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OMG my SO dried up after menopause, she never was INTO it. Even the lube made her feel too slack. She never was open minded or shared her thoughts, had to introduce alternatives which she never did enjoy except CG.
 
paul said:
BR your SO has somewhat similar no sexual interest as my ex. She would do it, but just wasn't into it, so it was mostly hjobs, or as she'd called it, a Wank. When I had cum in those days, just as I was about to cum even just on her leg, she'd jump our the way, so not to get any on her. I said to her relax, it's not sulfuric acid coming out of there, but never changed, so I decided to go single rather than be accused of burning her leg or elsewhere!
Exactly! Though mine doesn't quite jump out of the way, but still it's a big production with her to ask her for even a measly handjob. She whines and moans, about what an inconvenience it is, that she has do yet another handjob after she already did one only last year! So I don't even bother to ask her anymore. She's happy that I don't ask her anymore. Well, other girls can enjoy my company instead, and I enjoy their company more too.

But I also don't have the option of going solo either. I think I've mentioned to you guys that my parents had me circumcised when I was six years old, so I still remember the operation, and have never forgiven them since! It was botched now that I think about it, so many years later. As I don't get any pleasure out of masturbation (even when I was a teenager), so I really need to be in the company of a lovely naked lady, who has to do it for me. It's the only way I can get hard.

skinflute said:
OMG my SO dried up after menopause, she never was INTO it. Even the lube made her feel too slack. She never was open minded or shared her thoughts, had to introduce alternatives which she never did enjoy except CG.
I'm pretty sure mine is an asexual. Yes, that is now a thing! Asexuality is different from hetero-, homo- or bisexuality: it's the complete disinterest or even aversion to sex. Asexuals might still be romantically interested in a partner, just not for sex though. They like the cuddling, not the penetrating.

Asexual Visibility and Education Network
https://www.asexuality.org/en/
 
BR I laughed out loud when I read what you wrote about her complaining that she did a hj only last year!!!
 
I guess I'm lucky. My wife's a total sweetheart and will do whatever I want whenever I want. Never complains but never really gets all that into it or pushes for it. Being balls deep in an SP who is getting into it enough that you have to warn her not to leave marks on your back is jist enpugh to make a man feel alive again. Feel guilty as hell every once in a while cuz other than the lack of passion the Mrs. Is perfect. Meh...what are you gonna do haha.
 
Sounds like you almost have perfection, and just the lack of her desire missing to make it totally perfect. You're one of the luckier ones, as many have zero physical interest, even though they're great on a personal level
 
I guess I'm lucky. My wife's a total sweetheart and will do whatever I want whenever I want.
I am very fortunate too! My wife is good looking, and fit, and would NEVER say NO to me...even if we were fighting. She considers that to be unfair, and also she says why deprive herself from a fuck. Seriously, I could roll her over at 3 30 in the morning out of a sound sleep and she'd be great with that....I have even walked into the kitchen with a boner a few times while she is putting on her makeup, or cooking...she puts everything on hold, and we go at it.
Of course, it's 20 years now, and we are 61, so the experience with a younger, and "strange' model is exciting.
 
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