Another scenario has popped into my thoughts. Allow me to construct the scenario. The individual books a lady for hire through an add. The individual based his initial choice on the pictures and proceeds to the venue. Upon entering the ladies location, she is everything the gentleman wanted in the way of beauty, he is pleased with her facial appearance and her figure. While the pleasantries are exchanged he realizes she speaks like a truck driver, her voice, mannerisms and the way she carries herself is evident that she's completely lacking in personality. In this scenario what do you do? Do you stay because it is only about the sex or do you leave because you need more than just skin to skin contact??
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dreamblade
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Leave. One great thing about the industry parties, is that it saved me from this exact situation, several times.
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Art Mann
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Stop texting to set up your dates, Baz. Pick up the damn phone.
Amazing what you and your potential date can learn about each other and what levels of comfort you can establish in just a few minutes of actual conversation.
Amazing what you and your potential date can learn about each other and what levels of comfort you can establish in just a few minutes of actual conversation.
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Robintheboywonder
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:search2:I don't get it, Baz is texting ladies??
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Or let change this around
Another scenario has popped into my thoughts. Allow me to construct the scenario. The individual books a men for hire through an add. The individual based her initial choice on the pictures and proceeds to the venue. Upon entering the man's location, he is everything the Lady wanted in the way of beauty, she is pleased with his facial appearance and his figure. While the pleasantries are exchanged she realizes he speaks like a truck driver, his voice, mannerisms and the way he carries himself is evident that he's completely lacking in personality. In this scenario what do you do? Do you stay because it is only about the sex or do you leave because you need more than just skin to skin contact??
So think this one out......
Sex, Sex, You tell the male or female to not talk as you are paying
For SEX.....
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Robintheboywonder
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Papasmerf is a man for hire??:no:
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I'm not texting any ladies Art, I'm not quite sure what you mean.
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Of course Blissful you are correct this can apply both ways. I disagree with you on sex, sex, sex. In reality most gentlemen I'm sure only last on an average 20 minutes of a 60 minutes appointment. This does leave at least another 30 minutes of conversation. It doesn't surprise me members like DreamBlade and I'm sure Art would want at least some personality thrown into the session for when the sex reaches it's climax.
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True, but does this also apply to a half hour or even 60 minutes appointment?
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If the girl's personality is not up to your expectations, you can either: (1) leave, tell her that it may not work out, or (2) stay, and try her out for that one session. If it's #2, then your next session depends on whether or not her personality is a negative enough to not have a second visit. You may find that she did some really amazing things in the sack, and the personality isn't as big of a problem.
I have personally had similar situations, and I've come to appreciate girls that I thought initially were not my type of girl. It's not just their personalities, but also body styles, and races that I've put my initial worries aside on, and in many cases they've been great and I'm glad I tried them.
I have personally had similar situations, and I've come to appreciate girls that I thought initially were not my type of girl. It's not just their personalities, but also body styles, and races that I've put my initial worries aside on, and in many cases they've been great and I'm glad I tried them.
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Art Mann
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What I mean, Baz, is that if you speak with someone, rather than just texting, you're not likely to find this surprise.
Texting can be a useful means of communication, but it's not nearly as rich and meaningful a method of communication as the human voice.
Vocal contact, of course, improves with eye contact. So by the time I'm making eye contact I've already long established personality contact and the stage is set for some wonderful lip and genital contact.
I do not know about you Baz but even with my ex we spent more than an hour having sex....as for me I enjoy 2 to 3 hours...
talk a bit but just relax and explore.....
Rushing things means somebody is left out.
I really enjoy the warmth, feel, sounds and smell of a woman....why would I rush it....but that is coming from a woman...
