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Showing a Suicide video to grade 7 students.

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A graphic video shown to a class of Grade 7 students has angered a Winnipeg man who called it inappropriate, gratuitously violent and horrific.
Alan DeBaets said his son, who was in the class, was "so disturbed and emotionally unequipped to view such horrific video that he had a medical emergency in class and blacked out.

"The target audience is impressionable 12- and 13-year-old children. At 42 years old, I can hardly stomach the contents," he said in an email sent to CBC News.
"We were absolutely shocked this would somehow be shown to the school, especially without any sort of permission," he added in an interview.

The 19-minute video, titled Love is all you need? is set in a homosexual society where heterosexual people are denounced and bullied and referred to as "breeders."
It shows a teen girl driven to suicide after trying to have a relationship with a boy. She is beaten and branded with the word "Hetero" on her forehead before she goes home and cuts her wrists in a bathtub.

Teacher apologizes


The video was shown by a health teacher in the Louis Riel School Division.
The teacher has since written an email to DeBaets and apologized.
"In discussion with administration, I realize that I made a mistake in showing this. If you have any further questions, please let me know," she stated in her email.
"I sincerely apologize for the mistakes I made and please know that in the future they will not happen again."

But that's not good enough for DeBaets, who is unhappy the teacher is still working with students.
"This misconduct makes previous teacher scandals in Manitoba seem pale by comparison," he wrote.
"The school system is trying to brush this under the rug. The teacher who showed this video is working today without any reprimand."

Praise for video

Chad Smith, executive director of the Rainbow Resource Centre, on the other hand, praised the video as "a wonderful teaching tool."
"I think it does a wonderful job of turning [the issue] around. Straight kids are gonna identify with the main character; they're going to see the world from a different perspective," he said.
"It's a wonderful tool for developing some empathy and putting yourself in other people's shoes."

Smith wasn't sure he would want to show the video to a Grade 3 or Grade 4 class but certainly has no problem with junior high school students watching it.
"We see kids that are harassed, who cut and self-harm themselves and that have suicidal tendencies. And they're not finding support in schools," he said.
"These are our kids in the video."

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/mani...ic-school-video-concerns-parent-winnipeg.html
 
I have always and will continue to urge parents to exercise their right to audit the classes their minor children attend.
 
Out of all the parents only one dad complains. Looks like the other parents were OK with it, no?.
 
To be honest, I don't think it's a terrible idea. Kids are going to be faced with these feelings and stigmas and need to know the harsh realities. Maybe grade 7 is too young but considering kids are making pacts to lose their virginity before they start high school, it may not be too far off the mark.
 
To be honest, I don't think it's a terrible idea. Kids are going to be faced with these feelings and stigmas and need to know the harsh realities. Maybe grade 7 is too young but considering kids are making pacts to lose their virginity before they start high school, it may not be too far off the mark.

Times have changed and we need to come to realize this.....
Bridgette I agree with you......

Grade 7 is a good time....because it is a difficult age ....

When I was in grade 7 we saw about the Concentration Camps...
Seeing people being bulldozed into graves...Coming off Trains....
It taught me a lot....and I will never forget what men and women
died for.......

There is Death and Violence media coverings it well..
 
It's an important point to make regarding the harm bullying can have, but I would have liked to have seen parents involved and there as it could be a teaching tool and opportunity for growth for all.

Save one kid from suicide and it's worthwhile.
 
It's an important point to make regarding the harm bullying can have, but I would have liked to have seen parents involved and there as it could be a teaching tool and opportunity for growth for all.

Save one kid from suicide and it's worthwhile.

Agreed 100%.........She had the right idea but maybe went about it the wrong way.
 
I also praise the video. Educating them at a young age will make them them understand the reasoning of bullying.
 
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