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If you have been thinking about quitting, I have a suggestion for you

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I have long tried to quit this hobby, for obvious reasons. I feel very bored after hundreds of appts and not being able to find a lady SP that really captures my interest long term.So, I have been trying various ways to stop. And the best way forward I have found is to INVEST HEAVILY IN YOUR INTERESTS.

For example, I bought 4 TVs and 4 streaming devices for my home. I have a tv in the basement, one in my family room, one in my bedroom and one in my other bedroom. Before, I had no TVs. Now, I have invested over $2,400 in TV tech and I am really enjoying it. I bought a blu-ray player as well and over 100 movies. I watch movies, stream YT videos, I paid for a MLB subscription too. Furthermore, I bought a new car - a Subaru with AWD. And I purchased 4 new Continental winter tires on separate rims that I will put on the car November 1st. I am really looking forward to driving an AWD car with a boxer style engine in the winter weather. I suppose it will be the best handling car I have ever driven.

My whole life, I have bought gifts for other people. I rarely, if ever, bought stuff for my own enjoyment. I realized this was one of the reasons I was supplementing my lifestyle with escorts. Escorts filled the void that was missing from me investing in myself.But the idea of visiting escorts always nudged at me. It always bothered me and I was constantly looking for a way to quit ever since I stopped seeing Asian Kelly and Tina White. Those two girls were unusual and I never found girls to replace them. So, when they left the industry, I started to contemplate how to leave it too. And I struggled and struggled until I realized that I had to INVEST IN MYSELF in order to get fulfillment and reduce my desire to constantly look to escorts to fulfill any void.

So, in closing, if you want to try to quit this hobby - as many of us have tried - you have to heavily invest in yourself. Enjoy life and see all the things that you are missing by diverting funds toward paying for sex.Go buy yourself a nice, new suit. Go buy yourself a new truck. Take a trip to Europe. Invest in yourself and you will not desire the crutch of hobbying that you currently desire.Give it a try if you want to quit the hobby.
 
And btw, I will still visit MPA's for a legit massage because I have a bad back; but at $40 - $60 a pop (no extras wanted) and once a month frequency, that is pocket change compared to the $50,000+ I have spent over 7 years in this hobby.
 
You already discussed this subject in your previous life.

Yes. 100% correct.

I have been battling this addiction for a long time.

Everytime I think I have turned the corner and quit, I start again. But, so far, I am good. The last appt I had with an SP, I just paid her to talk. No sexytime. So, I am hoping I have turned the final corner.
 
I have yet to see anyone beat an addiction until they hit bottom.

True.

My hitting bottom was when I started getting bored paying for sex. I feel very bored during an appt. It's like doing something that becomes so routine that it is no longer exciting anymore.
 
At least you are boring entertaining not like others that are just boring.
 
If you want to quit seeing SP's I suggest quit hanging out on escort review boards.

It's like a drunk trying to quit drinking who keeps going to the bars with his buddies. Not going to work.
 
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