Gentlemen, do any of you become emotionally attached to your pay for play companion? I was watching Pretty Woman with Richard Gere and Julia Roberts with Ida the other day. Richard Gere fell in love with the escort he hired. How many of you find you're developing feelings for your hire. I notice some see many different ladies. Do you have a limit on the repeats or do some of you see a lady over and over. Has anyone seen a lady more than 12 times in one year? There must be more than just lust driving the repeat encounters?? I would love to hear viewpoints from gentlemen like Db123, Swede, Jstrummer, Raiden, Diner and other who seem to see a lot of ladies.
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I did watch it many many years ago but watching it this time made me think of this forum. It's amazing how much more of a critical eye I had watching the movie this time knowing what I now know. I do still believe you should change your handle, it is sacrilegious to call yourself God.
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I think some cross the line and others just like to have sex with beautiful women while enriching their lives with some cold green paperbacks!
BAZ, great family portrait bud
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Yes, I get emotionally attached and develop feelings for my favourite ladies all the time. I enjoy the relationships, and it makes the sex way, way hotter. It does make it harder when she leaves the business or something goes wrong between the two of us (and both situations have happened to me in the past year), but that's the risk I take, I guess. I still continue to do it without hesitation.
The only limits I have are my wallet and the lady's schedule matching up with mine. I have seen my current favourite lady 18 times this calendar year alone (and it's only March!) so obviously I have no issue with repeating.
I really don't see a lot of ladies; I prefer to repeat with a couple of favourites. My local favourite is the one I've seen so many times, I have another favourite that I'd like to see more often, but she's almost an hour drive away and I can really only see her on certain days when that works for me. I have another fave who travels city to city, and I only get to see her every couple of months when she lands nearby.
I do go to the massage parlour occasionally too and I do the same thing there--I have my regular ladies that I tend to see over and over again. I'll try a different lady every now and then to switch it up, but that's rare. Somehow I don't get as emotionally attached to the MPA's--as intimate as it gets with them it's a whole different experience in the spa. Or maybe it's just me.
In spite of being married (I'd even consider myself happily married) I still seek out other ladies to have relationships with. I think lust plays some part in it, but that's not the only thing. It makes me feel young and alive, I enjoy the intimacy, the sex, and just being a part of someone's life. It may be a small part that I share with many other regulars, but it's enough for me. I think the ladies appreciate a nice, polite, clean guy as a regular client and I'd like to think that they get something out of it too, other than just the money.
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I not only get emotionally attached, I get attached in other ways too. I was with my last favorite lady for five years and she was, and is, in the business. It didn't bother me as long as it was what she wanted and her choice.
When not attached, I see a lot of ladies. When attached, I am faithful.
When not attached, I see a lot of ladies. When attached, I am faithful.
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I find the better an escort is at her work the more stalkers she ends up with It really is a catch 22.
Anyways 99.99% of the time falling for an escort leads to heart break. Believe me i know.
Anyways 99.99% of the time falling for an escort leads to heart break. Believe me i know.
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Stalkers can be a real issue for the ladies. Their job is to create a fantasy but some can't tell the difference between reality and the act.
Baz, everyone is different. Everyone has their own reason, for some it's company, other's it's only about the sex with young beautiful women they otherwise would not be able to obtain. In other words you'll probably get 10 guys with 10 different reasons.
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Absolutely agree. I've been lucky...I've had four or five ladies in my life, all from the business, and all were several year relationships. The trick is to not want them for what they do in the room, but for who they really are, which takes a lot of time and patience to be given access to. Most guys can't separate the professional from the personal with these ladies.
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What's the old expression goes??
You pay them to leave.
You pay them to leave.
That is the way I look at it. I pay for no strings why some hobbyist create the strings I've never been able to understand.
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Some guys are lonely and have no one to be close to except SP's, so they value and appreciate having the strings, because they want to feel connected.
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Baz, I have on occasion gone out with ladies I originally started off as a paying customer. I've enjoyed the company off the clock of several strippers and mpas. To this day I'm still friends with several who have moved on to regular jobs and are doing great. Regardless of the job the ladies and men are human and some people are naturally drawn to one another.
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It is not Maurice, I will ask you the same question.
Littlefinger
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How does the saying go? You don't pay them to come, you pay them to go. Something like that.
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