Great Post Christy! No not all escorts are money motivated, I certainly can make that claim as when I decided to work it was as much for money as it was an avenue of sexual exploration..... I wanted to know if I could do it. And choosing to do it, and following through was a radical thing to do for a good Dutch Catholic girl for whom engaging in sex let alone sex for money was taboo.
So escorting for me I view along with the multitude of other sexual exploratory things I have done as my foray into discovering the boundaries of my sexuality and feeling out the edges of my desire. I have always been fascinated and interested in sex, having taken Psychology of Sexuality courses in university and being an RN, researched alot of the neuroscience and physiology of sex. The book "Come as You Are" by Emily Nagoski being the owner's manual to the vagina that every young girl should recieve at menarche.
To this day I have profiles on Tinder, Bumble, POF, Adultfriendfinder, and Chaturbate, and go to sex clubs periodically as the mood takes me. I have played with men, women and transexuals. I have danced in stripclubs, performed in amateur porn, been videotaped sucking and fucking by lovers a multitude of times, and have mastered the art of phonesex and sexting with a talent as proficient as my writing. Most of this I have never gotten paid for, just my desire motivating my actions and my arousal seeking out a need.
So yes there are escorts who are not motivated by money, but I would hazard a guess that most of these escorts are mature women, who have come into their own in terms of a sense of themselves and an understanding of their sexual needs and a desire to go and seek out what they need. I didn't have my first orgasm until in my 30's and when I was in my 20's I was insecure and clueless about my body and my focus more on finding a boyfriend and potential husband than whether or not he was any good in bed. Now a divorcee, with a ten year marriage behind me that was very unsatisfying sexually, I will not settle for any guy who cannot rock my world between the sheets.... Good sex and chemistry is key now.
I love that you escort as a means to facilitate dating.... hmmm ..... you have got me thinking, lol.