Hey JJ, we've not met - at least, I don't think so.. we may have but I don't readily recognize the handle.. plus I'm bad with names for the most part unless you're gorgeous, Latin and wearing something sexy!
Anyway, CT asked me about this a while back - I know he's dying to get his inner orgy freak on.. so here's a condensed version of that thread..
Again, these are my observations .. everyone is different and in the end you have to find the balance that works for you
I've never done this before, what's it like
All I'll say is, it's definitely not for everyone. If you're comfortable in your own skin, then you'll do fine. Most of the orgies I've done have been average 8 people - four guys, four girls. Yeah, it might be awkward at the outset, especially when the shower rotation starts but once the action gets going, you really don't notice the other guys there. And unless you're planning to do double-penetration, you're not likely to cross swords with another guy. An added bonus is there's plenty of girl-on-girl action as the ladies use these parties to get their inner freak on just as much as we do.
What's it cost
I look at this way: You're seeing some of the top ladies in the city, so they're likely $250 - $300 for an hour. It's going to be at least two hours in length (actually most of the one's I've gone to have gone well beyond the two hour limit). Throw in a bit of a tip, maybe you're helping to offset the cost of the incall if someone doesn't offer up a location... so you're looking at between $800 and $1000. Minimum four girls for two hours. If you were to have three girls for an hour to yourself, you're likely shelling out just as much. Everybody brings some food and/or booze, so you're set. I know the Love Jones parties ask between $1500 - $2000. They're upwards of three hours but she always maintains a ratio of more girls to guys.
I've had the pleasure of being invited to several of the orgies Pussyluver has organized (I think he has me on speed dial!). Each one has gotten a little bigger in terms of numbers but I think a ratio of 4 guys and 4 girls is just about right. Anything more I think you lose a bit of that intimate connection you like to have with the ladies.
Did a fourgy not too long ago - two guys, two girls - and was actually a little nervous going into that one. I knew one of the ladies really well, didn't know the other one and the other guy I had met briefly at another orgy. It feels strange to say but with more guys and girls around, it seems you can blend in better. But the fourgy actually turned out to be awesome
Is it safe? condom exchange, supply etc.
Definitely safe. More condoms lying around than you can shake a stick at and no such thing as fucking one girl and then moving to another without changing out condoms. All the ladies are very hygeine oriented. In fact, most guys will jump in the shower quickly for a refresh after finishing before continuing on elsewhere. One thing that came up recently was condom allergies - some are allergic to latex and such so they bring their own and if a guy has a similar allergy, they bring their own. Never really thought about it until recently. Also, I've only seen one guy bring his own condoms but that was because he preferred a certain make, said all the others were too constricting. Also, bjs are pretty much bbbj - I can't recall anyone doing covered bj (then again, I'm not exactly looking at everyone's johnson to see who's doing what)
Are you able to spend time with each girl?
Surprisingly, yes! Obviously not during the main event but prior to and certainly afterwards, there is plenty of time to mingle and get to know the ladies. I remember at one of PL's parties, I think I only knew Adrianna Lux - the other girls were pretty new to me. Afterwards, we were all chatting away like old friends, which was cool after fucking their brains out!
The one thing I will say about this, the bigger the party, the more likely you are not going to be able to get with every lady. So, pick two or three and concentrate on them. If you try and be everything to everyone, you will tire yourself out and you won't enjoy it. Believe me, I know. Which is why I prefer a much smaller group gathering now than a bigger one.
Is it weird with another guy there doing stuff to her when you are?
Ah yes, the sausage fest quandary... I guess it can be, depends on how comfortable you are in your surroundings. But the only time it might happen is if you're face fucking someone or getting a bj and some other guy is going down on her at the same time. So you're in close proximity. Spit roasting a lady is a lot of fun, so again, you're likely to be facing another guy. I know at one party, someone was eating out Lani, she was blowing me while another guy came by and started sucking on her tits. I was okay with it, there was enough separation between us and she was having the time of her life! That should quell any concerns you might have!
I have been curious about DP..do any of the girls do that?
I have too and PL and I have discussed possibly doing this at one of his parties. Problem is, any of the ladies who engage in greek usually ask for a tip when they see you one-on-one. But I've never seen any greek action at the orgies i've attended, except one - the boat orgy, where the possibility of attempting DP was there - she was more than willing to do it - but the tight surroundings had me believe it would be really tight and not comfortable, so I passed.
I inquired about the Love Jones thing a few times. They seem to have better looking girls? what do you think.
I've looked into this but, aside from the price point being right at what I would think is my budget limit, the scheduling just hasn't worked out for me. You're right, the lineup of ladies is among the higher end in this city but she also keeps it quite intimate and small. And she always has a ratio of more ladies to men. I know someone who's been to two of these and he swears they are worth the money.
and has any guy you know...got some Mammo..or tried too?
No, no one has gotten with the Mammo except the ladies! And funny thing, none of the ladies has ever tried any kinky stuff - that I know of, at least not with me. And we've had ladies who are into the toys and the strap-ons and such.
Bottom line... if you decide this is something you want to explore, my best advice is start small and ease your way into it..
As mentioned, more and more of the indys are starting to set these things up on their own so that might be a good way to start... Brandy of Arabella's recently had one and it was very reasonable ($600, five guys and four women - one lady failed to show)... I'll report on that one for the group shortly!
See, easing my way back into it!
