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Do you spank your kids/ Have you ever been spanked as a child?.

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Physical punishment including pushing, grabbing, shoving, slapping, hitting, and spanking in the absence of more severe child abuse is associated with an increased risk of mental disorders including mood disorders, anxiety disorders, substance abuse, substance dependence, and personality disorders, says a new study published in the August 2012 issue of the journal Pediatrics.

https://www.inquisitr.com/267270/do...-punishment-linked-to-mental-disorders-study/

A father from Queensbury, New York, faces felony assault charges, after spanking his 6-year-old son last weekend. Jeffrey Lamphear, 39, allegedly hit his child on the buttocks.

According to Lamphear, he was disciplining his son. He told the police that is is possible that he spanked his child harder than he thought he did, but asserts the child was only spanked, and that the spanking was done as punishment.


The authorities were notified when the child's mother discovered bruising and welts on the child's buttock. According toWNYT News, the child's mother took her son , when she saw the marks on her son's buttocks. There were no marks elsewhere on the child's body, according to the most updated report. The police say the boy did not sustain serious injuries.

As well as facing felony assault charges, Lamphear has been ordered to stay away from his child. According to social media discussion, Lamphear is being both condemned and supported for the way he disciplined his child.

"Definitely not applauding him, however, some kids bruise easy. I know me and my kids do. He looks like a big man so he probably did spank a little harder than he should have however, I wasn't there, can't judge,"
Rachel Thomas-Baker from New York wrote.

"This story is ridiculous! Felony I think not. Spanking a child is up to the parent not the cops or our legal system. Sounds like the mom is out for revenge on her former lover. If he does not have a record and this is the first time and the child has no other welts or black and blue marks case closed. He's 6 I'm sure he can tell what's going on," Cas Pearsall wrote.


"This is what often happens with corporal punishment. People get carried away in their own anger. The answer? Stop using it. There are better, more effective ways to discipline (teach) a child right from wrong. The only thing hitting teaches is hitting and fear,"
Betsy Williams Briggs wrote.

New York penal code
does not generally consider spankings by a parent illegal. Physical force used upon a child is legally justified, according to New York law, if a parent is disciplining a child and provided that it is not deadly force.

The parent must also reasonably believe that the extent of the punishment is needed to maintain discipline.

"A parent, guardian or other person entrusted with the care and supervision of a person under the age of twenty-one or an incompetent person, and a teacher or other person entrusted with the care and supervision of a person under the age of twenty-one for a special purpose, may use physical force, but not deadly physical force, upon such person when and to the extent that he reasonably believes it necessary to maintain discipline or to promote the welfare of such person."


Legislation has been discussed in New York that would restrict the kind of physical force a parent would legally be permitted to use.

"Currently the penal law allows the use of physical force, other than deadly force, to be used by a parent, guardian or teacher to the extent that he reasonably believes it necessary to maintain discipline," the penal code amendment proposal explained in bill S266-2011.

More recent legislation was written to change the wording of the law such that physical force would be allowed "except if such physical force leads to significant physical or emotional harm constituting an offense upon such person." So far, the code remains on the books the same was it has been written since the 70s.

What do you think? Should this father face felony assault charges and be restricted from seeing his son for spanking him and leaving bruises and welts on his buttocks?

[Photo via Warren County Sheriff]




https://www.inquisitr.com/1701333/f...ing-his-six-year-old-son/#kIhP6rYopqjZ6oxo.99


 
Father Calls Police To Witness His 12-Year-Old Daughter's Punishment: Four Spankings, Using A Paddle


A Florida police officer from the Okeechobee County Sheriff's Office was called to witness a 42-year-old man spanking his 12-year-old daughter as a form of discipline on Monday.

The responding police officer detailed the specifics of the police-supervised spankings in an incident report stating that the father wanted the police officer to stand and watch as he spanked his 12-year-old daughter with a paddle.

The deputy wrote in the incident report that he looked on while the father
spanked his pre-teen daughterfour times on the buttocks with a paddle, according to aTodayreport.


Undersheriff Noel Stephentold WPBF that the fathers request is not the first of its kind that theOkeechobee County Sheriffs Office has handled.

More parents are concerned about legal implications of spankings, even in states where corporal punishment laws are lax, the reports indicate. Just after Christmas, It was reported that a father in New York, where spankings and other forms of physical discipline are permitted, was
facing felony assault charges.

Given parents fears of legal repercussions and the popularity of spankings as discipline, some parents have turned to calling the police to supervise the spankings, according to reports.

It happens, Stephen told WPBF, explaining that he has personally supervised 12 spankings. Its definitely not something we advertise to do, and even though law enforcement has been willing to help out in this situation, watching a parent discipline their child is something thats done only when a deputy has no other calls to handle.

The incident report stated that the Floridian father wanted an officer to watch as he spanked his 12-year-old daughter on the buttocks with a paddle for his own protection after his daughter got into a very heated argument with her sister.

After the spanking, the deputy stated that the father committed no crime, and so he left the residence having witnessed the spanking as requested.

While some parents feel police-supervised spankings are a good idea, others are upset that parents feel that their parental rights must be waning if parents feel the need to issue spankings with police supervision.

Can't spank a 12 year old unless cops supervise? Interesting. My Grandmother would be laughing in her grave. She gave us a whipping with a willow switch. No police supervision, a poster identified as Mickey2942 wrote on the WPBF article.
 
Louis XIV said:
clearly, bob now has some serious competition. :LMAO:

better put on some coffee before Bob replies.

what is the over under on his sisters beating him?
 
Valetdriver said:
Father Calls Police To Witness His 12-Year-Old Daughter's Punishment: Four Spankings, Using A Paddle


A Florida police officer from the Okeechobee County Sheriff's Office was called to witness a 42-year-old man spanking his 12-year-old daughter as a form of discipline on Monday.

The responding police officer detailed the specifics of the police-supervised spankings in an incident report stating that the father wanted the police officer to stand and watch as he spanked his 12-year-old daughter with a paddle.

The deputy wrote in the incident report that he looked on while the father
spanked his pre-teen daughterfour times on the buttocks with a paddle, according to aTodayreport.


Undersheriff Noel Stephentold WPBF that the fathers request is not the first of its kind that theOkeechobee County Sheriffs Office has handled.

More parents are concerned about legal implications of spankings, even in states where corporal punishment laws are lax, the reports indicate. Just after Christmas, It was reported that a father in New York, where spankings and other forms of physical discipline are permitted, was
facing felony assault charges.

Given parents fears of legal repercussions and the popularity of spankings as discipline, some parents have turned to calling the police to supervise the spankings, according to reports.

It happens, Stephen told WPBF, explaining that he has personally supervised 12 spankings. Its definitely not something we advertise to do, and even though law enforcement has been willing to help out in this situation, watching a parent discipline their child is something thats done only when a deputy has no other calls to handle.

The incident report stated that the Floridian father wanted an officer to watch as he spanked his 12-year-old daughter on the buttocks with a paddle for his own protection after his daughter got into a very heated argument with her sister.

After the spanking, the deputy stated that the father committed no crime, and so he left the residence having witnessed the spanking as requested.

While some parents feel police-supervised spankings are a good idea, others are upset that parents feel that their parental rights must be waning if parents feel the need to issue spankings with police supervision.

Can't spank a 12 year old unless cops supervise? Interesting. My Grandmother would be laughing in her grave. She gave us a whipping with a willow switch. No police supervision, a poster identified as Mickey2942 wrote on the WPBF article.


This is outrageous.
 
Been spanked by the best of them. Broom stick, iron board, my own hockey stick and of course that lethal black belt.

I turned out to be just fine.
 
What Silly /Weird Things Everyone Did As Kids ?. Go ahead make your day.

What Silly /Weird Things Everyone Did As Kids ?. Go ahead make your day.

I liked my thumb way pas 8 years old.

 
Jumping of the garage roof

Swimming in the creek

fixing my own bike

polishing the wood floor at the bottom of the stairs to my sister's bedroom with Pledge

being home when the street lights came on or else

playing outside most every day
 
Walking home after school, seeing how far down the brook I could walk in the wintertime before falling through the ice.
Continuing to walk home with jeans frozen stiff as a board.
 
Building snow forts. Making snow angels. Building igloos. Making skating rinks. Building tobogganing hills. Having snowball fights. Playing frozen tag. Going ice skating. Taking 15 minutes to get geared up ready to go outside.

Loooooooong winters where I grew up.
 
Buying cigarettes for Dad.

Going to the corner to buy liquor in a brown paper bag from 'Gator the Pimp' for Mom.

Learned to identify all Gramma's pills by their actual pharmacological names.

Playing 'Silent-as-a-Ghost' in the dark apartment when the landlord knocked looking for rent money.

Learning to sign my name properly on bail bond release forms.

Learning to keep the fire under the still at a constant temperature so that the mash didn't boil too high and ruin the 'shine'

.....the usual stuff. Man I miss being a kid.
 
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