Damn....

[Blank_Dave]

In an unusual turn of events, for me, I'm feeling a bit frisky Thinking I just might slip into Toronto to address that.

Then I look in the mirror and see my protruding gut, a saggy gut that would make a sharpei's skin look tight, man boobs. Plus I'm sore and fatigued from the gym. I couldn't make some poor young dear suffer that.

 

[Raiden]

Dude you work out like a savage, are you sure your mirror is working properly.

 

[Cardinal Fang]

In an unusual turn of events, for me, I'm feeling a bit frisky Thinking I just might slip into Toronto to address that.

Then I look in the mirror and see my protruding gut, a saggy gut that would make a sharpei's skin look tight, man boobs. Plus I'm sore and fatigued from the gym. I couldn't make some poor young dear suffer that.

I thought my mirror was bad....

 

[Boing]

Dude most of us have hairy backs and asses. Some have male tits too. Who cares, enjoy live as they say it's too short.

Plus if you are paying, pretty sure they won't care what you look like.

 

[a 1 player]

Dude, don't worry about it.

 

[-b]

Dave....nobody is perfect.....We all have our issues.....
You are too hard on yourself......Sweet just do it...Don't think about it.
Just do it......the more you think about it, the more you will find reasons for
not doing it.......It is your choice....we can write all the encouragement to you
but you need to find that courage inside yourself.......

Think of it like you are going away to an Island for 3 years and there will be
No Woman....this is your only chance....Now do it......:anangel:

 

[Detective]

I saw you at the HUBGFE Halloween party last year. You did not look big or huge and after reading how you are working getting into shape lately you should look at least 15 lb lighter. Don't underestimate yourself Dave. No one is perfect, specially not me.

You must work on your positive thoughts more than on your body.

 

[Guido]

Dave if the ladies don't run out scared when they see me, trust me you have nothing to worry about!

 

[a 1 player]

Dave if the ladies don't run out scared when they see me, trust me you have nothing to worry about!

I can attest to that, and I'm ever uglier than he is!

 

[Cardinal Fang]

OMG! This level of self deprecation is starting to concern me. Just how ugly are you guys?:biggrin2:

 

[-b]

Well being a woman....I have to wear a paper bag...not to scare them...:don'twantto-see:/

I get very nervous ....being honest and it takes me awhile to even
pm one of the woman.....or see them........Trust me when I say I
to start to take apart the way I look, my image....etc....also being a woman...

Dave you can......

 

[a 1 player]

OMG! This level of self deprecation is starting to concern me. Just how ugly are you guys?:biggrin2:

Better than some, worse than others.

 

[ipsniffit]

OMG! This level of self deprecation is starting to concern me. Just how ugly are you guys?:biggrin2:

No worries Cardinal, I'm better looking than George Clooney and just a shade below Brad Pitt.

 

[- - -]

Dave, I dont think its your body that needs help, its your self esteem. Women do look at a guys body but what usually seals the deal is the guy's personality and how they make them feel. You need to start seeing everything you can offer a woman, not just what is in the mirror. Even though I think Sentry is the sexiest man alive, its the way that he makes me laugh that I find most attractive. Good luck.

 

[007]

So did you go for it?.

 

[Blank_Dave]

No, I didn't. Turned out I didn't have time even if I did want to.

Looking at who's working tomorrow, though I'm sure I"ll find adequate excuses not to indulge.

 

[HOF]

Dave,

Enough self deprecating behaviour! I met you before you became healthy and you've come such along way.

If you want to increase your altitude, you simply change your attitude! You're a decent guy, stop beating yourself up.


As for the hobby and the ladies, it's really simple:

Clean and hygiene, neat appearance, respect boundaries and requests, be courtesy and polite and enjoy your time.

In real life, it's not much different.

 

[HOF]

Dave, I dont think its your body that needs help, its your self esteem. Women do look at a guys body but what usually seals the deal is the guy's personality and how they make them feel. You need to start seeing everything you can offer a woman, not just what is in the mirror. Even though I think Sentry is the sexiest man alive, its the way that he makes me laugh that I find most attractive. Good luck.

He laughs! :SayWhat?:

 

[Blank_Dave]

As for the hobby and the ladies, it's really simple:

Clean and hygiene, neat appearance, respect boundaries and requests, be courtesy and polite and enjoy your time.

I'll use over analysis as my excuse. Too many to choose from, and none really jump out from the pack. Jane, Katja, Darya, Adriana, oh my...

 

[SillyGirl]

Dave,

Enough self deprecating behaviour! I met you before you became healthy and you've come such along way.

If you want to increase your altitude, you simply change your attitude! You're a decent guy, stop beating yourself up.


As for the hobby and the ladies, it's really simple:

Clean and hygiene, neat appearance, respect boundaries and requests, be courtesy and polite and enjoy your time.

In real life, it's not much different.

I think you meant "a long" and "courteous", Mr. Grammar Policeman.