Do you feel jealous about an escort girl?

[JennyT]

I realized I get jealous sometimes if I like someone.
And it's not my place at all, to get jealous. But I still do, if I imagine the person that I saw under escort arrangement can enjoy someone else just as much.

 

[Patron]

Not at all. It's a business for them so most guys know not to fall for them.

 

[Leo]

Not getting it.

 

[Voicer]

You mean if he sees another escort?

 

[cristy]

I realized I get jealous sometimes if I like someone.
And it's not my place at all, to get jealous. But I still do, if I imagine the person that I saw under escort arrangement can enjoy someone else just as much.

If you have those feelings Jenny Escorting may not be for you. A client is just that...he comes and he goes, or he comes once, forgive the pun. Clients are not people you should want to attach yourself to, nor form emotions for. The bond developed between escort and client should be an informal one, not one with conventional ties. Although some serious relationships have developed within these boundaries, they are also the minority.For example,I know of a women who married one of her clients .
To keep your self sane and emotionally secure know that as much as one client may fawn over you, he/she most likely is fawning over another at a different time. That is the biz. You see multiple people, and often times, they do also. Take care of yourself, enjoy the company when you have it, and forget them until they return. That is the model I follow.However if you can't, then be honest with that person you like and see if their feelings are reciprocal, or one sided. All while being aware that some can be manipulative and take advantage of those that are emotionally vulnerable.

 

[Jamal]

I am not the jealous type but do see your point.

 

[JennyT]

I was thinking about it. Yes, I have those feelings. And in my personal experience the relationships in this career that I actually enjoyed were with feelings and were really long. I don't like being jealous at all, but sometimes it comes. But I also realize that with jealousy comes a lot of good things.
I would never cross any lines, but also I don't want to cut off the feelings, because they highlight the experience (and I'm talking about years-lasting experiences, not the one-time ones).
So the option is whether to cut both or experience both? Or experience both and just try to remove the negative part?
Strangely enough, in this hobby feelings might be the most enjoyable thing that I had. That and feeling free to express myself without imaginary judgement.

It goes without saying that "this is just a business arrangement and should be", but for me it's much more than that, although it did bring to both disappointment and even some complications from the opposite side.

 

[Prick]

Hmmm, don't we pay for it not to get jealous?. Jenny, PM me so we can meet and if hot or not I won't get jealous. Promise not.

 

[JennyT]

You know, in "long-lasting paying" a guy can see the jealousy as a sign of caring. I almost saw disappointment a few times when I behaved like there was none at all.
Obviously I would make sure that if I ever feel anything like that it won't show. But I did experience situation when a person expected me to admit jealousy to confirm the fact that I cared.
In ideal world, I would experience only pleasant emotions without jealousy or possession attached.

 

[demien3k5]

You raise an interesting question Jenny.

The 'unicorn' of the escorting industry, from the hobbyist's perspective, has always been the elusive 'True GFE'. As anyone who has ever encountered this type of experience in a pay-for-play situation probably already knows, you really can't 'fake' a TGFE. For that matter, you really can't even fake a real GFE. The sincerity required to deliver this level of intimacy is not something that can be flipped like an on/off switch. You either feel the real deal, or you immediately recognize the falseness of the interaction(s). So many escorts claim to offer a GFE but either their outright lack of emotion, or deliberate withholding of emotion will always be recognizable by their partner. Some are unaffected by this, others are invariably disappointed. Some try to call it out as outright deception, but most will chalk it up to what is commonly referred to as lack of chemistry.

Jenny - my guess, based on your posts, is that you are likely always trying to offer as close to a real GFE encounter as the client's behavior will permit. This being the case, it's only reasonable to expect that with the degree/type of intimacy and emotional investment you'd be prone to experiencing all the peripheral by-products of these investments - including jealously. Seems normal to me, and you shouldn't beat yourself up for being a real woman, with real feelings and emotions that you want to share.

Few clients are fooled or satisfied by their experiences with emotionless, 'business only' automatrons. They typically come across as cold and insensitive, which invariably translates into less than fulfilling sexual encounters.

Whatever you are doing, the emotional commitment you appear to extend to your patrons must be being recognized, especially by the repeat and long-term regulars. Keep doing that. Good for you, good for them, good for everybody. You'll probably have a fuller, more satisfying life experience, and a more profitable career as well!

Denying yourself the opportunity to feel emotions of any kind never benefits anyone in the long run.

 

[JJ Mitchell]

Look at that. The real God is back Praise-Bowing

 

[Prick]

You raise an interesting question Jenny.

The 'unicorn' of the escorting industry, from the hobbyist's perspective, has always been the elusive 'True GFE'. As anyone who has ever encountered this type of experience in a pay-for-play situation probably already knows, you really can't 'fake' a TGFE. For that matter, you really can't even fake a real GFE. The sincerity required to deliver this level of intimacy is not something that can be flipped like an on/off switch. You either feel the real deal, or you immediately recognize the falseness of the interaction(s). So many escorts claim to offer a GFE but either their outright lack of emotion, or deliberate withholding of emotion will always be recognizable by their partner. Some are unaffected by this, others are invariably disappointed. Some try to call it out as outright deception, but most will chalk it up to what is commonly referred to as lack of chemistry.

Jenny - my guess, based on your posts, is that you are likely always trying to offer as close to a real GFE encounter as the client's behavior will permit. This being the case, it's only reasonable to expect that with the degree/type of intimacy and emotional investment you'd be prone to experiencing all the peripheral by-products of these investments - including jealously. Seems normal to me, and you shouldn't beat yourself up for being a real woman, with real feelings and emotions that you want to share.

Few clients are fooled or satisfied by their experiences with emotionless, 'business only' automatrons. They typically come across as cold and insensitive, which invariably translates into less than fulfilling sexual encounters.

Whatever you are doing, the emotional commitment you appear to extend to your patrons must be being recognized, especially by the repeat and long-term regulars. Keep doing that. Good for you, good for them, good for everybody. You'll probably have a fuller, more satisfying life experience, and a more profitable career as well!

Denying yourself the opportunity to feel emotions of any kind never benefits anyone in the long run.

Waiting for the response.

 

[cristy]

Waiting for the response.

:rofl!::rofl!:

 

[Beached]

I feel jealous at times, I know it is irrational and I get over it pretty quickly.
A lady I see asked me if I had seen a certain other provider and admitted that she would feel jealous if I had.
Best practice is to avoid talking and thinking about other providers and clients and enjoy the fantasy for the time you paid for.

 

[blackram]

I realized I get jealous sometimes if I like someone.
And it's not my place at all, to get jealous. But I still do, if I imagine the person that I saw under escort arrangement can enjoy someone else just as much.

Yes, when I was new into this hobby, I had fallen hard for some of the girls who I saw regularly. I hated the idea that they did things with other guys that they did with me. The reason I saw them regularly was because they had a connection with me, we could both see it, but in the end it was still just a business transaction. It happened in both directions, where girls wanted to get serious with me, but I wasn't interested.

I think this is only natural. Unlike in any other form of businesses, this business is built on building deep but temporary emotional connections between clients and providers. Is it any wonder that sometimes these emotions don't remain temporary?

 

[johnny77]

I realized I get jealous sometimes if I like someone.
And it's not my place at all, to get jealous. But I still do, if I imagine the person that I saw under escort arrangement can enjoy someone else just as much.

It is what it is. Don't think about it.

 

[Akila Besos]

Hmm when i started SP maybe i did but after awhile i just stopped feeling jealous because I am there to sell a fantasy for a man. Sides if i was jealous it would just complicate the matters for me and a client

 

[Beached]

Hmm when i started SP maybe i dud but after awhile i just stopped feeling jealous because I am there to sell a fantasy for a man. Sides if i was jealous it would just complicate the matters for me and a client

A lady I see admitted she would feel jealous if she saw me with another lady.
I am jealous of the other guys she sees but I know that is just silliness on my part.

 

[Akila Besos]

A lady I see admitted she would feel jealous if she saw me with another lady.
I am jealous of the other guys she sees but I know that is just silliness on my part.

I feel like a situation like that can just lead to a messy outcome.But atleast you know the clear line one must draw when seeing an SP and keeping those feeligs in check

 

[Beached]

I feel like a situation like that can just lead to a messy outcome.But atleast you know the clear line one must draw when seeing an SP and keeping those feeligs in check

I think she would be more jealous of the loss of income than any emotional attachment lol.