Don't know what to expect when seeing an SP.

[CMLove]

Hello!

I'm not entirely sure where I should post this but I'll post it here anyways. I'm new to the SP scene but I'm not new to the MP scene. I've had my share of MP visits. I know what it feels like walking to an establishment. When it comes to a SP I'm a little worried... When I walk into a MP, I know where it is, the location and not have to talk to anyone on the way there. However with the SP, I'm picturing something like checking into a Hotel desk and telling them I'm going to go and see a "friend". That gives me a bit of anxiety.


For those of you who have seen SP' before, can you shed a little light of encouragement/experiences that can help to ease my anxiety a bit? Is there a difference with meeting them in a Hotel/Condo/Establishment etc. Do I need to wear a suit? Can I go casual? How casual is too casual? Do I need to bring xtra donations? Also, Outcalls are not an option at home... However I can book a hotel for it... Still thinking.

 

[CharloteEdwards]

Hello

I'm not sure why you would think you have to check in with a hotel front desk ever to visit someone at a hotel, and with condos there is a buzzer system to buzz anyone up who is visiting someone who lives there.

The only reason you may talk to someone is if you are asking where the elevator is, but a good SP should tell you where to find the elevator and give you information about where their room is located.

You can wear whatever you like, but i'd advise against anyone looking scrubby/thuggish to avoid anyone noticing you too much. Basic rules of shirt, pants/shorts, and shoes like entering any establishment.

 

[Leopard2]

Not much difference in hotel vs condo, just the buzz code in the condo to deal with. In a hotel you go in just like you are returning to your room after going out for a walk, no need to talk to anyone. The busier the hotel the easier you blend in of course. I always go casual, again choose to blend in at the location you are visiting. No need to bring extra donation unless you think you may ask for an extension (if possible) or you would like to leave a little extra for the lady beyond her standard rate. This assumes you will visit one of the well reviewed ladies here on HUBGFE and you will avoid the backpage upsell.

 

[cristycurves]

You should go to where you feel most comfortable. know the safe and not so safe areas of your town or city, obviously sticking with the safe. Talk to whom you choose to visit, ask them about parking, buzz codes etc. Ask if they prefer you show up casual or more formal, your comfort level too has to be taken into account. This is about having fun. So anyone you choose will want your visit to be as stress free as it can be. so..in the end it will be you who determines your preference, home, hotel, apt, or condo. They all can offer great atmosphere and amenities. Enjoy

 

[ERecTile]

I find the rates for SPs pretty standard and fair so bringing extra may not be necessary. Of course, if you have the money, and appreciate the service you've received, then by all means go for it. If seeing an indy, and assuming you're both on the level, you can discuss different types of things you want to do ahead of time to ensure that expectations are set and met (eg tour of the isles). Pick the right SP, and you may never venture back to the MP world.

 

[God]

Dude it's not that complicated.

 

[CMLove]

Thank you for all your replies! I will take them all into account.

Dude it's not that complicated.

I know it may not seem that complicated, but I'd just like to know what to expect (have an idea) towards meeting a SP. I've been attending only MP's and it does give me a bit of comfort reading the tips/experiences that the senior members post here. I'd like to make it a great experience for me and the SP!

 

[User-E]

This thread might be helpful to you https://www.hubgfe.com/community/showthread.php?98589-Dingwall%92s-Top-Ways-to-be-a-Favourite-Client

Have fun!

 

[A-Legend]

This thread might be helpful to you https://www.hubgfe.com/community/showthread.php?98589-Dingwall%92s-Top-Ways-to-be-a-Favourite-Client

Have fun!

This is good :good:

 

[DannyDeVito]

If she says is it in yet, cry.

 

[cristycurves]

If she says is it in yet, cry.

lol, look at it this way.... maybe....it's not that the man is small, maybe she is just large:wink2: