Define Great Service

[Sophia Sinclair]

Gentlemen,

I am an Independent SP, who genuinely gives my all to each and every client that walks through my incall door. That being said, I am not a mind reader and no matter how hard I try to please everyone, there are always going to be those who are not completely satisfied. It is my belief that not every client is looking for the same thing in terms of service. Is it fair of me to say that a positive experience is the responsibility of both the provider and the client? I feel that good communication is the key to success, as in any relationship. I would really like to know gentlemen's thoughts on this subject, as I always endeavour to improve my service.

Please feel free to share your ideas and I would ask that it be kept as positive as possible. Also bear in mind that this is not an endorsement for me, but a general question that I am sure all ladies and gentlemen alike might find interesting to determine the answer to. I am certain that the responses will vary, as people themselves do, but I am also certain that common themes will be revealed.

Curiously Yours,
Miss Sinful Sophia

 

[UserFriendly]

I am an easy going guy. The only thing that I hate is when she has a chip on her shoulder or gives me attitude.

 

[a 1 player]

For myself, if I get along well with the SP and things don't feel awkward, I usually have a great time. It is not always about the service level, but the comfort level, if I have a feeling the young lass does not want to be there, (or rather not want ME to be there), no matter how great the service I leave feeling disappointed. EVERY TIME, I would prefer less service and more comfort. If my brain is not enticed, by body will not be either.

For a guy like myself I can see how an SP might be a tad intimidated based solely on my physical appearance due to my size and the way I look. Sometimes the personality does not match the appearance.

Just my opinion though.

 

[Guido]

I enjoy an SP that knows how to use her body and loves to tease by showing off her best assets. An SP who is actually in the room because she enjoys her job and what she does.

 

[Madmax]

It's a bonus if she enjoys it as much as I.

That is all I ask.

 

[Hangman]

All the above are excellent points, and Sophia, thanks for creating this thread with such an objective tone. I've seen you and I think you've got the good service thing substantially figured out. It's based on attitude and a sense of genuineness. Some points:

• Location: The physical surroundings do go a long way towards ambiance, so they should reflect the attitude and atmosphere the SP is trying to create.
• The Niceties: Having some drink options on offer is nice, and can really make a difference. Ice water in particular really helps, as I know I tend to get very overheated in the throes of passion. A well-stocked shower and sink encourage a man to use all the toiletries, which improves his hygiene and feels like a little splurge. Good quality towels, mouthwash, and scent-neutral body wash, etc. At the end of the action, having a nice hot washcloth (not wet-wipes) to mop him up is a cheap, easy, but luxurious nicety that I highly recommend.
• Greeting: This, especially on an initial meeting, can be critical. You're both trying to figure each other out and get cues from each other how the session will go. An SP who takes the initiative to invite the man in, welcome him, show some affection, etc, and sends him off to a shower is a great start. Some guys are shy, so some cheerful chat while getting this stage helps.
• The Action: This will be determined by the client's interests and limits, and by the SP's limits. The key then, is to remain within comfort zone and limits without it feeling like a disappointment. Really good SP's have often diverted my attention from something they don't do (digits, DFK, etc) by doing something new and delightful I didn't expect, like a novel position such as the Throat Swab, or a prostate massage. While many men know what they like, chances are the good SP has some tricks in her repetoire he hasn't seen yet. Those make for a memorable experience.
• The Fantasy: The best service makes a man feel like a million bucks. He doesn't have any of the guilt or disappointment that would occur in his 'civilian' sex life. HE gets the fantasy of being the only man on earth who was able to satisfy an insatiable sex-crazed gorgeous woman. He knows he really iusn't, but artfully creating the illusion, just for a while, is what most guys are really paying for.
• PSE/GFE Alphabet soup: Overall, menus are helpful on websites and ads to help the selection process, but I don't think they belong in the session. A good SP (as I've alluded to above) can communicate her limits in a friendly, cheerful manner, so that the guy never feels as if he's approached or crossed a boundary. This takes extraordinary insight and empathic connection from the SP (I didn't say it was easy - but theat's why they can charge 10 times what I do for an hour LOL). That said, the client needs to be able to indicate his desires too, even if it's just through a series of grunts and moans as the SP does her thing (well, does his thing, actually).
• Choices: Many SP's ask "What do you like/want?" But a lot of men who are seeing SP's are less confident about saying "I want you to suck my cock, then we'll fuck in a variety positions, finishing off with a deepthroat BBBJ when I'll cum on your face and tits, all with your finger in my ass." Some men find that hard to express to a beautiful, naked stranger. Crazy, right? So I would say that part of really good service is intuiting what a guy wants, and taking him one step further. For the very shy guy, suggesting specific acts does two things: It relieves him of the need to spell out his wished (which can be embarrassing) and allows the SP to guide the session.

 

[PussyScientist]

All the above are excellent points, and Sophia, thanks for creating this thread with such an objective tone. I've seen you and I think you've got the good service thing substantially figured out. It's based on attitude and a sense of genuineness. Some points:

• Location: The physical surroundings do go a long way towards ambiance, so they should reflect the attitude and atmosphere the SP is trying to create.
• The Niceties: Having some drink options on offer is nice, and can really make a difference. Ice water in particular really helps, as I know I tend to get very overheated in the throes of passion. A well-stocked shower and sink encourage a man to use all the toiletries, which improves his hygiene and feels like a little splurge. Good quality towels, mouthwash, and scent-neutral body wash, etc. At the end of the action, having a nice hot washcloth (not wet-wipes) to mop him up is a cheap, easy, but luxurious nicety that I highly recommend.
• Greeting: This, especially on an initial meeting, can be critical. You're both trying to figure each other out and get cues from each other how the session will go. An SP who takes the initiative to invite the man in, welcome him, show some affection, etc, and sends him off to a shower is a great start. Some guys are shy, so some cheerful chat while getting this stage helps.
• The Action: This will be determined by the client's interests and limits, and by the SP's limits. The key then, is to remain within comfort zone and limits without it feeling like a disappointment. Really good SP's have often diverted my attention from something they don't do (digits, DFK, etc) by doing something new and delightful I didn't expect, like a novel position such as the Throat Swab, or a prostate massage. While many men know what they like, chances are the good SP has some tricks in her repetoire he hasn't seen yet. Those make for a memorable experience.
• The Fantasy: The best service makes a man feel like a million bucks. He doesn't have any of the guilt or disappointment that would occur in his 'civilian' sex life. HE gets the fantasy of being the only man on earth who was able to satisfy an insatiable sex-crazed gorgeous woman. He knows he really iusn't, but artfully creating the illusion, just for a while, is what most guys are really paying for.
• PSE/GFE Alphabet soup: Overall, menus are helpful on websites and ads to help the selection process, but I don't think they belong in the session. A good SP (as I've alluded to above) can communicate her limits in a friendly, cheerful manner, so that the guy never feels as if he's approached or crossed a boundary. This takes extraordinary insight and empathic connection from the SP (I didn't say it was easy - but theat's why they can charge 10 times what I do for an hour LOL). That said, the client needs to be able to indicate his desires too, even if it's just through a series of grunts and moans as the SP does her thing (well, does his thing, actually).
• Choices: Many SP's ask "What do you like/want?" But a lot of men who are seeing SP's are less confident about saying "I want you to suck my cock, then we'll fuck in a variety positions, finishing off with a deepthroat BBBJ when I'll cum on your face and tits, all with your finger in my ass." Some men find that hard to express to a beautiful, naked stranger. Crazy, right? So I would say that part of really good service is intuiting what a guy wants, and taking him one step further. For the very shy guy, suggesting specific acts does two things: It relieves him of the need to spell out his wished (which can be embarrassing) and allows the SP to guide the session.

It was just what I was going to say.


Honest :biggrin:

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

Wow, these are great responses!

Hangman and PussyScientist ,

The Action: Admittedly, my menu can expand with comfort level, but that really needs to be explored during a session. Often with regulars I have gone beyond my usual repertoire.

Choices: It surprises me that gentlemen are reluctant to indicate their wants and needs to their SP, whom should be non judgemental, with the operative word here being "should". As a mature SP I always encourage and appreciate openness during a session. Many gentlemen have indicated to me that they are not into Greek, something I rather enjoy, and I do not take it personally.

Keep it cumming guys!

 

[tboy]

SS: I think the reason many guys aren't so forthcoming with their desires is we're used to talking or encountering civvies. In many cases when you say to a civvie: I want you to like my bung hole they'd flip out and call you a perv.......lol (not that I have ever asked or wanted this.....)

Kind of like I say about the muslims who want or expect 100 virgins when they die for allah: Who the fuck wants 100 virgins? I want 100 experienced 28 yr olds who won't freak out and say "you want to put it WHERE"???? lol....

As player says: for me also, it is more about the connection with the lady more than her services. I am more than happy to stay in mish for the hour if we're having a good time and enjoying each other's company. I've been lucky to have had a few ATFs who I got along awesome with.....and knew they were as happy to see me as I was them. (one indicator is if she's already wet by the time we hit the sheets).......

 

[DannyDeVito]

I just like to watch :spiteful: :Nerd:

 

[Firefox]

Without a doubt. Smart call, Sophia.

Is it fair of me to say that a positive experience is the responsibility of both the provider and the client?

 

[-b]

Once again...I am an oddity......:rofl1:

As long as she does not run out the room screaming with fright then we are good...

Ok, Connection, connection.....take their time.....Friendly...
Relaxed and not rush things......So what if things may not happen the first date
there is always the next......:666: or never......:rofl1: then it easy money....:girlkiss:

 

[Intrigued]

All the above are excellent points, and Sophia, thanks for creating this thread with such an objective tone. I've seen you and I think you've got the good service thing substantially figured out. It's based on attitude and a sense of genuineness. Some points:

• Location: The physical surroundings do go a long way towards ambiance, so they should reflect the attitude and atmosphere the SP is trying to create.
• The Niceties: Having some drink options on offer is nice, and can really make a difference. Ice water in particular really helps, as I know I tend to get very overheated in the throes of passion. A well-stocked shower and sink encourage a man to use all the toiletries, which improves his hygiene and feels like a little splurge. Good quality towels, mouthwash, and scent-neutral body wash, etc. At the end of the action, having a nice hot washcloth (not wet-wipes) to mop him up is a cheap, easy, but luxurious nicety that I highly recommend.
• Greeting: This, especially on an initial meeting, can be critical. You're both trying to figure each other out and get cues from each other how the session will go. An SP who takes the initiative to invite the man in, welcome him, show some affection, etc, and sends him off to a shower is a great start. Some guys are shy, so some cheerful chat while getting this stage helps.
• The Action: This will be determined by the client's interests and limits, and by the SP's limits. The key then, is to remain within comfort zone and limits without it feeling like a disappointment. Really good SP's have often diverted my attention from something they don't do (digits, DFK, etc) by doing something new and delightful I didn't expect, like a novel position such as the Throat Swab, or a prostate massage. While many men know what they like, chances are the good SP has some tricks in her repetoire he hasn't seen yet. Those make for a memorable experience.
• The Fantasy: The best service makes a man feel like a million bucks. He doesn't have any of the guilt or disappointment that would occur in his 'civilian' sex life. HE gets the fantasy of being the only man on earth who was able to satisfy an insatiable sex-crazed gorgeous woman. He knows he really iusn't, but artfully creating the illusion, just for a while, is what most guys are really paying for.
• PSE/GFE Alphabet soup: Overall, menus are helpful on websites and ads to help the selection process, but I don't think they belong in the session. A good SP (as I've alluded to above) can communicate her limits in a friendly, cheerful manner, so that the guy never feels as if he's approached or crossed a boundary. This takes extraordinary insight and empathic connection from the SP (I didn't say it was easy - but theat's why they can charge 10 times what I do for an hour LOL). That said, the client needs to be able to indicate his desires too, even if it's just through a series of grunts and moans as the SP does her thing (well, does his thing, actually).
• Choices: Many SP's ask "What do you like/want?" But a lot of men who are seeing SP's are less confident about saying "I want you to suck my cock, then we'll fuck in a variety positions, finishing off with a deepthroat BBBJ when I'll cum on your face and tits, all with your finger in my ass." Some men find that hard to express to a beautiful, naked stranger. Crazy, right? So I would say that part of really good service is intuiting what a guy wants, and taking him one step further. For the very shy guy, suggesting specific acts does two things: It relieves him of the need to spell out his wished (which can be embarrassing) and allows the SP to guide the session.

Great answer lots of informative stuff in there. Throat Swab huh:spiteful:

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

Thank you for your responses Gentlemen!

It would seem that many of you consider "connection" to be more important than "service", per se. An interesting finding that something a lady has little control over is what determines her rating/ranking.

I will still continue to provide excellent servce in the hope that the connection is there in the client's perception.

Sincerely,
Miss SS

 

[LickingGravity]

Thank you for your responses Gentlemen!

It would seem that many of you consider "connection" to be more important than "service", per se. An interesting finding that something a lady has little control over is what determines her rating/ranking.

I will still continue to provide excellent servce in the hope that the connection is there in the client's perception.

Sincerely,
Miss SS

The best sp's are great actresses and it's about making us feel better after having seen you. I don't need greek or cim or a pse experience. I do need a great kisser ( usually there is a correlation there with great bj's as well) and someone who can fake :smiling: genuine affection. Oh and someone who can cum and if she can't then making me think that she at least had fun and wants to do it again sometime soon.

 

[Kyra.Graves]

Training video... :wink:

 

[Foreskin]

Training video... :wink:

Got a boner.

 

[train]

Training video... :wink:

There is a hell of a lot of good advice in that clip, every sp should watch it.

Game of Thrones is a temendous series and has some beautiful naked women and some erotic scenerios almost weekly.

 

[Arnob]

If she gets me off three times in one hour. That's great service.

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

If she gets me off three times in one hour. That's great service.

Now I know your "handle". BigKiss