My experience with SA...

[Ryan1967]

Apologies for being kinda absent lately, my SO has been gone and I have been having a blast on SA...I don't have a ton of time, mostly because being on SA is VERY time consuming but I wanted to let you all know that I am still hobbying...but just finding these non pros on SA.

I have only been on since Saturday and have already met 3, all of which are prepared to go on a per visit basis and I have 3 more meets in the next couple of days and at least 10 more that I am chatting with on the site. It is all true what they say...there are a shit ton of women there...not sure of the actual odds but the women outnumber the men. I have yet to initiaite a single dialog and I have only a private picture posted that I have only granted access to a small njumber. The most fun is meeting these women and they can literally walk away and shut you down...so there is some sport involved in getting them to agree to take it further. I am very clear that I am more interested in intimate meetings than dinners and hanging out...and the ones that I have met seem fine with that. So far the cheapest has been $200 (seeing her tomorrow) and the most expensive is $600 (she initially asked for $1000 and I told her no way...she then came down to $600, but she is model material...I will post a picture of her and you will see, but I have no intention of seeing her. The thing is...these visits (SPs and MAs do sessions...SBs do visits...) are untimed...so for $200 for 2 hours with the one I am seeing tomorrow is pretty good value...

Anyway...will post more when I have the time...too busy though!!

 

[paul mott]

Ryan your experience and observations are consistent with mine, and in particular your assessment, "The thing is...these visits (SPs and MAs do sessions...SBs do visits...) are untimed...so for $200 for 2 hours with the one I am seeing tomorrow is pretty good value..."

That distinction is what sets SA girls apart from your normal SP. In their mind accepting money for sex isn't escorting, it's jsut dating or as you say a visit with someone and therefore not something frowned upon as you're just "helping them out financially often for school or debt load". Generally they don't know or operate under the same rules or practices that SP have established, such as watching the clock.

The other difference which you've found out very quickly, is that it's the girls that are the hunters and initiators, in large part due to the higher ratio of females to males and thus more competitive. Basically a guy can just sit back and wait to be hit on, and the other plus to that is that at least you know there's some level of interest they have in you, and you don't waste time chasing ones who aren't interested. Statistical success and failures are probably no different than with a regular dating sites.

 

[Ryan1967]

Posted pics of the $600 blonde...again...for an untimed encounter it is not bad...buut...she has fake boobs.

 

[paul mott]

How old is she? I did a search based on her photos but found nothing going back 2 months. The initial reaction to $600 is based on the time limit for an SP, but as you say she's untimed so if she only stayed 3 hrs that's $200 hr SP rate, but she'd likely stay longer, which works for someone like me, but not so much for someone attached. She sure has a nice slim body. What does she say in her profile, which is what I was curious to see.

 

[Ryan1967]

She is too old for you Paul..haha...she is 48...Her profile name is Real Barbie...she is far too plastic for me so I will pass...but by all means have at her...

You won't see these pics on her profile...they are in a Private Album, I was able to download them when she gave me access...which she has since rescinded...

 

[paul mott]

48!!!...a granny...at that age she'd have wrinkles on her pussy, and likely does knitting while you're banging her...lol.

 

[slurp]

she is far too plastic for me so I will pass

LOL, that is exactly my thoughts as I looked at the pics. At first glance very pretty but the more you look the less you like. Not that I wouldn't fuck her, but if I had several to chose from she would drop down the list. She doesn't look "real" to me.

I have to admit I am a bit jealous that I cannot pursue SA babes, seems to be a whole new world of fun! Have at it guys and share your stories, should be some good reading!

 

[Ryan1967]

I am really having a shit ton of fun on there...mind you with the SO being gone it is dead easy this week...but I make it clear to each and every one that I am attached and I cannot host...have already had 3 offers to get laid in just 5 days...so anyone can participate!

 

[paul mott]

Jason, here's the link to join and as a guest or "lurker" you can just browse the girls profiles and photos, and not have to create a profile for yourself or photo. At that stage it's basically window shopping, you can look but you can't communicate unless you pay a membership fee, which then allows you to exchange messages, as well as allowing the girls to show interest in you, by them sending you a message that you're a "Favorite" meaning they find you of potential interest. On the left side you can narrow what the search displays for you, by indicating all the characteristics you prefer, such as age, height/weight, hair colour, radius of search (keep it low as no point in the girl being 100 km from you), etc. Also sent the search order from Most Recent, as it shows the last time they were on. If they haven't been on the site for a month or more, then they've either found a SD or are no longer interested.

If you get a membership and you can just pay non recurring per month, about $110 CA, and once you make contact, what I always did was to meet them first for coffee somewhere, basically a meet and greet, and at no cost, which allows both to determine if you might like to set up an arrangement. It also ensures the photos are genuine. There are about 5 expected $ levels the girls set for themselves, the lowest being "Negotiable" and the highest "Substantial". The latter are dreamers who think they're God's gift to men. I only would deal with the former, as it means they're more reasonable and they're $ expectations aren't too high, and as Ryan has said, can be a per visit amount. Right now I'm only a guest without a profile, so can't make contact with them, or them with me. You'll see some familiar sp and ma faces on there, including CMJ Peach (handle "SilliverSurfer), Francisca from Vibe, Penelope from Cerb etc

SeekingArrangement.com - Sugar Daddy, Sugar Mommy and Sugar Baby Dating Website

 

[Ryan1967]

Well...seekingarrangement.com...I actually created my profile 4 months ago (no cost) but only upgraded to premium (usually $80 US but on $54 last Saturday for some reason, shows up discreetly on you CC bill or you can use a prepaid CC that you can buy at Shoppers or Walmart for cash). My single picture is set to private so can only be viewed when you grant access to someone...I have met 2 without ever granting access...A couple of messages traded on the site to see if they are not crazy then I push for a quick meet and greet for coffee...

 

[blackram]

The 48 year old looks familiar, I might have seen her pix on BP or CL or something sometime. Lots of Photoshopping going on.

 

[Jingles]

BR, I was just thinking the same thing, she looks very familiar! I may have seen her on some of the dating sites I have been on. I am going to have to look at this SA a little more closely as I am single!

 

[paul mott]

Interesting you two think you've seen her photos before, as I also thought the same, but not on dating site as I haven't been on any.

 

[Jingles]

Jason, I think $he is more of a 'green fever' lady! :LMAO:

 

[Jingles]

Curious if Ryan was able to meet up for a 'visit' with any of the SB's?

I joined (so I can lurk) but I have not set up a profile. A few familiar faces on there! I won't create anything until when\if I am ready to join as I know what happens once you do. As has been stated, very time consuming.

To that effect, I made a list of ones I had some interest in but I am not pursuing them at the moment:

BrookeXoxBaby
Aphrodite Beauty
BeautifullyMixedBaby
ash623
MyaBabyxox
Heyvickyhey
CRenn14
NicoleChilds
BbyBecky93
Beachlife2017
Sajea
Boomerjay94
LovelyPuppy
Lovely23Layla
TasteSoSwt
BluJJ
a_bbabe
Lexi Joyce
Cute0aza0button (this is Megan from cerb)
Kari0
Emily824
NikkiPetKitty
pretty peach1
Xgatorsx

 

[paul mott]

Gee that's quite a list of names to have at least some interest in. Too bad they can't be searched using their handles to see their photos and profiles. If one has the time to screen these girls for what one is looking for, there sure are some gems to be had. Shows just how many girls are in need of some financial help, but haven't migrated into the sp ma realm.