Calling all hobbyists - what / why / who when looking for the perfect SP

[pagemaster]

To all HUBGFE members I am wondering what makes the perfect SP for you... Looking for your in put... We have all have different opinions on who might be the perfect SP but I am wondering about the session itself
for example my perfect SP would be between 5'6 & 5'9 120 to 129lbs & blonde however I have seen ladies who don't fit that description and have provided service out of this world.

when responding you can provide your ATF as a guide but I more interested in the overall experience

Questions to answer ( suggestions you can provide more if you want )

Who is you ATF

WHAT - makes for a good session, a great session or an out of this world experience?
- what do you require in a session such as GF or PSE and which do you prefer along with the acronyms you expect
- what about her attitude? How much does that impact your session, what is the point you walk out or when you know it's going to be the best ever

Have - you booked from backpages or agency's or both and which do you prefer?

When do you prefer to book? And why? What about in all vs outcall? Advantages disadvantages?

What at about fetishes? Are you into that, and if so what types? Do you like costumes? Roleplay?


i am asking this as a friend of mine is considering opening an agency and would like to know what the hobbyists would like such as myself... I thought I could give her my opinion but that would not be the best overview of all of ushobbyists
please allow any input would be greatly appreciated and I will only share with her the details but no handles....

Feel free to pm me as well

Thanks in advance

 

[Madman]

I think for me attitude and hygiene is number one. The SP has to appear to want to be with me as opposed to doing me a favor spending time with me. Looks are a part of it but I'll take a fun 7 over a boring 10 any day of the week.

I also really believe many ladies only use wipes in between customers. I expect an sp to be freshly showered as am I.

Looks is subjective and what I find attractive somebody else might now. I love tattoos, many blah.

I believe a successful agency will have something for everyone. I would follow the lead of the old BONBONS agency. The ladies made everyone feel welcome, feel like they were a rock star. I can't remember having one oh hum session with Bonbons. I believe Arabella somewhat is following suit in the service department.

 

[pagemaster]

I will start this off

I like incall because I feel it provides me with more privacy however there are locations I won't go or don't feel comfortable with... So I am very careful

To make a session good I look for things most girlfriends would not provide. I mean that if I am putting down my hard earned dollars down I would like to be assured of getting more than most girlfriends so I look for as a must GF with PSE experience so the LFK, DFK, DIGITS, DATY, GF, PSE, RUSSIANS, BBBJ, DT, GREEK (not a must for me but it's good to know if that's an option ), CIM, CIMWS, BBBJDTCIMWS
looks are important she has to have a nice face and a nice body, I like tight tummies and long legs... I have walked in and then politely made up an excuse if they didn't match their pics or they were just down right rude... YesAttitude is huge and I can usually get a good feel how the sessions would go.... I don't like to repeat with ladies but I have found over the years repeating can create a bond that makes the next session even better.... Like Adrianna who is now Indy

I Love lingerie but as many times as I have requested I have only once or twice got what I requested even with booking in advance.... My usual request is sheer lingerie, silk or satin stockings and a nice form fitting dress...
I have used BP's and Agencies alike however I prefer the agency as I find that it's more reliable however the risk with the BP SP can be great if you find a good one but few and far between

i do like role play with the right lady and I am open to most, really like the maid or secretary roles for the ladies, as far as fetishes I love long legs and DATY

If I had to pick just one SP as an ATF it isn't easy but the one I would pick is Sofia ( now retired ) at mirage

 

[pagemaster]

Madman I have not been with Arabelle but I do concur with you on Bonbons... I think that had more to do with beaning able to talk with the ladies online and get a feel for the personality which made your choices must more informed...

So if there was a way to communicate with the ladies that helps?

 

[MIMO]

Must

DFK
Daty
Digits
MS
2sOG
Proper hygiene

All I ask, does not matter what she looks like.

 

[Vongolo]

I hear colored girls do not do well. How true is that?.

 

[User-E]

I hear colored girls do not do well. How true is that?.

Black and East Indian ladies are popular and do well (if they give good service, of course) in the Vancouver market because there aren't very many working out here compared to Ontario. Asian and Quebecois ladies are also popular. So are MILF's ...

:wink2:

 

[Morrow]

I always like to be her first John in the morning.

All I ask.

 

[Cardinal Fang]

I'm all about the experience and attitude. I've had many outings with women who were by all accounts drop dead gorgeous and at best turned out to be just ok in bed. You would think with all the hype that my mind would have been blown away. About 5 years ago I stubbled upon a system that has never led me astray.

1. I look for "women" not girls.
2. Those that have a good sense of humor and are comfortable with their own sexuality make great sex partners.
3. Articulate with a great attitude about sex turns me on. If you can't string a sentence together without swearing then I'm not interested.
4. Love of everything Amish is a bonus.
5. Yes, physical attributes are important but that is so subjective. The main thing is the sexual chemistry that I get from items 1 to 4 above. If I have those then I find a can become aroused by any body type.
6. Eye contact and kissing are very important to me.
7. If they've never been with Madman then I'm in love.

 

[Boing]

 

[bolt.upright]

I'm all about the experience and attitude. I've had many outings with women who were by all accounts drop dead gorgeous and at best turned out to be just ok in bed. You would think with all the hype that my mind would have been blown away. About 5 years ago I stubbled upon a system that has never led me astray.

1. I look for "women" not girls.
2. Those that have a good sense of humor and are comfortable with their own sexuality make great sex partners.
3. Articulate with a great attitude about sex turns me on. If you can't string a sentence together without swearing then I'm not interested.
4. Love of everything Amish is a bonus.
5. Yes, physical attributes are important but that is so subjective. The main thing is the sexual chemistry that I get from items 1 to 4 above. If I have those then I find a can become aroused by any body type.
6. Eye contact and kissing are very important to me.
7. If they've never been with Madman then I'm in love.

I am attracted to the same women as Fang. Apparently.

Except for the Amish thing--that's just weird.

 

[jackaubrey]

I've limited experience in this realm actually just coming up on my first year anniversary. Age and looks challenged, so my reality will be different. Have had great experiences mostly - very fortunate.

Who is you ATF
I get the necessary attitude behind ATF. I need to soften it outta respect for the women. My All Time Experience has been Brandy/Alice @ Arrabellas. I'm far from a player but am fortunate to have met and enjoyed a few "All Stars" prior. These ladies made me feel the most welcome. And then they delightfully and totally screwed the crap outta me.

WHAT - makes for a good session, a great session or an out of this world experience?

Warm welcome. Body language, eye contact that tells me, "I'm glad to meet you and dude, you're so gonna get fucked so hard that you'll want to run away with me." A long sensuous kiss. Respect for requests. A sense of humour: "Dude your ears look just like Brad Pitt's in this light. If I squint my eyes". Confident - She's gorgeous and she knows her way about a man. She wants to play, tease. She touches, strokes, pulls, bites. Attitude: "listen we both know we're here to fuck our brains out. Let me fuck you like you've never been fucked. Let's get this party started." Again, mugg that I am, i've been blown away by most of the ladies I've enjoyed that just wisp me away to Fuckville, then kick me to the door, rode hard and put away wet. I clearly remember leaving one encounter, standing in the elevator lobby with a resident waiting for the car to arrive. Trying to be cool with my dark blue shirt stained with water drops from the shower and realizing too late my belt and zip undone.

Have - you booked from backpages or agency's or both and which do you prefer?
Never booked backpages, likely not too. Too easy for LEO to raise a sting in this day and age and too sketchy. I trust the agency experience.

When do you prefer to book? And why? What about in all vs outcall? Advantages disadvantages?
Email or text. I'm still not sure what you can say or ask for,i.e "Hi. Pornstar escorts, i'd like to book Jessica, and I'd like to cum on her visage and pound her poutine 'til her curds cream."

What at about fetishes? Are you into that, and if so what types? Do you like costumes? Roleplay?
I've a number of fetishes that I can't really ask for. Not so much cheezy costumes, but business dress, innocent dress is interesting to me. Roleplay, I love but need a strong player. FML but one of my early experiences in this realm, Brandy of Bonbons pulled this off to a tee. I completely lost it but she stayed in role much longer. Most fun ever.

If you're pal is starting an agency, hire women who love all kinds of me. Set up a forum to let them talk to one another.

Bottom line for Agencies or Independents. This is the ultimate people business. We're swapping spit, juices, tears (of joy - hopefully) emotions and sometimes, deep secrets. Some men who show up at your door are there for help. We're bearing not only our bits but our hearts, souls, our ego. We're doing it all in the shadows. And we're showing up on your door with all our bags. You're either up for this on not. It's not always just about fucking - if it was, us dudes would have an app for that.
Most of us love, crave, delight in the company of woman.
Be in the business if you want, but if you can't deal with all the other stuff. Carry on.

Apologies for the plain language. No disrespect.

 

[Raiden]

I love sampling new ladies as opposed to ladies that have been tried and tested. I'm into all shapes and sizes so it really boils down to attitude.

 

[Cardinal Fang]

I am attracted to the same women as Fang. Apparently.

*Shudders*

Except for the Amish thing--that's just weird.

Oh I know you want to go down that "rabbit hole" Bolt. Embrace it.....

:biggrin2:

 

[God]

She has to be a virgin.

 

[Cardinal Fang]

She has to be a virgin.

Not gonna lie.

Sometimes it's really hard being this guy's representative on earth.

 

[God]

Not gonna lie.

Sometimes it's really hard being this guy's representative on earth.

Remember how we caught you with an Amish and forgave you?.

To top it off, Amish was Jewish

How easy they forget.

 

[pagemaster]

Thanks for all those who voiced your thoughts to text.... I look forward to hearing from more of you

take away items
1 - Attitude
2 - hygiene
3 - making you feel wanted like she is into it & into you ( could be attitude as well )
4 - kissing
5 - a variety of cultures & backgrounds
6 - Ladies who provide all the acronyms ( ex gf, PSE, LFK, DFK, digits, Russians, Greek, CIM, CIMWS, MSOG, DATY )
7 - virgin???? Not sure if that can be done God, made need your help finding those horny virgins....



Let's lets ad more guys! Here's you chance to have input into a new agency she's still evaluating her options and she wants to make her agency unique and yet able to meet with the expectations while aiming to exceed them. Her biggest concern is the amount of completion in the market. She's looking for that new twist....

i think she should have special event days for example Monday's would be spandex day ( ladies would be dressed - not you lol unless that's what you want of course ) Tuesday would be yoga pants day without undies. Wednesday would secretary day - blouse and tight skirt Thursday would be doctors check up day Friday would be the school girl get the wild weekend started day... Saturday the sexiest lingerie day Sunday would be the good Sunday school girls day dressed in the nice summer dress and heels

Maybe be a special day for a trip to the islands or better yet a duo da

how about a rewards program that actually works......

Thanks to those who have provided input, still open for for suggestions and input

 

[Agent86]

The perfect body for a SP.

 

[Wanker]

The perfect body for a SP.

10/10.