no idea
you see a man pays for dinner and a movie or for the hour.
The difference is semantics no value.
Baz we all pay it is just in the accounting
This is true that during courtship a gentleman usually pays and can pay dearly but the difference is that hopefully through this courtship, love and companionship is the reward. In a pay for play scenario it is simply about the lust, the act , the exchange of bodily fluids only. There is no end reward, no loyalty and no love. One should be free to choose their way of life but what will be the legacy left behind when the end arrives?