Pegging

[SillyGirl]

A couple weeks ago a FWB expressed an interest in pegging, and asked if I would be willing to indulge him. Having the soul of a sub as I do, this is outside of my comfort zone. But I thought, why not? It's good to leave the comfort zone sometimes.

We chat a lot online but live pretty far apart so have only hooked up once, so it's not like we're all that sexually familiar with each other.

I'm hoping to get some advice here on what to expect, what to do and more importantly what not to do, what to look for in a strap-on, do we need special lube?

I'm a little apprehensive. :blush2:

 

[Anto]

What is pegging?.

 

[Casa_Nova]

 

[BEER]

What is pegging?.

Shit, what is FWB?.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Shit, what is FWB?.

Friends With Benefits.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

When purchasing a strap on, make sure you get one that straps around the waist as well as the thighs or else it's useless. They usually have strap on kits with a couple different sizes of dildos to go in the rings. The canvas strap on I have currently I absolutely love compared to the leather one I used to have. But the dildo that came with it is too soft and bendy. It's perfect for using on a female but not a male. I simply slip in a small butt plug I have instead that is much stiffer. If he has had prior experiences, he may want or need something larger. You could ask him. You don't need special lube but stay away from tingly or flavored stuff. Obviously don't use a silicone based lube with a silicone toy.

 

[BEER]

Friends With Benefits.

I feel like a rookie now.

 

[LickingGravity]

Avoid any attachment with a brand nickname like "Kong" :SayWhat?:

 

[DannyDeVito]

You all scare me.

 

[SillyGirl]

When purchasing a strap on, make sure you get one that straps around the waist as well as the thighs or else it's useless. They usually have strap on kits with a couple different sizes of dildos to go in the rings. The canvas strap on I have currently I absolutely love compared to the leather one I used to have. But the dildo that came with it is too soft and bendy. It's perfect for using on a female but not a male. I simply slip in a small butt plug I have instead that is much stiffer. If he has had prior experiences, he may want or need something larger. You could ask him. You don't need special lube but stay away from tingly or flavored stuff. Obviously don't use a silicone based lube with a silicone toy.

Thanks, Amy, I was hoping for advice like this. He's never done this before either, which I think makes me even more apprehensive. :???:

 

[SillyGirl]

Avoid any attachment with a brand nickname like "Kong" :SayWhat?:

LOL! Yea, I had figured that one out on my own.

 

[SillyGirl]

You all scare me.

awwww, Danny, do not be afraid. :girlkiss:

 

[Senor Gomes]

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[papasmerf]

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so that whole do on to others idea is out?

 

[Mariner]

What is pegging?.

Some women regard it as revenge :wink2:

 

[Senor Gomes]

so that whole do on to others idea is out?

No shit.

 

[Blank_Dave]

I have no experience in the matter but I'd say Amy covered the bases. Only thing I'd add would approach it like you'd like him to if you were on the other end.

 

[RAWD]

One girl told me that after she did this (at the guys request/insistence), she couldn't look him in the eyes again. He just lost his man-card.