geocaching? Is that where you travel around downtown with a huge net and try to bag a geo metro?????

Ok so I've also done the "casual" date. One time we went blading. Ok, so drive to the path near her place, $20.00. Parking for the day, $10.00, drinks at the rest stop, $5.00. Lunch on the pier, $35.00 then ice cream later on, $10.00.....we're still talking almost $100.00.....

I mean, I guess I COULD have done this at the rest stop: gone to the cooler, picked out a bottle of gatorade for me. She picks out a bottle of water. We go to the counter and we both set them done....the clerk rings them up and I hand him $3.00 for mine and look at her..........yeah, that would go over well.......

 

[a 1 player]

I have to ask: wtf is geocaching? Is that where you travel around downtown with a huge net and try to bag a geo metro?????

Geocaching is basically a world wide scavenger hunt that one uses a hand held GPS to find a location where there is something hidden.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4VFeYZTTYs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Db_kj77Xby8&feature=related (this one might give you a better idea)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FixLh5RZ5rY&feature=related (this is another example)

 

[tboy]

Geocaching is basically a world wide scavenger hunt that one uses a hand held GPS to find a location where there is something hidden.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4VFeYZTTYs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Db_kj77Xby8&feature=related (this one might give you a better idea)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FixLh5RZ5rY&feature=related (this is another example)

so, do complete strangers hide this stuff and then post the co-ordinates online or what?

 

[a 1 player]

so, do complete strangers hide this stuff and then post the co-ordinates online or what?

Exactly.

 

[Macho Man]

Geocaching is basically a world wide scavenger hunt that one uses a hand held GPS to find a location where there is something hidden.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4VFeYZTTYs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Db_kj77Xby8&feature=related (this one might give you a better idea)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FixLh5RZ5rY&feature=related (this is another example)

Thanks for the 411.