jackaubrey
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- May 28, 2011
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Gents and Ladies: A bit of a long diatribe. The C36 BS has me a bit enraged and as one of the quiet majority I need to vent. First:
Stevie Harper, Pete McKay - get the fuck off my cock and outta my sex life!!
Please indulge my nickel (rounded up generously from 2 cents)
In my opinion, in the end, the fight C36 should be about/should be about women - but not women at risk. Women in charge. I'm not a woman and not pretending to speak for them - hell - they're doing OK without our voice.
They'd do better with us out of the shadows but that ain't gonna happen. The fact is, this is a shadow issue and that alone will assure C36 passes.
Ok. Lets assume this really was a Man issue. Ok let's not, cause clearly that's ridiculous: Men don't need protection. We're men - we make the laws. DoH!
Ok. Lets say for the sake of argument assume men and women are almost equal under the law.
Reason being: After all without us men laws, then there would be no protection for women from the god dammed abortionists and sex traffickers and whore mongers. Women, thank us.
Seriously!
Fuck that!
Women of any legal age should be free to do whatever they want, whenever they want, provided it is their choice.
Funny out the right to be a prostitute and right to bear a child get twisted up.
Aside: Why we dudes can't get to stay the fuck out of a woman's right to fuck is lost on me.
I understand that a lot of women are exploited in this sex business and these women should and must be protected and we, yes we, even as a shadow community, need to reach out and protect these women. Dare I say, expose the abusers?
However, there are some women that choose to rent the pleasure of their company for dollars. Nothing wrong with that. And pleasure is at levels: Conversation, dancing, massage, table dance, full on PSE.
If tables were turned, I'm sure Pete McKay would love to get $240 for pleasure of an hour of their "lobbying". And If a couple of SOGs happened in that intercourse, I'm quite sure the Right Honourable Mr McKay would have no quibbles with that either.:biggrin2:
Which raises the point: Should Ottawa based SPs register as lobbyists?
Woops.
I'm quite content to say I have recently had the pleasure of the company some escorts. I'm late to this game. Like some men, my reasons for seeking this pleasure are complicated. No regrets.
Near as I could tell these women were exercising a choice in seeing me. The few whose company I've experience have other jobs, this for them is simply another job. They are young, smart, confident, beautiful.
They were also in my regard: Powerful.
Their reason for the being in the business as I understand is varied: they have "an itch", they are young and attractive women - why not get paid for "it"; they frankly, love fucking; they like, are curious, or just plain love men of all shapes and sizes and 'ehemm" sizes and enjoy the freedom of not been "attached". I'm sure there are more reasons. :biggrin2:
Hell, I suspect they just like the damn power. And, frankly, some of these women probably just like fucking for money!
Whatever! Who's business is the but their own. My experience of the few women I've enjoyed is it seem to be their choice. I've paid them directly not some greasy dude before the elevator. If it were otherwise, frankly, I wouldn't indulge.
Just like it's our man privilege to pay for sex or not, ultimately, earning money for sex should benobody's business but our own.
Where this gets complicated:
Seems us men have invented a moral code and a legal code to supposedly protect women.
It's failed women massively. Worked mostly ok for us men.
It's failed women mostly 'cause we've wrapped it in religion and stupid laws that seek to surpress what is essentially a biological urge - i.e the quest to copulate. (birds, bees, and dogs seem to have this sorted out - where did we go wrong!)
Seems a long time ago men discovered in order to stop women from naturally selecting the best mates, men would have rules and laws and gods and demons to ensure women selected the mates us men wanted.
Thank god women evolved an alternate scheme. They upped their game but they are still on the down side. Wish it would change.
BTW: It is not a biological urge to intimidate, beat, humiliate or otherwise abuse women.
Like the prohibition on booze and the prohibition on sex;the creation of laws supposedly to protect women are doomed to failure.
That said: We should control most human urges where there is an opportunity for those urges to affect others. This is the reason the whole anti-masturbation movement hasn't gained much traction. You want to go it alone -giddy up!
Otherwise sex should and must be between consenting adults. We must fight like hell to keep the kids out. Also we must keep the vulnerable (the poor, the addicted) out.
But otherwise, adults should be free to conduct themselves as adults.
Summary:
Honestly, if I showed up at an escorts door and she said, "Sorry, but you're too fat, short, tall, skinny, ugly, sweaty, old, young etc", I'm pretty sure I'd skulk away. The plain fact is, while as everyman I'm all of these, (I can personally check too many of these off, sadly) the sexual experience professionals I've enjoyed have always had the courage, kindness, respect and decency to provide a thoroughly enjoyable experience that left me feeling skinnier, taller, prettier, younger than I am. I've been lucky so far.
What men are most afraid of?If women are truly equal and we can't hold them down where will the kinky escorts come from? My theory. Same place as always: our parents. Free people make free choices. We may not agree with them but if they are freely chosen who are we to judge. Hell even the Pope would agree with that!
Why these women choose to indulge me and my pleasures? Reasons above and dollars aside, I don't know. Honestly, what attracts women to men and vice versa I will concede is inevitably wrapped in the science of human sexuality which we can agree is deeply complex and at the same time not so much. Certainly money is a huge factor but not essential and here's the simple plain proof:
Me + You = attraction = might fuck = AKA 50/50 failed date experience
Me + You + $$ = attraction = might fuck = AKA 50/50 failed escort experience.
$$ is not always the wildcard!
Bottom line:
The only code that counts in life is respect for all people. (Fuck what a truly heavenly place this world would be if we all adopted this simple rule - don't fuck, steal, pollute, kill, covet what isn't yours!)
But I digress:
Specifically in our realm, the details on the Universal Fucking Code (UFC) is simple:
1. No means fucking NO! That includes further negotiation. NO means NO.
2. Fucking is fucking. Loving is loving. The second in not necessarily a part of the first. That is, sometime fucking is just fucking.
3. I can fuck whomever I want, whenever I want, as long at THEY want to fuck me.
4. If I don't want to fuck you; fuck off!
5. Live and let live.
And btw for the 90 year old granny still in the biz: Fuck on granny! Fuck on!
PS Alalme: Even she wouldn't fuck McKay. Too uptight
Stevie Harper, Pete McKay - get the fuck off my cock and outta my sex life!!
Please indulge my nickel (rounded up generously from 2 cents)
In my opinion, in the end, the fight C36 should be about/should be about women - but not women at risk. Women in charge. I'm not a woman and not pretending to speak for them - hell - they're doing OK without our voice.
They'd do better with us out of the shadows but that ain't gonna happen. The fact is, this is a shadow issue and that alone will assure C36 passes.
Ok. Lets assume this really was a Man issue. Ok let's not, cause clearly that's ridiculous: Men don't need protection. We're men - we make the laws. DoH!
Ok. Lets say for the sake of argument assume men and women are almost equal under the law.
Reason being: After all without us men laws, then there would be no protection for women from the god dammed abortionists and sex traffickers and whore mongers. Women, thank us.
Seriously!
Fuck that!
Women of any legal age should be free to do whatever they want, whenever they want, provided it is their choice.
Funny out the right to be a prostitute and right to bear a child get twisted up.
Aside: Why we dudes can't get to stay the fuck out of a woman's right to fuck is lost on me.
I understand that a lot of women are exploited in this sex business and these women should and must be protected and we, yes we, even as a shadow community, need to reach out and protect these women. Dare I say, expose the abusers?
However, there are some women that choose to rent the pleasure of their company for dollars. Nothing wrong with that. And pleasure is at levels: Conversation, dancing, massage, table dance, full on PSE.
If tables were turned, I'm sure Pete McKay would love to get $240 for pleasure of an hour of their "lobbying". And If a couple of SOGs happened in that intercourse, I'm quite sure the Right Honourable Mr McKay would have no quibbles with that either.:biggrin2:
Which raises the point: Should Ottawa based SPs register as lobbyists?
Woops.
I'm quite content to say I have recently had the pleasure of the company some escorts. I'm late to this game. Like some men, my reasons for seeking this pleasure are complicated. No regrets.
Near as I could tell these women were exercising a choice in seeing me. The few whose company I've experience have other jobs, this for them is simply another job. They are young, smart, confident, beautiful.
They were also in my regard: Powerful.
Their reason for the being in the business as I understand is varied: they have "an itch", they are young and attractive women - why not get paid for "it"; they frankly, love fucking; they like, are curious, or just plain love men of all shapes and sizes and 'ehemm" sizes and enjoy the freedom of not been "attached". I'm sure there are more reasons. :biggrin2:
Hell, I suspect they just like the damn power. And, frankly, some of these women probably just like fucking for money!
Whatever! Who's business is the but their own. My experience of the few women I've enjoyed is it seem to be their choice. I've paid them directly not some greasy dude before the elevator. If it were otherwise, frankly, I wouldn't indulge.
Just like it's our man privilege to pay for sex or not, ultimately, earning money for sex should benobody's business but our own.
Where this gets complicated:
Seems us men have invented a moral code and a legal code to supposedly protect women.
It's failed women massively. Worked mostly ok for us men.
It's failed women mostly 'cause we've wrapped it in religion and stupid laws that seek to surpress what is essentially a biological urge - i.e the quest to copulate. (birds, bees, and dogs seem to have this sorted out - where did we go wrong!)
Seems a long time ago men discovered in order to stop women from naturally selecting the best mates, men would have rules and laws and gods and demons to ensure women selected the mates us men wanted.
Thank god women evolved an alternate scheme. They upped their game but they are still on the down side. Wish it would change.
BTW: It is not a biological urge to intimidate, beat, humiliate or otherwise abuse women.
Like the prohibition on booze and the prohibition on sex;the creation of laws supposedly to protect women are doomed to failure.
That said: We should control most human urges where there is an opportunity for those urges to affect others. This is the reason the whole anti-masturbation movement hasn't gained much traction. You want to go it alone -giddy up!
Otherwise sex should and must be between consenting adults. We must fight like hell to keep the kids out. Also we must keep the vulnerable (the poor, the addicted) out.
But otherwise, adults should be free to conduct themselves as adults.
Summary:
Honestly, if I showed up at an escorts door and she said, "Sorry, but you're too fat, short, tall, skinny, ugly, sweaty, old, young etc", I'm pretty sure I'd skulk away. The plain fact is, while as everyman I'm all of these, (I can personally check too many of these off, sadly) the sexual experience professionals I've enjoyed have always had the courage, kindness, respect and decency to provide a thoroughly enjoyable experience that left me feeling skinnier, taller, prettier, younger than I am. I've been lucky so far.
What men are most afraid of?If women are truly equal and we can't hold them down where will the kinky escorts come from? My theory. Same place as always: our parents. Free people make free choices. We may not agree with them but if they are freely chosen who are we to judge. Hell even the Pope would agree with that!
Why these women choose to indulge me and my pleasures? Reasons above and dollars aside, I don't know. Honestly, what attracts women to men and vice versa I will concede is inevitably wrapped in the science of human sexuality which we can agree is deeply complex and at the same time not so much. Certainly money is a huge factor but not essential and here's the simple plain proof:
Me + You = attraction = might fuck = AKA 50/50 failed date experience
Me + You + $$ = attraction = might fuck = AKA 50/50 failed escort experience.
$$ is not always the wildcard!
Bottom line:
The only code that counts in life is respect for all people. (Fuck what a truly heavenly place this world would be if we all adopted this simple rule - don't fuck, steal, pollute, kill, covet what isn't yours!)
But I digress:
Specifically in our realm, the details on the Universal Fucking Code (UFC) is simple:
1. No means fucking NO! That includes further negotiation. NO means NO.
2. Fucking is fucking. Loving is loving. The second in not necessarily a part of the first. That is, sometime fucking is just fucking.
3. I can fuck whomever I want, whenever I want, as long at THEY want to fuck me.
4. If I don't want to fuck you; fuck off!
5. Live and let live.
And btw for the 90 year old granny still in the biz: Fuck on granny! Fuck on!
PS Alalme: Even she wouldn't fuck McKay. Too uptight
