I was imagining playing the cat and mouse game many attached folks play here. In other words, you visit your pay for play mate yet have a spouse or girlfriend waiting at home. How do you keep the two worlds apart and from colliding? How do you hide the expense, the calls, the time away, the research some of you do, with sync features now on your smart phone it's very easy for a mate to see what you are up to. How is this all done without raising red flags? Is this game part of the excitement?