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Babysitting while black': Woman calls police on male babysitter with white children

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Watch the cop's face on the video. He is saying WTF, woman?.

A black babysitter says a woman called the police on him while two white children were in his care.

On Sunday, while babysitting for the 10-year-old daughter and 6-year-old son of his friends Dana Mango and David Parker, Corey Lewis of Marietta, Ga., treated the kids to lunch at a Subway inside Walmart. Afterward, the 27-year-old, who runs the youth mentoring program Inspired by Lewis, was standing with the kids outside his car while the boy finished eating when he noticed a white woman sitting in her car, staring.

“She pulled up alongside us and asked, ‘Are the kids OK?'” Lewis tells Yahoo Lifestyle. “I answered, ‘Why wouldn’t they be?’ She just smirked and drove off.”
The woman circled the parking lot and returned to Lewis’s car, saying, “Can I ask the little girl if she knows who you are?” and Lewis answered, “No, you cannot.” The woman then said, “OK, I will take down your license plate,” and left.

“I asked a few white witnesses if it looked suspicious that I was caring for two white children, and they said ‘Kind of,'” says Lewis. “But the kids were goofing around and eating, and there was no sign of danger.”

Lewis headed to a service station, and while he was pumping gas, he noticed the woman’s car again. Concerned about the children’s safety, he drove to his house, and when he arrived, so did the woman — and a police car.

“I didn’t do anything — the police is here now!” Lewis said in a Facebook Live video with more than 230K views. “I’m being followed and harassed.”
In the video, the officer, whom Lewis says was courteous, spoke to the children, who confirmed Lewis’s identity. “Two white kids being with one black male is suspicious,” Lewis scoffed in the video. “I work with kids every day.”

The officer called the children’s mom, who was aghast at the presumption of the 911 caller. “I thought it was a joke,” Mango tells Yahoo Lifestyle. “I said, ‘Is it because there’s an African-American male driving my kids around?’ and the officer, who was embarrassed and apologetic, said, ‘It appears so.'”

A representative from the Cobb County Police Department did not return Yahoo Lifestyle’s request for comment. The term babysitting while black is being used on Twitter to describe the incident.
Mango said the experience frightened her children. “My son said, ‘The woman followed us because we have peachy skin and Mr. Lewis has brown skin, and she thought he was kidnapping us.’ They were both fearful that Corey wouldn’t be able to babysit them anymore.”

Lewis, who works with a diverse set of children each day, tells Yahoo Lifestyle, “A black man with white children just didn’t look right in this woman’s eyes.”

Babysitting while black: Woman calls police on babysitter
 
Another thing.....if you think someone is following you, don't lead them right to your home! Take 4 right turns around the block...if they are following you, call the cops or go to the police station. If the woman was nuts or out to hurt the kids you might have put them in danger.

What he said.
 
Question is, would the women have approached the little girl to ask her "a question ", if the baby sitter wasn't black ?

The black baby sitter obviously took offense to the women intruding, because he felt it was racial, and was probably correct.

She didn't have to ask the little girl a question if she was genuinely concerned, just strike up a normal conversation with the girl, "are you having fun?"
 
Systemic racism will never go away unless we take these issues a lot more seriously. Don't forget that people in power such as the police force (comprised of mostly white people) are also the gatekeepers of systemic racism.
 
Crimson Angel said:
Systemic racism will never go away unless we take these issues a lot more seriously. Don't forget that people in power such as the police force (comprised of mostly white people) are also the gatekeepers of systemic racism.

Welcome back crimson you were missed.
 
Aww dear... they missed me? :heart::blush2:

Haha, I don't miss them! :biggrin2:
 
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Question is, would the women have approached the little girl to ask her "a question ", if the baby sitter wasn't black ?

The black baby sitter obviously took offense to the women intruding, because he felt it was racial, and was probably correct.

She didn't have to ask the little girl a question if she was genuinely concerned, just strike up a normal conversation with the girl, "are you having fun?"

Or let's go even further.

Turn it around. If the babysitter was white and the children were black would there be cause for concern?

I would definitely say no.

Racial bias is pretty ingrained in all of us whether we admit it or not unfortunately.
 
Maurice Boscorelli said:
Or let's go even further.

Turn it around. If the babysitter was white and the children were black would there be cause for concern?

I would definitely say no.

Racial bias is pretty ingrained in all of us whether we admit it or not unfortunately.

I agree with you Maurice but it will be a hell of a battle to convince them.
 
Maurice Boscorelli said:
Or let's go even further.

Turn it around. If the babysitter was white and the children were black would there be cause for concern?

I would definitely say no.

Racial bias is pretty ingrained in all of us whether we admit it or not unfortunately.

Racial bias is NOT ingrained in me, BUT, people learn by experience, doesn't matter if its race, religion, nationality, cultural, reputations are earned, good or bad, not created.

As far as racism, I have had nothing but good experiences with Sikhs, cool dudes, BUT, how should we look at the helmet issue, is that not racism against non Sikhs.
 
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