Once Again I Need Help...

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I have this Beautiful Son...he is over 20ty....

I take it running away to L.A was not enough
but I call the cell he never picks up ....to find
a young woman saying her name and our last name...

Just from my deep feelings ....I know he got married...

OMG what did I do for him to hate me so......For not telling
me ...nothing......I can't do this anymore...I can't... I gave my all, to those guys...
I am a very understanding person...I forgive...this is going to break me....
I am so sad.......What did I do.....Really....I am sorry....

 

[papasmerf]

Bliss, it is often not what we do as parents but rather what demons they have with them.


Remember life is all about choices and the consequences each choice brings.

 

[Robintheboywonder]

Blissful, stop beating yourself up over it. Sometimes it has more to do with them and anything you can do. Just give him space and eventually one day hopefully he will come around. I would just send him birthday cards and Christmas cards and eventually as he gets older he'll realize he only has one mom.

My neighbors kids turned on his parents because they didn't pay for half the wedding. The daughter in law has totally turned their only son against his own parents. It's eating the father up but he is learning to cope with it. They couldn't afford it and paid what they could but that wasn't good enough for the spoiled couple.

 

[Skipper]

Just be happy he is healthy. Once he matures he will come to his senses and understand all.

Trust me on this one.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.
Marcus Aurelius

 

[Al Bumin]

Think of you first. The rest will come easy. Not easy to do but pain and disappointments will be easier to handle.

 

[Madman]

Blissful, you cannot force anyone to do anything they are not ready to do. Life doesn't always go as planned and we all need to adjust and deal with it in a way that works for us. Roll with the punches, adapt and get out there for some fun. Take a holiday and go somewhere you've always wanted to visit.

ps,,,,don't fly in a Boeing 777 with a rookie captain!!:wink2::biggrin2:

 

[Wanker]

Good advice by all. Take notes Bliss and good luck.

 

[Wise Guy]

Keep on being yourself by forgiving and let it go.

 

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Thanks You All

I realize everyone of you are right.....but it's hard...

I am very sad, Thank you all it helps to have everyone helping
me through this.....I need to throw all my expectations out the window,
my thoughts of what family is suppose to be, and just take on day
at a time........

I am trying....

 

[Baz]

Blissful I feel for you, I really do. It would be a tough situation for any mother to go through. I'm curious, does your son have a relationship with your ex-spouse assuming he is the biological father?

 

[Shiek]

What kind of a question is that Baz? You're getting too personal with these.

 

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Blissful I feel for you, I really do. It would be a tough situation for any mother to go through. I'm curious, does your son have a relationship with your ex-spouse assuming he is the biological father?

He is my baby Daddy.....does that surprise you....and we were married before I had him...

WTF why even ask that .....

Please stop feeling for me.....

You want to know the difference from you and the people here....

No one has asked if my ex was his father.....they did not care....all they thought was
to help me......:grrrrrr:

 

[Baz]

What kind of a question is that Baz? You're getting too personal with these.

Again, she doesn't have to answer any of my questions. I don't have a gun pointed at her therefore , for you to get your knickers in a knot to me is mind boggling.

 

[Baz]

He is my baby Daddy.....does that surprise you....and we were married before I had him...

WTF why even ask that .....

Please stop feeling for me.....

You want to know the difference from you and the people here....

No one has asked if my ex was his father.....they did not care....all they thought was
to help me......:grrrrrr:

That's fine, I will not ask you again.

 

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That's fine, I will not ask you again.

You really can't see the difference can you.......:no:

 

[Baz]

You really can't see the difference can you.......:no:

No I cannot and again, you are not obligated in any way to answer anything I ask so why go on?

 

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No I cannot and again, you are not obligated in any way to answer anything I ask so why go on?

I can use that argument too.....Don't reply......