Really Pissed.....

[-b]

I went from being F**k or making Love every other night...BJs and
during the week a woman.....then every 2nd weekend a 3somes
to...

Not Getting Anything.....NOTHING.......
Nope....No one kiss, hug, touch......And it is all
my Fault because I feel that I need to wait till after my Divorce....
Shit, Damn, F**K.....I have morals about this.....

So I am pissed....I need some one to state why I should
stop feeling this way....Is it a woman's thing.....My ex is
having the time of his life......

F**K....

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Blissful,

I wouldn't place any fault on you. You've made the decision to wait because you feel it's something you need to do. We can question the motives behind your decision but in the end you have to realize that you've made the decision because something has told you this is where you need to be. I can tell you to screw your rationale and go out there and break a few hearts but I'm not sure you would feel guilty about it in the end. You'll know when your ready and don't push it otherwise you'll make yourself feel worse.

In the meantime don't worry about what your Ex is doing. Don't let that person define who you are now or in the future. And it's not a women thing but a human thing to feel this way.

 

[Guido]

Blissful, I respect your decision to not have any sex but this doesn't mean I agree with it. You are adding unnecessary stress to your life and in the end you withholding your needs will not change the outcome of the end of your relationship. Do what needs to be done legally but help yourself emotionally and have some fun. It doesn't mean you have to be in a serious relationship, act like a man and have fun for God's sake!

 

[RAWD]

Are you upset that he's gallivanting about and you're not?

Go with your gut. You must have thought that you needed some alone time, for closure or to mourn the loss of your marriage. That's perfectly ok.

In fact, I think it makes sense to abstain while your wrapping up your divorce. Very mature to want to go through this with a clear head.

Clean it up and put it behind you. Then discover what your heart truly desires. You have your whole life before you now to do whatever you want.

 

[Coxwell]

If you ever want a hug, just ask. :wink2:

 

[-b]

Coxwell a hug please...

It really does not bug me if he is having a good time.....I want him to have fun and experiment .....
I think it just the way I feel.....my expectation of myself......

I wonder fill anybody would write how they got through this....Divorce, sex and starting
into another relationship.......All I know the stress is getting the best of me ....I do not even
try to shave my garden encase something happens......Right now it looks like I have mange
or I was trying a form of abstract picture.......2 more weeks......
I should run a poll after it done How long will it take me to get Laid.....:Crying2:

 

[Wanker]

Good luck Bliss. You'll get it and once you do you will say "Stop I've had enough"

 

[HOF]

ROTFLMFAO!

Welcome to the world of the married man!
Welcome to the world of the single man!
Welcome to cute/bald's - short/hairless' world!​

 

[SillyGirl]

Coxwell a hug please...

It really does not bug me if he is having a good time.....I want him to have fun and experiment .....
I think it just the way I feel.....my expectation of myself......

I wonder fill anybody would write how they got through this....Divorce, sex and starting
into another relationship.......All I know the stress is getting the best of me ....I do not even
try to shave my garden encase something happens......Right now it looks like I have mange
or I was trying a form of abstract picture.......2 more weeks......
I should run a poll after it done How long will it take me to get Laid.....:Crying2:

You just have to take things one day at a time, Bliss. This is one situation when I would advise against looking at the big picture. One day, one hour, one minute at a time.

I can't give you any advice on starting into another relationship. As you know I have avoided relationships like the plague since my divorce. I think the whole experience has left me incapable of having a real one anyway.

Having sex with someone new will be different for you than it was for me, since you're planning on being involved with women. For me it was really weird the first few times with a new guy...I had to keep reminding myself that this was not my husband, he won't necessarily like the things my husband liked.

Big hug...don't forget to breathe. Someday this will all be just a bad memory.

 

[Jesus Quintana]

Welcome to cute/bald's - short/hairless' world!​

HA! Easy there big fella. When Short/hairless got divorced he had a mistress AND a girlfriend!
Actually once I typed that I thought - "Hey, now I sound like fuji."
STAY CLASSY GUYS! LOL!

 

[SillyGirl]

What's the difference between a mistress and a girlfriend? :dontknow:

 

[Jesus Quintana]

What's the difference between a mistress and a girlfriend? :dontknow:

Mistress is a woman who was giving me sex on a regular basis but on the sly (She was married) and the girlfriend was someone that I could take out in public on dates and such. She was putting out too.

 

[RAWD]

What's the difference between a mistress and a girlfriend? :dontknow:

A girlfriend is someone with whom you may well have a future as the relationship evolves/grows.

A mistress is all there will ever be of the relationship.

 

[HOF]

HA! Easy there big fella. When Short/hairless got divorced he had a mistress AND a girlfriend!
Actually once I typed that I thought - "Hey, now I sound like fuji."
STAY CLASSY GUYS! LOL!

LOL, Go fuji yourself! LMAO:-Cool/"

 

[HOF]

I don't want a wife, mistress, girlfriend or fuck buddy, I just want some pussy! Hello Kitty! Oops, I don't want that either!

I just want an attractive ( who am I kidding, I want a freakin' hawt sex-pot hunnie) woman to fuck me blind, call me dirty names, take the $$$$ and $$$ for Greece, spend the afternoon and when it's done, wash my crown jewels, take the garbage out, walk my dog, bring him back and get the fuck out! Until next time! Is that too much to ask!raying:

 

[Art Mann]

This hug's for you, Bliss

This hug's for you, Bliss

 

[Art Mann]

And a little cotton candy for your sweet tooth

And a little cotton candy for your sweet tooth

 

[Cardinal Fang]

What's the difference between a mistress and a girlfriend? :dontknow:

About $250 per encounter.

 

[Jesus Quintana]

About $250 per encounter.

Yes that's about right when you include dinner and drinks.....

 

[Linda]

I feel for you Blissful. Take one day at a time and do what you feel is right for you. You have a good heart and you need to follow it. It's never as bad as it seems and as time goes on you will look back and realize what a truly strong woman you really are.