Paul's new honey -- Mercedes "Sadie"

[blackram]

So guys, this is Paul's new honey, Mercedes, aka Sadie. She's a fitness model!

Here's a video of her during one of her competitions, it's a little far away, but it gives you an idea of what she is like. Be careful about the volume, if you're watching this, so you might want to mute or turn the volume low first before playing.





Apart from that, I'm gonna let Paul describe her himself. :-Cool/"

 

[paul mott]

Thanks for posting that BR, and thought I'd let you guys see her. The photo isn't the best of her but gives you an idea, and the videos are from a distance and not very clear. After the 1st one plays, I think it's the one in the bottom left of those in the box, where she placed 2nd. We met on SA and made a connection right away as she's got the super personality as well as the beautiful face and body. Also you'll hear her mention her fiance, but he cheated on her so they broke up. She works for a gov't agency looking after a 14 yr old severely autistic boy and also at a group home helping kids get their lives back on track. She's hoping to get a job in a hospital soon. She works shifts now which has made it harder to see her. Also her real name is Mercedes but she also uses Sadie and why you hear the audience calling Sadie.

She took up modelling and fitness as she was very shy so felt this would get her some confidence, which it has. She's 24, 5'7", black hair, green eyes and super white teeth and always smiling and happy...never moody and soft spoken. She doesn't smoke or drink either. Anyway she's never charged me anything, as she was uncomfortable with that part, and said she'd like to find a nice relationship. She's fed up with younger guys, as many other girls are. Anyway many will say she's looking for a SD, but actually she's very non materialistic, and some in our society won't accept such an age difference, but in our Western society we're very prudish when it comes to age differences, unlike South America, Asia and Europe where no one gives a second look to a younger girl and older man together. She and I have the same interests and personalities and up bringing, so very compatible.

This week she said she'd like this to be a real relationship, and she'd like to start a life with me and asked if I'd like it if she moved in with me, which was ironic as I had been thinking the same, but wasn't sure what she'd say. So she's starting to move her things in tomorrow! A beautiful girl is nice to look at, but if they have no personality or are drama queens then their beauty isn't worth a thing. In the 12 yrs I've been single I've only had one who lived with me for a year, so not something I jump into unless I know it has a high chance of success, and I'm confident as she is, that this can work. All that to say, my hobby time is over, as I don't want to throw away a rare chance like this. Sorry for how long this post got, but I hope I can continue to have you guys as friends and we can get together sometime. Lots of great memories, and experiences, so thanks a lot!!

 

[Ryan1967]

That is awesome Paul! She is indeed very pretty and clearly has a killer body, I am super happy for you...don't forget to use your real name! I really hope it works out for you and don't forget to stay in touch with us low life dirty old bastards!

 

[mmad]

Great news Paul, congratulations. Now take a vacation and take her on a (move-in) honeymoon.

 

[Jingles]

Very nice Paul!

 

[HUBGFEsup]

Congrats Paul! Maybe I should try my hand at SeekingArrangement. Very inspiring!

 

[blackram]

So Paul, has this girl stayed over at your place, over the course of a few days yet? Having a girl over for an evening is considerably different than having her over to stay. Things appear different when she's staying over. You have to put up with her hair falling over your place, her leaving her stuff all around, even having to put up with her brand of toothpaste, or even what her shit smells like could become an issue. Thought about easing into the arrangement instead?

 

[Ryan1967]

BR you are such a buzzkill... ...

So all this chatter about SA got me curious so I signed up with a free membership...where you can basically do searches and that is about it...No idea if I could make this work in my current situation, but almost curious enough to gamble the 80$ to try, provided the Credit Card charge is innocuous enough...So Paul...the "lifestyle" flag that women use...did you filter out those looking for "High", "Substancial", etc...or ignore that in your searches? Just curious if women put that there to weed out the riff raff like me... . I am sure there are many women there looking to do nothing for some monthly compensation, I guess you need to find those out by messaging them. Curious on your pointers, not sure I will drop the 80 at this point but I am tempted, with a zero, no picture profile I have 3 messages in a couple of hours...

 

[HUBGFEsup]

Three messages with zero info/pics on your profile? Nice. I've had my profile in the same empty state as you for months and haven't​ had any views or messages or anything. It's fun identifying the SPs and MAs on there though.

 

[HUBGFEsup]

The video leads to her channel with more fitness competition videos: sadie hartnett
- YouTube

The woman yelling "Go Sadie!" almost sounds like Hope @ Brass Club's voice.

 

[paul mott]

BR you're such a buzzkill!!....lol Fuck you mean she might use toothpaste?, here I thought she painted her teeth that white, and she has stuff to leave around?, and you think she actually shits...no way a girl that attractive can possible shit!! Hell you only live once and if you don't take chances in life then you'll never know if you'll succeed.

Ryan - Given that there is such a high ratio of girls to guys, I figured that should make guys more demand due to competition, so I rarely sent them any messages, and instead waited for them to contact me. When a girl clicks on your profile you're notified she has Viewed you and who she is, however at that point it's only curiosity. If she then marks you as a Favorite then I start to pay attention as that means they're actually interested. Those that send you a message means they want to engage in some dialogue and that's key to meeting them and why it makes no sense not to pay in order to be allowed to view and send messages, as without that communication it's only window shopping.

I only consider the ones who say Negotiable as that's the lowest level and means she's open to discuss something reasonable. I might consider Minimal too, but anything higher they're just gold diggers. Mercedes Favored me, then sent a message, so I knew she was interested and it went from there. Yes some are sp and ma, several from spas, but if you weren't a hobbier you wouldn't know that. I think SA is better simply because they say, and girls have said it's a 10 to 1 ratio, as well as a documentary I saw on it, so it's a guys paradise where they come to you. I rarely initiated anything. Also you'll get tons of girls from other countries which of course you ignore, as all they want you to do is sponsor them to immigrate here and will tell you how much they love you etc. Lots of students for sure and the other thing is that asking for money for fun on SA they don't see that as prostitution, verses if they put the same ad up on CL or BP. In their minds it makes it more palatable. Not all are looking for money either, like Mercedes didn't want to talk about it. Lots of girls need money, single mums who need some help etc, but don't want to consider themselves escorts, as SA makes it acceptable.

I think the profile is important to them, as many commented they liked what I wrote, and it's basically you trying to sell yourself. If you don't describe the product then less chance a girl will bother to have a look or buy. Nice thing is that you can meet for coffee first, so you get to check the merchandise for free first, which you can't do with sp's. I met Mercedes first at a Tim's and then we both knew we wanted to keep this going. I did my due diligence with Mercedes and everything checked out perfectly what she was telling me. I also found her profile on social media and it checked out perfectly too.

 

[slurp]

Damn PM, you must be living right! Nice find, I hope it works out great for you both. If you ever find time for breakfast be sure to let us know so we can get updates! Way to go killer!! :biggrin2:

 

[paul mott]

The other thing with SA is you have to get out of the mindset of what you normally pay an SP. most of these girls have no idea what they charge so they have no benchmark for them to establish what they charge. You've seen how little what some guys have paid in their posts on TERB. $150 for a several hours is a lot of money for a student compared to what she would make it Tims, plus a lot of them simply want to experience new things like we did when we were their age.

If an SP charged that rate we'd think there was something wrong with her and probably avoid, but don't think that way on SA. Same applies to the single moms of which there are a lot, as they have no idea what the going escort rates are. Obviously being unattached and having your own place makes quite a difference as these girls live at home. Also lots of girls who have regular jobs and just looking for a few extra dollars and some fun if they have no one in their life.

Hope this helps and thanks a lot guys for your kind words and encouragement. Happy Easter!!

 

[blackram]

The other thing with SA is you have to get out of the mindset of what you normally pay an SP. most of these girls have no idea what they charge so they have no benchmark for them to establish what they charge.

Good advice, Paul.

Now is it true that there's a 10:1 female to male ratio? Or is that simply what the site tells you it has? Ashley Madison used to say similar things, until people found out that it was mainly fake.

 

[Ryan1967]

Not sure of the ratio...but I have had a photo less profile for 24 hours and have received 7 messages (that I cannot read until I pay... )...so I would concur that the women outnumber the men...I would be surprised if it was 10 to 1...

 

[paul mott]

I can't say with any certainty any more than any outsider could, as we don't have access to the stats, but the documentary I saw about SA said it was much higher ratio of girls than guys, and the site says so, as well as girls, so even if you halved that it's still not a bad ratio. For me I figured that I'd pretty much wait to see who showed interest in me, as in theory at least it meant I wouldn't be wasting time contacting others who had no interest. In the real dating world you have to screen and do your due diligence, so nothing new in that respect. What you get on SA is lots of non sp girls, but who still would like a little extra cash in exchange for some fun. As we know, younger girls do like older guys, as they're treated with more respect and have more live experience, verses the young guys who fuck them and then dump them, so they feel used and disrespected. If not for any other reason SA is a refreshing change from the norm.

I met one 54 yrs old and she's a high school teacher and is Czechoslovakian, nice woman in spite of age, so there's all type and ages. Also set your preference to the type you want, age, height, distance away, smoker etc, as it helps to screen them using the site's system, and you don't get the type you don't like.

 

[Hector17]

Good going! Nice work Paul. I like the sound of how much sense this all makes, but ya...I think you have to be unattached or it could be a disaster

 

[paul mott]

Well she's now fully moved in and zero negative surprises with her, as just as nice as I knew before living with her. She's super neat and tidy and everything lined up perfectly in the drawers and closet. She's just gone out for a run in her super tight lulu's and she said she never wears panties under them! She said last year she was picked as one of 10 girls chosen out of almost 3,000 fitness girls in Ontario to compete in the provincial finals, but she got sick and couldn't go. If you get at that level you can get scouted by advertisers, and magazines and can make really good money.

Hope everyone has a Happy Easter and thanks again for all your kind comments!

 

[blackram]

Are we gonna have to start calling you Rene & Celine from now on? :-Cool/"

 

[paul mott]

LOL BR...good comparison, however she can't sing and I can't manage and I'm not even a talent scout who will repeat the rewards of her success, albeit unlikely. I won't bore anyone with the details anymore, but again thanks for your interest and really nice comments, and I'm sorry I won't be able to share any new adventures, but if I have some info from old ones, then I'll certainly share.