Doing it with a condom.

[Bubba]

I last longer when wearing a condom. Found out when my girlfriend wanted to use one for the sake of change. Now she wants me to use it all the time. It sucks for me but gets her off more often. You dudes last longer when you use one?.

 

[Johnnybehorny]

No, I am good with or without it.

 

[a 1 player]

I might be wrong here, but it sounds a tad odd to me when a partner in a 'committed' relationship asks their partner to wear a condom 'full time'. Just sayin'.

 

[thetank]

I might be wrong here, but it sounds a tad odd to me when a partner in a 'committed' relationship asks their partner to wear a condom 'full time'. Just sayin'.

I agree A1. That would set off major infidelity alarm bells for me.

thetank

In response to your question, I never have a problem lasting with or without a condom; however, I do last longer with a condom since there is reduced stimulation.

Men who have an issue with premature ejaculation (and I am not saying this is what you have Bubba, but the topic seems related and might be useful info for people reading the thread) can sometimes get help by using a condom because it reduces stimulation. Another option would be taking an anti-depressant since these medications often delay orgasm as a side effect.

thetank

 

[Cycleguy007]

I last longer when wearing a condom. Found out when my girlfriend wanted to use one for the sake of change. Now she wants me to use it all the time. It sucks for me but gets her off more often. You dudes last longer when you use one?.

Sounds odd Bubba... Why does she want you to use one? :shock:

Not sure what it feels like for a woman, but Mrs. CG doesn't like the feel of them either. Says she prefers the feel of skin on skin. And she also doesn't like the taste. :???:

Having said this, "lasting" is rarely an issue for us though...

 

[docboy]

Never had sex without a condom, and I don't last too long with one.

As for the concerns about why you're being asked to wear a condom all the time, I don't see the worry. Maybe she's off the pill. Maybe she just wants to be doubly safe. It takes two to tango, so don't go looking a gift horse in the mouth here. You're getting regular tail.

 

[smylee52]

I last longer when wearing a condom. Found out when my girlfriend wanted to use one for the sake of change. Now she wants me to use it all the time. It sucks for me but gets her off more often. You dudes last longer when you use one?.

Yes. Condoms reduce sensation so it makes sense guy's last longer . I hope for round 2 she is OK with no condom :happy: .

 

[Bubba]

I hope for round 2 she is OK with no condom :happy: .

Yes she is. You guys make out too much of it. Since you all have been asking, reason she asked for condom was because I was horny and she was just ending her period. Don't ask me why, sloppy with or without it was fine with me. Have you ever tried to argue with a woman?. There so it happened.

We went to a sex shop, guess what?. I bought a cock ring:gasp:. OK, laugh all you want but they work.

 

[Blank_Dave]

Another option would be taking an anti-depressant since these medications often delay orgasm as a side effect.

Ummmmm NO!! Trust me on this, that is no damned fun! Some antidepressants do indeed delay orgasm, others will squish your libido, and even others can do both!! And you really don't know what it will do to you until you're on them.

Time for a little hijacking...And a history lesson while we're at it.
As has been said before, I've suffered depression for a very long time, but I won't go into that. I would also masturbate nightly, in what I believe now was more for stress relief than pleasure, but anyhow...

After I got my cherry popped last year, and I acknowledged my depression, I found my rate of masturbation dropped off considerably, but I was still doing it a couple of times a week.

Then I got started on Cymbalta. It's not supposed to effect one's libido, but it can delay orgasms.

Sounds pretty cool, eh? Stuff makes you last longer! Until I tried a couple of solo tests. Yeah, it did take a bit longer to reach O levels of stimulation. And that's when it all went away. All I can say is it felt like someone hit the reset button, just as I was about to blow. One second I'm ready to pop a nut, the next I'm right back at square one. It took me three tries before I got off. And it wasn't an isolated incident, this kept occurring. I found this to be very frustrating, and my libido started to drop off as well.

Then I got Welbutrin added to the cocktail. Welbutrin is known to counter the libido killing nature of other antidepressants. Well, my sex drive did comeback...But my ability to cum didn't....My last outing, with one of TO's finest, saw a 2 hour session end in 0 SOG!! She tried her hardest to get it out of me. She had me tripping on the edge of the big O for what had to be an hour, and I still couldn't go over. It was torture....Delicious torture, but torture none the less.

My last two attempts at masturbation have ended similarly....A tired arm, a sore dick and no orgasm.

Sure antidepressants will help you last longer...But they'll probably fuck it up in the process too.

 

[j]

Ummmmm NO!! Trust me on this, that is no damned fun! Some antidepressants do indeed delay orgasm, others will squish your libido, and even others can do both!! And you really don't know what it will do to you until you're on them.

Time for a little hijacking...And a history lesson while we're at it.
As has been said before, I've suffered depression for a very long time, but I won't go into that. I would also masturbate nightly, in what I believe now was more for stress relief than pleasure, but anyhow...

After I got my cherry popped last year, and I acknowledged my depression, I found my rate of masturbation dropped off considerably, but I was still doing it a couple of times a week.

Then I got started on Cymbalta. It's not supposed to effect one's libido, but it can delay orgasms.

Sounds pretty cool, eh? Stuff makes you last longer! Until I tried a couple of solo tests. Yeah, it did take a bit longer to reach O levels of stimulation. And that's when it all went away. All I can say is it felt like someone hit the reset button, just as I was about to blow. One second I'm ready to pop a nut, the next I'm right back at square one. It took me three tries before I got off. And it wasn't an isolated incident, this kept occurring. I found this to be very frustrating, and my libido started to drop off as well.

Then I got Welbutrin added to the cocktail. Welbutrin is known to counter the libido killing nature of other antidepressants. Well, my sex drive did comeback...But my ability to cum didn't....My last outing, with one of TO's finest, saw a 2 hour session end in 0 SOG!! She tried her hardest to get it out of me. She had me tripping on the edge of the big O for what had to be an hour, and I still couldn't go over. It was torture....Delicious torture, but torture none the less.

My last two attempts at masturbation have ended similarly....A tired arm, a sore dick and no orgasm.

Sure antidepressants will help you last longer...But they'll probably fuck it up in the process too.

Lots of drugs, illegal and legal, have this effect on the body. The best thing is to acknowlege it, be upfront when seeing sps, and do not stress about whether cumming happens or does not happen. It is a physical thing, but the mental stress is of trying and failing only adds to it. better to say It might happen, but if it doesnt the journey trying is still fun.

It is a side effect of many meds, including heart meds, diabetes, etc. It may sound like fun to have the sp trying for 2 hours, lol, but it might actually hurt (in more ways than one), if after 20 minutes of action doesn't get you there, go to hj, and if that does not pop, then back off and just let it go for this time. I assume with longer sessions you are not looking for 2hrs non stop anyway, but more about the whole experience. Make the time count, play time, massage whatever, and just let the whole ""must end with orgasm" idea flow out the window.


For the OP, maybe it was textured condoms, and she likes the "ribbed for her pleasure" too lol. Not sure why you guys have condoms handy? But I get the reason she gave. CIP adding fluids that come out with the end of her period, not so easy for cleanup. She actually has a damn good idea there, imo.