I don't know why some guys on cerb post in these types of threads. It is a no win situation. I also don't know why some providers post the shit they do. All it does (for me) is pare down my TDL. I can name at least five of them that I was thinking of seeing but changed to avoid because of something they posted.
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It's called verbal diarrhea, talk and talk and talk about nothing of any tangible value. Then you get the CERB suck holes like Rominguy agreeing with and supporting every girl, in an attempt to enhance his position with them. Girls who post this kind of stuff are trying to come across as academic and intelligent, when all we really care about is what service they provide and if the rate is reasonable, as we don't want to fuck their brains!
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Yeah, imagine that an escort would provide as much information about themselves that they seem to think we have to provide about ourselves to them? Do any of them see the hypocrisy? When I started in this hobby, it was understood that nobody provided real names, not the client, not the escort. Then a few years later, all of a sudden I'm seeing all this crap about having to provide your real name, I almost gave up the hobby because of that. But then I found that not all providers are like that, in fact most aren't.Hector17 said:
I've even see some ads where they want your business phone too...dream on baby! Then there's the ones that require one or more references from other girls you've seen, which eliminates me seeing them, as I'm not going to ask someone I've seen or am seeing, to recommend me to someone else. As well, it's none of that girl's business who else I've seen. Furthermore, why would a girl you've seen before want to help you to see someone else, and therefore loose some, or all of your business to that new girl competitor?
They'll of course argue it's for their safety, however considering the vast majority don't require references, including touring girls, and as far as I'm aware, don't have any problems with clients, the requirement to provide references, or other personal information about yourself, doesn't fly with me. Some girls even want that info if their doing incall in a hotel, which makes no sense either.
They'll of course argue it's for their safety, however considering the vast majority don't require references, including touring girls, and as far as I'm aware, don't have any problems with clients, the requirement to provide references, or other personal information about yourself, doesn't fly with me. Some girls even want that info if their doing incall in a hotel, which makes no sense either.
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The ladies I have come to luv over time know a lot about me..name , where I live, work, my car, hobbies, habits etc....and I know quite a bit about them ....it's just being a human being....but this is only AFTER Trust is established and a comfortable connection is established....and ya...even knowing all this stuff, I still call them Monique and Jessica lol
Hector I totally agree that it's all about establishing trust, as I too have given and received very personal information with girls I've seen regularly. Trust has to be earned, and not simply telling someone or asking someone to trust you, but when it happens, then it enhances the physical part and makes it feel much less like a business relationship. Both parties benefit when that happens. In fact a Group like ours, works the same way, except it's between males.
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No, actually they've been very helpful. It's hard to talk about sexual things with female friends at work or elsewhere, without it becoming very weird and awkward, but with some of these ladies, the weird and awkward has already been taken care of right at the beginning. :LMAO:
Also, if you have a mistress instead of these working girls, then there is an implied commitment to her as well, and your wife will be her rival, so there is no way that she is going to help you out with your wife. I've found the casualness of the encounters with the working girls to be quite satisfying, I think they find the same from their end too.
BTW, I'm in India right now, I did get some Internet connection at the moment, but it's not going to last, so don't expect me to be timely with my responses. :Crying/:
Also, if you have a mistress instead of these working girls, then there is an implied commitment to her as well, and your wife will be her rival, so there is no way that she is going to help you out with your wife. I've found the casualness of the encounters with the working girls to be quite satisfying, I think they find the same from their end too.
BTW, I'm in India right now, I did get some Internet connection at the moment, but it's not going to last, so don't expect me to be timely with my responses. :Crying/:
Nice to hear from you, and hope things are going well. What you say is so true, as when you try and understand a female, the only ones who can give you real insight are females. We may talk to some male friends when we're trying to understand females, like we do here, but it's not the same as having female insight into the female mind. I have few male friends, and none have any idea I see these types of girls, and likely would be shocked if they knew. Most girls I know are the ones I have this business relationship with, and we can talk about anything especially sexual things. As you point out, they sometimes like a males perspective, and most don't have bf's so this fills that void for them too. I've had personal relationships with many of them, indepth chats, going out to dinner, going to Mtl and other non sexual, unpaid time things.
Speaking of postings by sp's and mp's, have you noticed how many try and entice you to book, by saying things like, "book now to avoid disappointment", "last day here" or "leaving soon" (when they have planned on staying much longer), "only a few times available so book now", (when in fact all times are available), "I only see a few clients a day, so book early", they only see a few because they're not busy, just like the others who use these kind of terms. For me I tend to avoid them, as I figure if they're not busy, especially on a continuous basis, it's likely because their rates are too high, and/or service is poor. Some honest marketing phrases are fine, but this type is just bs.
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I think they do themselves a disservice by doing this as they lose out on last minute\last hour bookings they could have had but the client doesn't call because he figures they are not available. The "book now to avoid disappointment" refers more to the provider than it does us. She loses out on the $ while we can always find n SP\MA.
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Well, I just considered that like Home Shopping Network marketing, you know like, "only a limited number of these Donald Duck door knockers are available, after that they will all be gone and no further allotments will be ordered. Thanks for shopping."paul mott said:
EACE:Hey Fellas,
Another week away last week, back to Vegas for a conference. Was hanging with colleagues all the time so not time to venture out and taste any talent, came back on Thursday and happy to be able to book an hour with the lovely Penny on Friday.
Yikes...that thread...I had always thought ChristyCurves was never the smartest poster but aye! She went off the rails with that thread. The most insightful posts for me were from Genevieve Marceau, I know she is a crazy pricey SP (500/hour) but I have actually considered plunking down that coin since she looks pretty hot...but after reading her responses and following her on twitter (another great way to know the SP's persona before taking a plunge) she is off the TDL! Like you said Jingles, she may not realize how she comes across with her responses, but she looks like a man hating bitch, I like Eric Northman's replies. Similarly, her tweets make her seem very much full of herself. Another one that I have written off due to her tweets is Kylie Daniels, she comes across as a classless boor, not what you want when you are spending $500 to see an SP.
Another week away last week, back to Vegas for a conference. Was hanging with colleagues all the time so not time to venture out and taste any talent, came back on Thursday and happy to be able to book an hour with the lovely Penny on Friday.
Yikes...that thread...I had always thought ChristyCurves was never the smartest poster but aye! She went off the rails with that thread. The most insightful posts for me were from Genevieve Marceau, I know she is a crazy pricey SP (500/hour) but I have actually considered plunking down that coin since she looks pretty hot...but after reading her responses and following her on twitter (another great way to know the SP's persona before taking a plunge) she is off the TDL! Like you said Jingles, she may not realize how she comes across with her responses, but she looks like a man hating bitch, I like Eric Northman's replies. Similarly, her tweets make her seem very much full of herself. Another one that I have written off due to her tweets is Kylie Daniels, she comes across as a classless boor, not what you want when you are spending $500 to see an SP.
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That's why I try to avoid high-priced girls as much as possible. They say you pay for the quality, it's more like you pay for the oversized ego. I learned a long time ago, that you have more fun with reasonably priced girls. Actually how much fun you have, really depends more on you, than the girl: if you make it fun for the girl, she'll make it fun for you.
The Montreal hobbyists' philosophy of making fun of guys who pay the overpriced rates for these girls makes so much more sense. :slap:
The Montreal hobbyists' philosophy of making fun of guys who pay the overpriced rates for these girls makes so much more sense. :slap:
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Cristy Curves is constantly whining about something. Ryan is correct, she is a few fries short of a happy meal. She was suspended from cerb for constantly attacking other SP's and their points of view. Even though she was warned several times. The male hobbyists on that board usually don't even get a warning, just suspended. She got one member in Winnipeg suspended for something he posted in that section, even though she is in Halifax & doesn't travel to Winnipeg.
