How Many Requests Is Too Many?

[Ultraman2013]

I've been in this hobby for awhile. Had a brief absence but hoping to get back into the swing a things soon. Before I had few requests. But lately I have developed quite an appetite for some new requests/fetishes. So I'm wondering is there a such thing as too many requests in a single session? If so, how many? It'd be nice if especially some SP's could provide some answers from their perspective.

Anyone rim on sp's? Would you recommend?

 

[CharloteEdwards]

It may depend on a few things, such as who you ask: do they state in their ad and website that they are open to fetishes and requests?

How you ask: are you politely requesting if they would be open to A, B and C?

What you ask: are you asking if they are comfortable with certain acts, if they would wear a certain outfit and if they would perform a certain roleplay? Or are you concocting a complicated scenario that someone would have to act out and meet to a T and making it sound over the top and difficult?

The key is to be kind and respectful when making requests, as long as you explain and ask in an appropriate way they can let you know yes or no.

When it goes bad is asking for A, B and C. She says yes to A and C. You then ask ok then what about D, E, F, she says only D, so then you ask what about G,H,I and X, Y, Z etc etc if you are coming across as complicated and interrogating then she may just want to wash her hands of it all.

 

[cristycurves]

Most of us want to accommodate and don't mind answering appropriate questions. Anyone who accommodates fetish requests will more than likely have "fetish friendly" in their ads/website.

But... I would hope any gentlemen who is seeking to meet with someone will do their research first before making contact, part of that would be reading that persons ads, website and other posts. As there is nothing more annoying than someone asking questions that are clearly answered on the website or in the ads.

The persons ads/websites should give an indication of the types of dates offered. But remember, you can legally only buy time, nothing else. Until that changes, asking explicit questions or discussing explicit services will make some feel uncomfortable and possibly cause an end to the conversation thus ending a possibility of meeting.

However, should someone decide to entertain discussing specific requests, simply be polite and respectful and I'm sure you'll get your answers This day and age of "stupidness" (meaning buying sex being illegal being stupid) does make open communication about expectations a little difficult, as a clear and concise conversation about expectations, limits, etc, is necessary for there to be happy and satisfied parties on both sides.

Happy hobbying

 

[God]

Rim as in licking her ass :don'twantto-see:/

 

[Boing]

No such a thing, carry on.

 

[Bubba]

Just PM or email her about your fetishes. Why bring it up here?.

Only reviews count :-Cool/"

 

[Ultraman2013]

Rim as in licking her ass :don'twantto-see:/

Yep.

 

[Ultraman2013]

Just PM or email her about your fetishes. Why bring it up here?.

Only reviews count :-Cool/"

I wanted advice on whether to do it or not. This is the lobby, we can talk about anything here. And I've written plenty of reviews.

 

[papasmerf]

My opinion is it never hurts to try to order "Items not on the Menu".
Some might be available while others are not.
Just remember there is an ala-carte up-charge for each item.

 

[TFZL1]

Thank you Charlotte and Cristy for your posts, I always enjoy reading what you Lady's have to say.

i my opinion, it's best to ask a lady you already know for anything special .

asking a lady you've never met for things outside the menu may get you blocked, they'll just think you're another wierdo. Some lady's offer all inclusive prices and no up sale, while others might charge extra for things like Greek or toy play or whatever.
Best to plan ahead. I find I get the best treatment from being a regular, I have a connection, so I can ask ahead of time for a special type of session.

 

[SQUISH]

Bump.

 

[NSX]

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