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Now days it's a bitch deciding to do a good deed or not.

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Would you have done the same knowing the outcome would be an arrest?.

Isn't this a face to be trusted?




BARRINGTON, Ill. (CBS)
– Two 13-year-old suburban girls are being credited with helping police catch a man who offered them a ride home.


Barrington police say the teens were alarmed and disturbed by the offer and took down the man’s license plate. But as CBS 2′s Mai Martinez reports, the man says he was only trying to help the girls, not harm them.


“This is a good deed gone wrong,” Rodney Peterson says.

During a March 2 snowstorm, he saw two teen girls leave a Shell station while he was pumping gas.

“I just noticed these girls, that they had no umbrella, no coats or hood or something of that nature and I just felt like I should help,” Peterson says.

When he drove off, he saw them a short distance away on Prospect Avenue near Waverly.

“I just pulled up and said ‘How far do you have to walk?’ And one of the girls just replied, ‘We’re OK,’ and waved me on.”

Peterson says he drove off and thought nothing of it until Barrington police showed up at his home three days later.

The married father of three, who has a fourth child due in June, listened in disbelief as police told him the girls reported the encounter and he was being charged with disorderly conduct.

His explanation did not assuage the police. Peterson’s wife of nearly 12 years can’t believe it.

“It really was a good deed, just misinterpreted,” she says.

Despite his being charged, the Petersons don’t blame the girls, their families or even police for following up.

“The question comes into why I was charged,” Rodney Peterson says.

Peterson is due in court on Monday. He’s facing a maximum $750 fine.

Barrington’s police chief said the girls in this case were “alarmed and disturbed” by Peterson’s actions. He said the right thing to do in a situation like that is to call police and tell them that the teens need a ride.

https://chicago.cbslocal.com/2012/0...irls-says-hes-victim-of-good-deed-gone-wrong/
 
Yes, these days it's dangerous just to smile at someone else's children.
 
You do a good deed and it bites you in the ass.

What to do next time?.

Let them freeze to death?.
 
The charges will most likely be dropped unless the prosecutor is a total idiot.

The girls did the right thing because he's a stranger but where were their parents.

One has to be careful/cautious about helping others for sure.
 
Yes I would.

Would you have done the same knowing the outcome would be an arrest?.
 
Fuck ... modern life and political correctness can be a bitch.

Recollect chauffeuring my son and friends around town on New Years Eve 8 or 10 years ago. Dropped them off at one party early in the evening, transferred them to another party toward midnight, headed back home to await the final phone call for end of night pickup.

On the way home, stopped at a red light, snow falling lightly, spotted a young woman, my son's age, campus bound in a high heels and a short party dress, bare shoulders, striding purposefully along the street I was about to turn onto. Not too hard to figure she'd had a fight with her date and got the hell right out of that party, heading home without the asshole . . . or a coat.

I felt so sorry for her and wanted to offer her a ride home . . . but didn't, for the simple reason I was afraid I'd be accused of being a predator.

Just kept on driving.

Am still haunted by that image of her walking unprotected against the elements. Wondering how I would have felt if she were my daughter.

Still feel bad I didn't at least stop and offer her the car blanket from the back seat.

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Is this the answer you were looking for, GOD?

Please tell me she made it home safe and sound that night.
 
It just doesn't pay to be nice anymore. I helped a guy out of the snow the other day...he asked me to push him with my 4x4 to get him moving. I ended up doing it against my better judgement. I'm still expecting to get arrested for a hit in run from him. It's a shame that people have become so opportunistic that you just can't get involved these days.




Look how many people don't get involved. It's easy to understand when the risks of helping out (injury to yourself, possible suit from the assailant, legal issues) outweigh the rewards.



I intervened during several incidents this summer. I cannot walk by and ignore someone else being abused. I woke up to people fighting outside in the middle of the night, went on my balcony and yelled at them until they stopped. Used to break up fights in the schoolyard when I was a kid too. Maybe it's because my brothers used to bully my sister mercilessly when she was little, so I got used to be the one to step in.
 
I intervened during several incidents this summer. I cannot walk by and ignore someone else being abused. I woke up to people fighting outside in the middle of the night, went on my balcony and yelled at them until they stopped. Used to break up fights in the schoolyard when I was a kid too. Maybe it's because my brothers used to bully my sister mercilessly when she was little, so I got used to be the one to step in.

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Yes, these days it's dangerous just to smile at someone else's children.

Was at a friends house during the summer and his daughter fell and skinned her knee. My buddy asked me to bring her inside up to her room. Not sure what came over me but I asked my brothers wife to come with me. I didn't want to be alone with another person's child for fear of being accused of anything.

How shitty is that?
 
Was at a friends house during the summer and his daughter fell and skinned her knee. My buddy asked me to bring her inside up to her room. Not sure what came over me but I asked my brothers wife to come with me. I didn't want to be alone with another person's child for fear of being accused of anything.

How shitty is that?

nature of the beast

Always bring a witness when entering a students room is our rule for working at colleges.
 
I'm going to play devil's advocate here. WTF was he thinking? Where has be been freaking living for the past 30-40 years? I grew up in a small town, and 35 years ago I was told "never get in a car with a stranger".

The girls did the right thing, in refusing his ride and calling the cops. This is something that's been preached for how many years?

Did he deserve to be arrested? Honestly, I don't think so, but he does deserve a smack upside the head for doing something that's been drilled into us since childhood not to do.

Again, let's be honest, how often do we hear this scenario play out to unfortunate consequences.
 
I'm going to play devil's advocate here. WTF was he thinking? Where has be been freaking living for the past 30-40 years? I grew up in a small town, and 35 years ago I was told "never get in a car with a stranger".

The girls did the right thing, in refusing his ride and calling the cops. This is something that's been preached for how many years?

Did he deserve to be arrested? Honestly, I don't think so, but he does deserve a smack upside the head for doing something that's been drilled into us since childhood not to do.

Again, let's be honest, how often do we hear this scenario play out to unfortunate consequences.

Kind of agree but if I see anyone in trouble I would offer my help. Politically right or not it would be the sensible thing to do.
 
We should be able to extend an offer and the recipient can choose what they feel is best. It's any action that's inappropriate after the offer that matters.
 
We should be able to extend an offer and the recipient can choose what they feel is best. It's any action that's inappropriate after the offer that matters.

That's exactly how it should be handled. My first words are usually, "Excuse me, do you need help?" If they say no, I move on.
 
Fuck ... modern life and political correctness can be a bitch.

Recollect chauffeuring my son and friends around town on New Years Eve 8 or 10 years ago. Dropped them off at one party early in the evening, transferred them to another party toward midnight, headed back home to await the final phone call for end of night pickup.

On the way home, stopped at a red light, snow falling lightly, spotted a young woman, my son's age, campus bound in a high heels and a short party dress, bare shoulders, striding purposefully along the street I was about to turn onto. Not too hard to figure she'd had a fight with her date and got the hell right out of that party, heading home without the asshole . . . or a coat.

I felt so sorry for her and wanted to offer her a ride home . . . but didn't, for the simple reason I was afraid I'd be accused of being a predator.

Just kept on driving.

Am still haunted by that image of her walking unprotected against the elements. Wondering how I would have felt if she were my daughter.

Still feel bad I didn't at least stop and offer her the car blanket from the back seat.

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Is this the answer you were looking for, GOD?

Please tell me she made it home safe and sound that night.

But you could've asked her if she needed help. I would've.
 
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