Chapter 1- To Cheat or Not to Cheat?
Chapter 2- Preliminary Precautions to Taking the Plunge
Chapter 3- Don’t Shit in Your Own Backyard
Chapter 4- Don’t Rush
Chapter 5- Keep it Separate
a. Don’t share your personal phone number
b. Don’t share your work contacts or addresses
c. Don’t take him home
d. Social Networking Sites
e. Don’t divulge information about your partner to your play-boy
Chapter 6- The Honesty Card
Chapter 7- The ‘Little Things’
a. Financial Records
b. Sex Toys
c. Never send nude pictures
d. Password-protect your personal phone
Chapter 8- In the Bedroom
- STD Myths
Chapter 9- The Make-believe Outings
a. Solo Activities:
1. If details can be cross-checked, use actual data
2. Know what material evidence is needed to support your story
3. Have the details prepared
4. Consider the results of your proposed lie
5. Remember the little props
6. Separate cars
7. Don’t be too specific
8. Mix it up
9. Handling phone calls and tag alongs
b. Group Activities:
1. Selecting the right friend
2. Giving enough notice
3. Constructing a believable story
4. Stay in sync
Chapter 10- How to Lie
a. Believe the lie
b. Facial expressions
c. Know what a liar looks like
1. Eye contact
2. Don’t Fidget
3. Don’t get flustered
4. Bring the lie up first
5. Avoid elaborate stories
6. Appear indifferent
7. Good memory
Chapter 11- Don’t Change your Routine
a. Becoming noticeably more concerned with your physical appearance
b. Never accuse your partner of cheating
c. No unexpected gifts or favors
d. Decrease in sex, intimacy, level of physical affection
e. No “late nights in the office”
f. Don’t justify your affairs
g. Noticeable void in need for attention
h. Picking fights as an excuse to leave home
Chapter 12- Don’t Get Too Cocky
Chapter 13- How to Break Things Off for Good
a. Preparation
b. Delivery
c. Wrap-up
Chapter 14- Dealing with the Guilt
Chapter 15- When to Admit, When to Deny
Chapter 16- Cheating in the Workplace
a. Be willing to pack up and leave if things go sour
b. Not the Boss
c. Choose someone with more to lose than you
d. Let him come after you
e. Make sure he knows your relationship status
f. Contact in and out of the office
g. Let him know exactly what you want
h. Code of Conduct in the Office
i. How to break things off
Appendix- The Psychology Behind Why We Do it
Sounds a very interesting practical guide. I would like to read it, simply to have more insight into how people go about things.