Do you care how she feels or what she thinks?

[El Fantasma]

On the one side with guys bringing all sorts of personal gifts the first time they meet a girl on the one hand, to guys who couldn't be bothered to shower. Then, there's the issue of "pillow talk". Do you want to have conversations, or just STFU and do what you're paying her for. How do you feel about what impression you give to them as a customer? Does it matter to you?

 

[Lone Wolf]

You only have one chance to make a good first impression. It's a well known phrase in business, but it applies in real life as well.

If you are a gentleman, well groomed, kind and considerate, with a nice sense of humor, and excellent hygiene, there is no reason that you shouldn't have a wonderful session.

 

[LickingGravity]

I actually enjoy talking to sp, but then I tend to pick girls that show some hint of brains in their advertising material. I've found I've learned a lot about different sexual tastes and practices just by talking. You have to admit it's kind of a wierd situation and a little chat makes it less so. It can also be erotic.

Do I care what they think of me. Yes 95% of the time. Who wants any good looking woman to think you're anything but a nice guy? The other 5% are the women that I think are jerks in which case I don't care.

 

[blissful]

For me being a woman , I like talking and laughing. I always say, I am not a guy so for me it is nice to have a women who is good at what she does. I am getting way better but I do care how people think of me, my personality and I like when I hit it off with an sp.

I also enjoy women with brains. That if I do start a conversation they can follow it. I also enjoy learning so if they start talking about something I do not know I listen then I go home and read up on it. Like let say Virginia Woolf, Motorcycles or gels.:happy:

The best time I have ever had was when I met a woman that I felt we were equal and it only just happened.:happy:

 

[Rebecca Richardson]

If you want to optimize your service levels you probably should care, to some extent. Maybe not a long, involved conversation but the closer you can get to a genuine connection, the better your service will be. I know a blowjob with someone I like will always be more intense than a blowjob with someone who walks in, showers, and presents themselves.

There's an extra dimension of caring/interaction/social touch that enhances everything you do with someone, and there's no reason you ought to spend your hard-earned money on anything but the best possible experience for yourself.

 

[Cycleguy007]

Well its no secret I am no authority on "hobbying" but I am very familiar with human nature, and it would stand to reason this would likely be a direct link to improving one's YMMV?

 

[Bear669]

Duh!

Duh!

Do you care how she feels or what she thinks? the one side with guys bringing all sorts of personal gifts the first time they meet a girl on the one hand, to guys who couldn't be bothered to shower. Then, there's the issue of "pillow talk". Do you want to have conversations, or just STFU and do what you're paying her for. How do you feel about what impression you give to them as a customer? Does it matter to you?

Note below: LAP Bear!

 

[smylee52]

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She should know you are genuinely happy to be seeing her . The happier you are the happier she will want to make you . You improve her day a little and she will improve your day a lot .

 

[tboy]

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She should know you are genuinely happy to be seeing her . The happier you are the happier she will want to make you . You improve her day a little and she will improve your day a lot .

Well, you never can tell with sp's since they do tend to BS somewhat I think that if you treat them with dignity, respect, and listen to them, get to know THEM and make the encounter about both of you, you end up winning in the end.

I mean, there are signs that they do truly want to be there, like if they seem to be genuinely pleased to see you, or they book on just to see you, etc. So yeah, caring how they feel, what they think etc is something you should do.

I treat them like I would any woman I brought over to my place. I forget that they're an sp, and treat them how I would want to be treated.