Need Stripper Dating Advice

[palagi]

Hi, I'm new to all this, so kind of need some help/advice. I know guys often ask about how to get a stripper's number, but I already got the number, and need advice on that.

So, I went to a Strip Club last night and went to the VIP with a Stripper, we concluded our business, and I went back to the main floor. Later on that night she comes back to me and says hi, has a bit of a chat, and asks me for my number (i didn't ask, nor was I trying to get it). I give it to her, and she immediately texts me so I have her number.

Then, later the same night, after the club is closed, she sends me a Text Message saying it was nice to meet me, to which I reply roughly with a thanks and a likewise... then she responds asking me if I want to meet up today or tomorrow.

The question is, should I respond or not? I know on a base level, this is a lot of guys' dreams, but I know the risks and stigma that can surround these situations outside the strip club (they could be crazy), and I know sometimes this is a way for them to expand their customer base, so I wanna know if you guys think the reward is worth the risk. My gut tells me she's fishing for money, but I made it pretty clear to her last night that I don't have tons of cash to throw around. It's just a bit weird to me that I didn't try at all, and she's being doing all the work.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Most likely she is just expanding her client base but all you have to do is ask to find out.

Which is exactly what I would do.

 

[Art Mann]

You already know what to do. :good:

Stop making us jealous.

:biggrin2:

 

[Chevy]

In the old days her pimp would be waiting for you to take your money. Like MB said she is just expanding and using her marketing technique. Have fun and let us know her number and price tag :biggrin2:

 

[Boing]

Your first post since June 2012.

What took you so long EACE:

 

[oldguyzer]

I've dated quite a few strippers over the decades. A few became very good friends, and a very small number bacame much better friends and live-ins. They are just like MPAs and SPs: women. Treat them well, don't be an asshole, don't bullshit them, and you'll find they are wonderful ladies.

 

[Robintheboywonder]

I've dated quite a few strippers over the decades. A few became very good friends, and a very small number bacame much better friends and live-ins. They are just like MPAs and SPs: women. Treat them well, don't be an asshole, don't bullshit them, and you'll find they are wonderful ladies.

Very true but at the same time be careful it is not a fishing expedition on her part. I would ask her out to lunch on me of course in a public place.

 

[JustRiley]

well it really depends if you meet up for lunch or something and keep it casual. and if things get to a point where she might hint or ask for money that is where you set the boundaries again. I have met one of my ex-boyfriends from working in the club and I guess what made things work for us at the start of our relationship was the fact he had clear boundaries out of relationship.

 

[STU700]

Ask how much first.

 

[oldguyzer]

Ask how much first.

If she wanted paying, she'd say it up front. There may be upsell later, but sometimes things really are what they seem.

 

[HOF]

Ask her to take you to her parents for Sunday dinner, if she says no. Leave! If they're not interested in doing activities that do not include money, it's all about money!

 

[Raiden]

I like the lunch idea, you might get lucky.