Mistakes You Made With Escorts

[blissful]

Ok Here are some of my mistakes I have made with escorts but in my defense I am getting better at not making them again.:666:

1. Fell in Love
2. Gave too much money and gifts
3. Not leaving when I met a couple I did not like( we had long conversations)

4.I use to think that I should have express myself at what I wanted more. (The last two women I saw made me realize that if the escort is Excellent there was no need to say anything.)

5.Not to be shy
6.Learn to share and learn not to share.:666:
7.Never see an escort who is drunk or sick, just walk away.:no:

 

[Iambad]

Come see me anytime sweets I don't mind if you give me too much money and gifts :go:

 

[blissful]

Come see me anytime sweets I don't mind if you give me too much money and gifts :go:

I am not sure who you are. Realization, guess I am looking for a girlfriend but also I enjoy having fun.

Learning not to be used. Starting to think using escorts are like Professors at school, all a learning situations. The do and don't of meeting people.The women are teaching me that there are many different ways of escorting.

There are the ones who think of themselves as God gift to men or women.There are ones who does this professionally that is that. There are ones who are great at it and have fun with it. There are ones who should not be in it at all. There are ones who lay back and expect you to do all the work and you paid for it.I am not complaining, I giggle a lot at some of their ways, but there are a couple I have met that are interesting and if they were not escorts I would have found them fascinating to talk too.

 

[Auggie]

With Tricia from Cupids I made the mistake of lightly slapping her nice bum while doing her in doggy.
She was a bit pissed that I didn't ask permission and lectured me on etiquette.

Is that what they mean about a girlfriend experience? :neutral:

 

[Tyrell]

I have met that are interesting and if they were not escorts I would have found them fascinating to talk too.

Why would it matter if they are escorts or not?. Nothing wrong with talking to them and developing a friendship.

 

[blissful]

Why would it matter if they are escorts or not?. Nothing wrong with talking to them and developing a friendship.

I was told by one that they don't develop friendship with their clients. I have no problems in being friends with any of these women or going out or even having them to a party but I was put in my place. So I do not cross the line that I was told that in place. But I am finding out that some things I have been told is not always the case, maybe this is one of them I am not sure.

 

[athaire]

Don't date one.
Run don't walk if they are high/drunk.
Don't don't don't fall in love......see above.
Do not share to much personal info, discretion is very rare it seems.

 

[Rebecca Richardson]

From the other perspective, 10% of the mistakes I have made with clients:
- Blurted out their child's real name when I recognized their picture on the client's fridge
- Talked too much because I was nervous
- Talked too little because I was nervous
- Not kicked out someone on drugs once
- Asked who else they've seen when they mention the incall location is nicer than another agency's location
- Continued to see them professionally after we became too friendly for that to work
- Told them their penis is 'pretty' or they've 'put a lot of effort into their body'
- Rambled on about social or sexual theory when they ask a yes/no question
- Been a little too enthusiastic in recommending other girls (YES, see her, she's SO hot, book us together)
- Made a strap-on joke with someone who is clearly uncomfortable with it
- Cancelled when I was upset/NOT cancelled when I was upset (I'm split on whether or not that's the correct thing to do)
- Been too shy to ask someone to come see me again when I really enjoyed their company
- Been too shy to ask someone not to see me again when I didn't enjoy their company
- Been horrendously swamped with emails and simply emailed people back by lottery rather than blocking out an hour or two a day to respond to everyone's efforts.




...and that's just the stuff I feel like I can share. I've been a bumbling idiot for years it appears.

 

[dreamblade]

- Rambled on about social or sexual theory when they ask a yes/no question

I SO see you doing that.

So, the desire of women in the West to return to the home and choose to be a homemaker: Empowerment or patriarchal social conditioning?

PS: welcome back

 

[tboy]

#2 bigtime......and NEVER LOAD THEM MONEY.....even if they swear on their parent's lives to pay you back, never never never unless you don't expect to be paid back....

I remember on numerous occasions going out at 3 am to give one rent money with promises of re-payment only to be chastised when asking for it back.....you live AND learn.....

Oh, and don't date one, they are about as reliable as a walmart watch and just about as stable as the leaning tower of pisa.....

 

[Rebecca Richardson]

I SO see you doing that.

So, the desire of women in the West to return to the home and choose to be a homemaker: Empowerment or patriarchal social conditioning?

PS: welcome back

Um... yes.
(See? I'm learning. Slowly learning.)

ReS. Well, only briefly.

 

[dreamblade]

@Becky: but I know you're squirming and biting your tongue right now.

 

[blissful]

From the other perspective, 10% of the mistakes I have made with clients:
- Blurted out their child's real name when I recognized their picture on the client's fridge
- Talked too much because I was nervous
- Talked too little because I was nervous
- Not kicked out someone on drugs once
- Asked who else they've seen when they mention the incall location is nicer than another agency's location
- Continued to see them professionally after we became too friendly for that to work
- Told them their penis is 'pretty' or they've 'put a lot of effort into their body'
- Rambled on about social or sexual theory when they ask a yes/no question
- Been a little too enthusiastic in recommending other girls (YES, see her, she's SO hot, book us together)
- Made a strap-on joke with someone who is clearly uncomfortable with it
- Cancelled when I was upset/NOT cancelled when I was upset (I'm split on whether or not that's the correct thing to do)
- Been too shy to ask someone to come see me again when I really enjoyed their company
- Been too shy to ask someone not to see me again when I didn't enjoy their company
- Been horrendously swamped with emails and simply emailed people back by lottery rather than blocking out an hour or two a day to respond to everyone's efforts.




...and that's just the stuff I feel like I can share. I've been a bumbling idiot for years it appears.

All is good

You are never were a bumbling idiot You are one of the first Escorts that I could truly trust and open up too. You have an amazing Soul and you're a Sweet kind and Loving individual. Your eyes always made me feel............ well I can not express it. Never a bumbling idiot.

 

[Rebecca Richardson]

All is good

You are never were a bumbling idiot You are one of the first Escorts that I could truly trust and open up too. You have an amazing Soul and you're a Sweet kind and Loving individual. Your eyes always made me feel............ well I can not express it. Never a bumbling idiot.

That's very sweet of you, and I appreciate your heartfelt words, but you clearly missed the client that posted on another review board to ask if I was calling him gay because I said his cock was 'pretty'. You also missed me crying over a review that was mostly positive because I thought he left having had a bad time, or worse yet, the time I let the client have the side of the bed closest to the bedside table: when it came time to put a cover on, I went to crawl across him (far away from his hard-on!) to grab a condom, and he told me BBFS wasn't his thing. It's never been mine either, but now I know to reserve 'my' side, or get off the bed and walk around.

It makes me feel better to know you guys have made mistakes too.

 

[Jawbone]

My first ever session I was asked to shower and made the mistake of telling the lady I had just showered, which was true. Unfortunately it made for a mediocre session. I now know to always accept the shower regardless of when I showered last.

 

[jiggyjiggy]

My mistake was not being born rich!!!!

 

[blissful]

Bringing your hubby with you when you and the escort want to be alone.

Wonder if I ask Brash if he would go on a errand when we are at the Hotel. Hmmm.........What do you think?

 

[Wilsonjso]

From the other perspective, 10% of the mistakes I have made with clients:
- Been horrendously swamped with emails and simply emailed people back by lottery rather than blocking out an hour or two a day to respond to everyone's efforts.

It's good to know, your lottery have kept me away after I didn't have my e-mails replied when you went independent and damn :grrrrrr: I was so idiot for never tried to contact you for months. (thinking that was my fault when it was just bad luck on lottery :neutral: it's better I try a best lucky on the next few days calling Select before your retirement. If I don't have the best of luck at least I've tried one more time )

The big Mistake I have made with sps:

_ I missed a chance to have met them thinking that they would be around for very long ( e,g: Chantelle, Paris).