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I have few that I hold close to me, even the ones that are in that small circle, are still at arms length. Few understand me for who I really am and what I believe in or participate in. One of them is this past time.
One of the inner circle has known me for 10+ years. We've worked together. Jammed together. Partied a bit. Shared ups and downs. He's always been non judgmental. Kind of rare in these times.
He's recently out of a relationship of 10 years. It took him by surprise but it didn't take us (his friends) by surprise, it was always a topic of discussion on how he was such a great and easy going guy and she was just inattentive to him and just plain mean. I was happy for him that he was rid of her.
He always asked me about the ladies that I saw. I encouraged him to try it out if he was truly curious, I would recommend someone based on his tastes and would set up the appointment and let the lady know to take care of him. This went on for the majority of our relationship until recently when he was to come and spend the weekend at my home.
I asked him if he wanted me to have a couple of ladies over and then head out for drinks etc afterwards. He agreed and I set up two of my private session ladies to come over. The lady I called knew the other that was to be for my friend (who I've also seen many times) and she set things up. The day came and my buddy was excited and nervous. We went out before the ladies were to come over and I had a talk with him about both girls; what they allowed, their personalities, what got them off etc etc.
About an hour before the appointment, I got a text from my girl that the other was going to be a no show. How disappointing, but I kind of expected that as she had done this to me on numerous occasions and moved her down the list for call backs. My girls was very apologetic and was true to her great personality and why I liked her and have positioned her to #1. She asked if I still wanted her to come over for me. It wasn't more than a second when I thought about my friend who needed this more than I did and told her so. Knowing my personality as well, she asked "Are you okay with me seeing your friend?" "He really needs to get this out of his system and get his ex-gf out of his head. Yes, I'm okay with it, and thank you for asking.". She asked if I still wanted her after my friend and I said "Yes, if you're okay with it.". "That's up to you, I'll make sure I have a shower LOL.".
I happily told my buddy that he was all set to see my favourite girl and to head in to the shower and scrub up, she lived 5 minutes away and was on her way over. She arrived as expected and was happy and upbeat as usual and looking stunning. This girl is absolutely beautiful. Long thick brunette hair. Bright hazel eyes. High cheek bones. An athletic build. Natural 34D's. A personality that wins everyone over. We went in to the kitchen and had a little make out session while we were waiting for my buddy to come out. Prepped some drinks and I made the introductions. I could tell he was pleased. She gave him a kiss and a hug and after a couple of minutes, took him by his arm and led him to the spare bedroom. I could tell by the noises that a good time was being had by all.
After an hour or so, she came out and did the walk of shame to the bathroom to shower. I asked if I could join her and she readily invited me in. Some fun time in the shower that moved to my bedroom. Another stellar performance by my girl. After another hour or so and another quick shower, we all reconvened in the living room and hung out with some fine scotch and easy conversation until she had to go meet a friend and cancelling the remainder of her calls from the agency (sorry guys....not really). She asked my friend and I to meet her and her friend at the pub for drinks after we went out for dinner. Why not.
What followed was my friend and I having a conversation about how he started to understand why I've been hobbying for so long. The points of easy and open conversations with SP's was high. We talked about how most civies are so uptight about talking about sex and or likes and kinks that you might have. He also understood that at our age, dating is not fun. So much drama. So many tainted women. So many damaged hearts that will never mend. Banging beautiful young ladies such as our guest, was way more fun...and then they go away. We also had a long conversation about safety for the ladies. Like me, he seemed to be concerned about safety and was glad that I made the introduction as I was a trusted client and that put her at ease and that I was there to protect her should anything happen, which with my friend, would never be a worry for her. Now she has another client that she can see privately that she trusts. I should also say that she told my friend that she would never do this with someone she didn't know but she trusted me.
So with this happy experience, my friend is more understanding of the hobby. I also educated him on what agencies to use for outcalls as he would be more comfortable in his own home than going to an incall. TDL, you are not on that list
(I had to put that there). I hope he has some happy experiences and he'll be using my recommendations for the first little while until he gets more comfortable with his own choices.
So ladies, you have another awesome client that has just jumped in to the hobby. Treat him well.
One of the inner circle has known me for 10+ years. We've worked together. Jammed together. Partied a bit. Shared ups and downs. He's always been non judgmental. Kind of rare in these times.
He's recently out of a relationship of 10 years. It took him by surprise but it didn't take us (his friends) by surprise, it was always a topic of discussion on how he was such a great and easy going guy and she was just inattentive to him and just plain mean. I was happy for him that he was rid of her.
He always asked me about the ladies that I saw. I encouraged him to try it out if he was truly curious, I would recommend someone based on his tastes and would set up the appointment and let the lady know to take care of him. This went on for the majority of our relationship until recently when he was to come and spend the weekend at my home.
I asked him if he wanted me to have a couple of ladies over and then head out for drinks etc afterwards. He agreed and I set up two of my private session ladies to come over. The lady I called knew the other that was to be for my friend (who I've also seen many times) and she set things up. The day came and my buddy was excited and nervous. We went out before the ladies were to come over and I had a talk with him about both girls; what they allowed, their personalities, what got them off etc etc.
About an hour before the appointment, I got a text from my girl that the other was going to be a no show. How disappointing, but I kind of expected that as she had done this to me on numerous occasions and moved her down the list for call backs. My girls was very apologetic and was true to her great personality and why I liked her and have positioned her to #1. She asked if I still wanted her to come over for me. It wasn't more than a second when I thought about my friend who needed this more than I did and told her so. Knowing my personality as well, she asked "Are you okay with me seeing your friend?" "He really needs to get this out of his system and get his ex-gf out of his head. Yes, I'm okay with it, and thank you for asking.". She asked if I still wanted her after my friend and I said "Yes, if you're okay with it.". "That's up to you, I'll make sure I have a shower LOL.".
I happily told my buddy that he was all set to see my favourite girl and to head in to the shower and scrub up, she lived 5 minutes away and was on her way over. She arrived as expected and was happy and upbeat as usual and looking stunning. This girl is absolutely beautiful. Long thick brunette hair. Bright hazel eyes. High cheek bones. An athletic build. Natural 34D's. A personality that wins everyone over. We went in to the kitchen and had a little make out session while we were waiting for my buddy to come out. Prepped some drinks and I made the introductions. I could tell he was pleased. She gave him a kiss and a hug and after a couple of minutes, took him by his arm and led him to the spare bedroom. I could tell by the noises that a good time was being had by all.
After an hour or so, she came out and did the walk of shame to the bathroom to shower. I asked if I could join her and she readily invited me in. Some fun time in the shower that moved to my bedroom. Another stellar performance by my girl. After another hour or so and another quick shower, we all reconvened in the living room and hung out with some fine scotch and easy conversation until she had to go meet a friend and cancelling the remainder of her calls from the agency (sorry guys....not really). She asked my friend and I to meet her and her friend at the pub for drinks after we went out for dinner. Why not.
What followed was my friend and I having a conversation about how he started to understand why I've been hobbying for so long. The points of easy and open conversations with SP's was high. We talked about how most civies are so uptight about talking about sex and or likes and kinks that you might have. He also understood that at our age, dating is not fun. So much drama. So many tainted women. So many damaged hearts that will never mend. Banging beautiful young ladies such as our guest, was way more fun...and then they go away. We also had a long conversation about safety for the ladies. Like me, he seemed to be concerned about safety and was glad that I made the introduction as I was a trusted client and that put her at ease and that I was there to protect her should anything happen, which with my friend, would never be a worry for her. Now she has another client that she can see privately that she trusts. I should also say that she told my friend that she would never do this with someone she didn't know but she trusted me.
So with this happy experience, my friend is more understanding of the hobby. I also educated him on what agencies to use for outcalls as he would be more comfortable in his own home than going to an incall. TDL, you are not on that list
(I had to put that there). I hope he has some happy experiences and he'll be using my recommendations for the first little while until he gets more comfortable with his own choices. So ladies, you have another awesome client that has just jumped in to the hobby. Treat him well.
EACE:
