Fuck buddies

[SillyGirl]

So over the last couple of months I've been busy carefully acquiring Fuckbuddies. This is new to me, the whole concept didn't really exist the last time I was single, so I thought I should tread carefully, and I have been.

It made sense that it would be really important to not see any one of them too often, so it seemed best to get a rotation going. Things were going along fine until yesterday's romp with Four (yes, they do have names, but it seems simpler to keep track by number). Um, I'm not comfortable being really graphic, but I've tripped over pure sexual kryptonite..."chemistry" doesn't seem like enough of a word for it. It was incredibly intense, and I can't get this guy out of my head.

I hadn't anticipated the possibility of finding Heat like this, it doesn't come around often in life. And even though my brain knows how important it is to not indulge it too often, I suspect other body parts are plotting a coup. :666:

It's clear from other threads that some of you have experience with stuff like this, and I'd appreciate any advice. I'm supposed to see One tomorrow and Two on Sunday, but I suspect they'll both be Four in my head. Which doesn't really seem fair to them, unless of course guys don't really care who a girl is mindfucking while they're pounding her?

This was all supposed to stay very, very simple. :roll:

 

[Lone Wolf]

It's clear from other threads that some of you have experience with stuff like this, and I'd appreciate any advice. I'm supposed to see One tomorrow and Two on Sunday, but I suspect they'll both be Four in my head. Which doesn't really seem fair to them, unless of course guys don't really care who a girl is mindfucking while they're pounding her?

What's not fair about it if the arangement that you have is for sex. It's not like you are going to tell them that you are thinking of the other guy (Four).
In most fuckbuddy arrangements, while there is a genuine liking of the other person, there is generally not an expectation of other emotional progression or attachments, otherwise presumably you are in a dating relationship.

This was all supposed to stay very, very simple. :roll:

It still is. Try to separate the physical aspect of great sex, from any substantial emotional aspects. One is not supposed to fall in love, or become infatuated, with your fuck buddy.

 

[Auggie]

What's wrong with indulging in Four more often and dropping One, Two and Three from the rotation temporarily? The intensity will wear out eventually, there's no reason to fear it.

If for some reason you have a valid reason to fear it, then drop him and continue with the others.

 

[connoisseur]

How about a gangbang with all of them?

 

[Bill The Pirate]

First of all you are awesome!

I had a couple of FB's many years ago and it was a great lifestyle. However things change and I wanted a monogamous life (or at least did at the time) so I changed it. It was the right thing for me to do at the time.

So, same deal with you, maybe its time for your next serious relationship. After all what have you got to loose? It's pretty hard to ignore chemistry. I did once and I swear it ruined my next relationship. Once you have steak it's pretty hard to eat chicken every night.

the other side of this is you have nothing to loose. Tell the others the truth though and that if it doesn't work out you'll be back. If that isn't okay with them, they're not the right guys anyway.

What ever you decide. best of luck to you. the only thing we fear is that you'll stop posting..

 

[SillyGirl]

One is not supposed to fall in love, or become infatuated, with your fuck buddy.

Oh there's no danger of falling in love, that's just not even a possibility. In Lust, well, that could be a problem.

The intensity will wear out eventually, there's no reason to fear it.

I don't want it to wear out. All the more reason to not see him too often, I think.

How about a gangbang with all of them?

:gasp:LOL! um, I'm really a One Dick at a Time kind of girl. The visual is making me laugh, though.

Just cause he threw off the curve for the rest, doesn't mean you should send the whole class to detention!

laughing...no one's going to Detention. Unless he wants to. :666:

 

[SillyGirl]

So, same deal with you, maybe its time for your next serious relationship..

omg, no no no. That's the last thing I want.

I ate at the same restaurant for 20 years...there are a lot of yummy menus out there I'd like to try. :tongue:

 

[Auggie]

I don't want it to wear out. All the more reason to not see him too often, I think.

That's a valid reason, I thought you feared falling in love with him but if it's to savour the taste and pleasure longer then it's good to ration your portions.

Is it rare to find a guy that really knows how to set off Silly Girl's fireworks?

 

[SillyGirl]

That's a valid reason, I thought you feared falling in love with him but if it's to savour the taste and pleasure longer then it's good to ration your portions.

Is it rare to find a guy that really knows how to set off Silly Girl's fireworks?

No, there's no danger of love. :no:

I don't really like having one guy in my bed and another in my head, though...better to get lost in the actual moment.

To set them off like the warehouse exploded, yea that's pretty rare. How often do you trip over someone who just knows all your favorite things and does them really really well, with no prompting, the first time?

sigh...he owned me.

 

[Bill The Pirate]

sigh...he owned me.

Silly Girl = Lucky Girl

 

[Goodlooking]

Silly girls if you want to make it 5, here is my number. 416-free-sex :666:

 

[blissful]

No, there's no danger of love. :no:

I don't really like having one guy in my bed and another in my head, though...better to get lost in the actual moment.

To set them off like the warehouse exploded, yea that's pretty rare. How often do you trip over someone who just knows all your favorite things and does them really really well, with no prompting, the first time?

sigh...he owned me.

Welcome to my World with women not men. :bad: I keep having one in my head, well now two and it does not matter who I doing in bed, I am thinking of them:bad:

But you are The Main Goddess to me. :he:

 

[SillyGirl]

I keep having one in my head, well now two and it does not matter who I doing in bed, I am thinking of them:bad:

Yea, that's not really what I want to be doing these days. If I'm gonna be getting off more from what's in my head, I might as well just take care of business myself.

If I'm with someone, that's who I want to be lost in.

 

[Bill The Pirate]

Silly

the answer seems obvious to me. Spend the time you need with him and take a little break from the others. Thinking that this was your first experience with number four... maybe after 4 or 5 times things may level off and you'll be happy to spend time with the others again.

It's your brain. Your body. Take whatever you need>

 

[Cycleguy007]

First of all: Thanks for sharing SG! Yesterday when you hinted about it, I thought maybe you'd

Silly Girl = Lucky Girl

I was thinking more along the lines of KinkyGirl! :tongue: :he:

Taking this into consideration:

I ate at the same restaurant for 20 years...there are a lot of yummy menus out there I'd like to try.

I still think you should drop the weakest of the four and replace him with a girl! :great: :tongue:

Just have some fun with it SG! From what I gather, this is what you need in your life right now. A relationship would complicate things... right?

 

[Bill The Pirate]

Taking this into consideration:


I still think you should drop the weakest of the four and replace him with a girl!

I think this is an awesome idea, and if you look at the thread entitled Jobs.... keep me in mind


edit: oops you already did.... sorry

 

[SillyGirl]

Silly

the answer seems obvious to me. Spend the time you need with him and take a little break from the others. Thinking that this was your first experience with number four... maybe after 4 or 5 times things may level off and you'll be happy to spend time with the others again.

It's your brain. Your body. Take whatever you need>

I really don't think I'm taking a break from anyone. I don't want to end up seeing any one too often.

Besides, I haven't seen One in almost a month, and as I recall he has some talents of his own. :666:

 

[SillyGirl]

I was thinking more along the lines of KinkyGirl!

One person's Kinky is another person's Misdemeanor. :tongue:

Seriously, I think everyone has their own idea of what Kinky is.

I still think you should drop the weakest of the four and replace him with a girl!

If that happens I promise I'll file a full report. :great:

 

[Cycleguy007]

I really don't think I'm taking a break from anyone. I don't want to end up seeing any one too often.

Besides, I haven't seen One in almost a month, and as I recall he has some talents of his own. :666:

SLUT!

(You are taking this "acting like a guy" thing very literal aren't you!) :tongue: :great:

 

[SillyGirl]

SLUT!

(You are taking this "acting like a guy" thing very literal aren't you!) :tongue: :great:

I think I'm getting pretty good at it! :tongue: