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SQUISH

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Not keep a secret and turned against you once they found out.

I learned my lesson. Now If someone asks me, can you keep a secret. I say no and walk away.
 
Hell I can keep a secret

for instance I will never tell anyone what closet madman was found in or that peace was hugging whos' what

so don't ask
 
papasmerf said:
Hell I can keep a secret

for instance I will never tell anyone what closet madman was found in or that peace was hugging whos' what

so don't ask

I won't.
 
yup, I've told people secrets that come back to haunt me......some people just can't keep their mouths shut....so now? I don't tell anyone anything that I don't want spread around.....
 
tboy said:
yup, I've told people secrets that come back to haunt me......some people just can't keep their mouths shut....so now? I don't tell anyone anything that I don't want spread around.....
+1
 
papasmerf said:
Hell I can keep a secret

for instance I will never tell anyone what closet madman was found in or that peace was hugging whos' what

so don't ask

do you mean I was hugging you and you loved it....ok I wont tell. :biggrin2:
 
When a "friend" needs to confess something to me I tell them that they should go see their Priest or Rabbi.

I don't have the room in my conscience anymore to keep secrets for people.
 
I tell them it will be costing them $50 a month to keep me silent and if it's really juicy it could run $75
 
1. There's no such thing as a secret

2. Odds are, you're not the only person who knows. Don't flatter yourself, or believe the flattery.
 
Jesus Quintana said:
When a "friend" needs to confess something to me I tell them that they should go see their Priest or Rabbi.

I don't have the room in my conscience anymore to keep secrets for people.

LOL. It sucks, I'm an atheist who can keep a secret, and apparently I'm OK at listening and giving advice / comfort. I have a collection of secrets than run from banal to horrific, yet I'm too paranoid to let other people in on my (not so monstrous) secrets.

Though I actually enjoy the advice giving. How can you be a friend if you can't help carry a load? Though I do extend the word 'friend' cautiously...
 
The Options Menu said:
How can you be a friend if you can't help carry a load? Though I do extend the word 'friend' cautiously...

Actually its simple for me.
In the past I was too often told a "secret" by someone who should have been telling that to their significant other. I discovered that the secret became a debt that they saddled on you.

Other secrets that I've been told can also qualify me as being an "accessory after the fact".

Everyone knows where Jimmy Hoffa was buried. It's an open secret.
 
Jesus Quintana said:
Actually its simple for me.
In the past I was too often told a "secret" by someone who should have been telling that to their significant other. I discovered that the secret became a debt that they saddled on you.

Other secrets that I've been told can also qualify me as being an "accessory after the fact".

That would be the extend the word 'friend' cautiously bit... :)
 
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If you reveal your secrets to the wind, you should not blame the wind for revealing them to the trees.
Khalil Gibran

There are no secrets that is what I feel. Once you share your secret it is not a secret anymore, it sad
but true.....So I have no secrets and I try not to get into people who want to tell secrets.....
If you need to share and have no one tell your secrets, go to therapy....





 
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