The lady I was with wanted me to wear a condom for oral on me but was okay with me going down on her. I've had blood tests in the past and was married faithfully for 10 years until a few years ago. My wife and I were always faithful we even had a few of our own blood tests to be sure never had an issue. I haven't dated anyone since our marriage ended so I know I'm clean.
The lady said she's tested regularly at least every 1-3 months, she was very clean, no smells or visible sores anywhere, she even said she's very selective of who she lets go down on her without a covering. The first time I saw her, I recently had some dental work done before our first meeting, I didn't realize it until a week later the dentist must have done something to irritate or cut my upper lip, I was honest with her and showed her, she actually said to be safe she used a dental dam to cover herself for me to go down on her.
The second time I met with her recently I I showed her my lip from dental work in December had healed up and she was comfortable letting me go down on her. She saw a mark on my lower lip and it was a shaving cut from a few days ago that had healed over. So I could tell she is very careful even had me clean up in between our session together which was comforting.
A friend of mine was a driver for an escort agency in Montreal over 10 years ago (he won't say the name) and he told me the truth that the lady I've met with is most likely much cleaner than the average girl/woman I would pick up in a bar/club or on a dating app. The scary part is, I believe him as he told me the last thing these particular women want to do is catch and/or spread something as it's part of what they do for a living.
I haven't had anything happen to me when dating regular women, but I've had friends tell me some stories so I don't think my friend the driver is wrong here.
Any thoughts on this new information I've just typed?
I appreciate your previous replies and agree with you about blood tests.
I don't date much, I'm in Ontario now and the women here are much more reserved and not as friendly and the dating apps have a lot of fake auto generated profiles that try and get you to pay a year up front for like $170 it won't let you pay the monthly fee. So at this point I can't be bothered dating
