Women are takers. Men are givers. Women have abundance (due to vagina), men have scarcity (due to sex drive).
Women have no shame about taking more than they contribute in a relationship. They will admit it openly that they want a guy who has a good job, good career, makes good money and can 'provide' for them. As a man, I never think about what a woman does for a living. But, it is the first thing a woman thinks about in terms of finding a man. One can't use the excuse of kids and family because many women don't want a family but still want a wealthy man.
MGTOW sprinkled with escorts is the only solution.