On if you are asking for more money (extended line of credit) or are late making a payment... in which case you can be sure they take a look at what you are doing. But if you are paying regularly, and are not outside of their debt to assets & income ratio, they don't care what you do with your money.
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Well, she was gorgeous... wanted to be mine alone... seemed to be intelligent, and have a decent personality (though perhaps a bit nuts at times), and at the time liked frequent sex...
the frequent sex started to fade into history within a year of marriage and now its just a distant memory.
still together... no regrets...
I found one but was way too expensive.
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Just means you are too cheap.
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I have no clue, that's why I wear mens jeans!
So Gentlemen, I have a question. It doesn't follow the previous format but I figured I'd throw it out here. I have a fellow provider in her late 20’s who occasionally comes to me for advice and this week she came with a situation I have no answer for so I’m hoping y’all can shed some light.
She has a regular who she has seen a few times in recent weeks with absolutely no issues; she enjoyed him. He wrote a glowing review, tells others she deserves to be spoiled. He’s an older, long time and well established member in the hobbying community who sees providers from all industry segments. In their last appointment he mentioned being a member at a private member spa, she mentioned she’d never been there and would like to go with a client. He contacted her a couple of days later saying he had set up an appointment. They made arrangements, went for the session which was a 2+ hour, fully interactive with my friend being the only provider to provide full service to the client. He drops her home and doesn’t offer her an envelope so she asked if he had something for her. He stammered, says he tipped the attendant exceedingly well then asked her hourly rate which he was already well aware of. She tells him and he offered her less than a single hour, never addressing the two solid hours of work involved. She declined, reiterated her hourly and he paid her for a single hour.
In the past, the only issue clients ever had with this provider was that she was too business like in collecting/counting $ upfront so she’s trying to relax and trust with clients more. There was no confusion in boundaries, she doesn’t socialize with clients off the clock let alone spend 2 hours working, naked providing full service with a client and another woman for free. She's gone over every communication and there should have been no confusion. She genuinely enjoyed this man as a client, he's well liked by all and it's hard to think that he did this on purpose so we've been trying to figure out if there could be another reason.
What I can’t wrap my brain around is how would a man who has been paying providers for years, sees many concurrently, could think that a provider he has been patronizing for only a handful of visits, a woman 30 years his junior would do this for free? I'm confident she was clear in her communications (I've read it all), she doesn't even date because she's a provider and doesn't want any nonsense. Is there any rational explanation that could explain this mans behaviour other than he intentionally fucked her over for $? I’m genuinely asking because I'm the one that told her to trust just a little more once they've proven themselves. I believe when a genuine experience is the goal, there has to be trust on some level. I've never really had an issue like this so I don't know what to tell her. Maybe you Gentlemen can give us some insight…
Smiles, cat
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My take is that maybe he is low on funds and trying his best not to show it.
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Sounds like the client misread the situation badly and should make good.
As for your your friend hopefully this doesn't sour her too badly to your advice. I would say that anytime the nature of sessions change she's clear about her financial expectations. Once that routine is established she can keep things less transactional and none of the parties can say they didn't know.
As for your your friend hopefully this doesn't sour her too badly to your advice. I would say that anytime the nature of sessions change she's clear about her financial expectations. Once that routine is established she can keep things less transactional and none of the parties can say they didn't know.
