Ass Fingering AKA Prostate Massage

[jumpingjackflash]

I have met a new lady in my life. We have been together about 3 weeks. Last night for the first time while we were having sex, she tried putting her finger into my ass. I am in my 30's and I have never experienced this, I clenched my butt cheeks tight and just wouldn't let penetrate.

She called me silly, got up and walked away. I started thinking, what other place to ask but here, where all the sex positions possible get thrown in the mix.

Guys what do you think, or ladies please fill me in here!

 

[Ang]

Best orgasm you will EVER have...loosen up and try it

 

[Hugojoe]

Its not for everyone Repo I like it only when about to come as it makes the orgasm deeper.

 

[Iambad]

Best orgasm you will EVER have...loosen up and try it

Ang you HOMO :twisted:

 

[Jawbone]

Come on Repo SPREAD dem cheeks and live a little. Let your lady wiggle it a little bit, you'll love it.

 

[iceman_dci]

OR

 

[Demien2k5]

It's a great experience dude, but as a noob, you'll enjoy it much more if your lady takes some time to warm you up a bit before deep penetration. Get her to do some sensual, wet rimming for you, then maybe some very lubed external digital stim, and then start penetrations slowly, bit by bit with one finger only, not too deep. Once your ring relaxes a bit, she'll really be able to slip in another finger, and go deeper to massage your prostate, maybe indulge you / herself in some digital thrusting...you'll know when she actually makes contact with your prostate, as you'll have an unbelievable urge to pee suddenly. Once she gently but persistently massages your prostate and concurrently gives you BBBJ/HJ, you'll reach orgasm very quickly, and it will be incredible!

Trust me on that one, Dude... One of my favorite activities with ladies that are into it too..

 

[Senor Gomes]

It's a great experience dude, but as a noob, you'll enjoy it much more if your lady takes some time to warm you up a bit before deep penetration. Get her to do some sensual, wet rimming for you, then maybe some very lubed external digital stim, and then start penetrations slowly, bit by bit with one finger only, not too deep. Once your ring relaxes a bit, she'll really be able to slip in another finger, and go deeper to massage your prostate, maybe indulge you / herself in some digital thrusting...you'll know when she actually makes contact with your prostate, as you'll have an unbelievable urge to pee suddenly. Once she gently but persistently massages your prostate and concurrently gives you BBBJ/HJ, you'll reach orgasm very quickly, and it will be incredible!

Trust me on that one, Dude... One of my favorite activities with ladies that are into it too..

The master at his best, not for me I rather give it than receive it.

 

[Albino]

I use to enjoy a good prostate massage but having had a battle with a dose of hemorrhoids I now don't partake. I know a little bit too much information.

 

[Friend of Greekster]

The first time I heard about that my girlfriend at the time was reading "Cosmo" at the grocery store and she asked me "So would you go wild if I shoved my finger in your ass? It says so right here!"
My reply was "Of course it would! Does it tell you how the black eye would feel afterwards?"
The old lady behind us in line just about had a heart attack....

 

[Jessica_dark]

I've done many prostate massages and yes it heightens the orgasm for a guy. Sucks your gf didn't warn you....next time try putting things in her ass with no warning and see how she likes it!

 

[pope-of-greenwich]

Assplay with the right woman can be totally hot. Fingers, toes, tongue up my culo, yippie!!!!

 

[JohnFK]

OR

ROTFLMAO at the Family Guy clip!

If all else fails to get to me to cum (sometimes after a busy week of hobbying will make me 'stubborn'), the PM will do it. I call it my 'reset button'.

 

[flora.revel]

One of my most favourite things to do!

Like others mentioned, take it slowly to start. Make sure your nails are groomed and/or wear a glove. Lots of lube (and patience, to begin) goes a long way.