The "DON'T" Ask questions that annoy providers

[Analme]

You hear it all the time from the ladies....

Don't ask

Am I your first? ( If I want to be first and paying I believe I have the right to ask)

Do you have a boyfriend? ( I agree, it's a personal question)

Many times it's just small talk and if I were a provider I'd have a pre fab answer to all these questions. As a Client I hate being asked, what I do, how old am I, where do I live but as suggested I always have pre fab answer to allow for small talk to take place.

 

[demien3k5]

'What's your real name?'

'How old is your kid?'

'Where do you come from?'

'Does your husband / boyfriend know you do this?'

'How many clients have you seen so far today?'

'How long have you been doing this type of work?'

'Why do I have to take a shower?'

'What's a nice girl like you doing working as a prostitute?'

:NoNoNo::NoNoNo::NoNoNo:

 

[Wino]

Why are you doing this type of work?.

 

[InfidelHarper]

How much did those manmades cost you?.

 

[Boing]

Can we meet after work?.

 

[Prick]

Just don't ask her anything. She is not there to entertain your mind.

 

[demien3k5]

Just don't ask her anything. She is not there to entertain your mind.

:don'twantto-see:/

 

[Flash Bazbo]

I've always found that interesting people are more likely to tell you the things you want to know about them if you don't ask them to. When you ask someone a question that's none of your business, they'll clam up. If you ask them a question like 'What would you like me to know about you?', you'll likely get some of the information you'd like. If you just have a regular conversation, without interrogating them for specifics, they'll probably reveal a certain percentage of what you'd like to know, based on the percentage of what you say that interests them.

People who are not indiscreet reveal their true selves like the layers of an onion, but only when you're listening to them. Most people never realize that no one has ever learned anything when they, themselves, are talking. Many people, in fact, if not most today, intentionally talk while someone else is speaking, with the intent and purpose to not learn something that they don't want to know. Knowledge is power, but ignorance is blissful. It's easier to make arbitrary value judgements, when one conveniently decides to first be unaware of documented fact. It has always been the case that what one perceives to be true is much more important than what can be proven to be true. Unfortunately, lies and deception are the only currency of those who have no credibility, based on their past indiscretions. This is nothing new; it's the theme of Aesop's fable "The Boy Who Cried Wolf", which isn't read to kids anymore, because it's offensive to the 'liar's group'.

 

[Lily of Montreal]

Actually Prick you cannot be farther from the truth, if the mind is not entertained (mine and my date's) the meeting is uninteresting...

I had one of my strangest meeting a few weeks ago with a gent who was deaf ,he told me in advance saying that he could understand as he has appareils and can read lips.
Problem was it seems I have a french accent hard to understand while reading lips (!) so the meeting turned into a sex only marathon we no connection ,disappointing for me and I think for him too...
That's how I realized that a huge part of our mutual enjoyment with my date is the talking and the laughter between rounds...

 

[cristycurves]

^ Thank you Lilly for chiming in. Although clients can assume what we want to discuss, or not discuss, a question as the op posed ("what questions annoy providers) is best answered by each individual provider, since what someone says, or has been told could be construed as gossip, or simply an opinion and not applicable to all. Obviously some general rules apply, yet, we're all different and act differently, so imo, it is best to ask your chosen escort/provider, what he or she is comfortable discussing, just as it is important to have clarified what services your provider is comfortable offering, or engaging in with you. As Lilly mentioned, sapiosexual clients are always more "stimulating" in every way. However a silent "hit and run" type client can also be fun, when one is in the mood. Some things all providers and people in general appreciate is respect, consideration, and understanding

 

[Flash Bazbo]

@ Lily of Montreal:

How, if at all, is your business any different during "Grand Prix week" in Montreal, as opposed to any other random week, during the rest of the year, re: Clientele, LE presence, length of bookings, sundry?

 

[Lily of Montreal]

Grand Prix week for a GFE lady like me is a week to take vacation from funlife and work real life. It is for sp with enhance body and no interest in meeting except for the wallet of the gents,most are not even from Montreal,imported sp lol

What does sundry means?

 

[catherine st.claire]

Here are questions I love to answer...

1. What are you passionate about, either in your soul or in real life?
2. Why, what is it about your passion that makes you tick?
3. If you could change one thing in the world, what would it be?
4. If money wasn't an issue, how would you spend your time; what would you do?
5. Favourite movie/music/foods/beverage?
6. What non sexual activities make you feel sexy?
7. What is your perfect morning?
8. Either or's... eg. Peanut butter and toast - With butter or without? Scotch - with rocks or a splash?
9. Where would you love to travel to? Why?
10.Who is one person you'd love to spend an hour with? (Dead or alive) What would you talk about?

Our society has set standards that for some reason demand we know "the profile" of the people we meet. What you do, your name, your life circumstances etc but that doesn't ever give an open insight into the spirit within which is far more important imo. I would rather spend 10 minutes listening to the details of someones passion than finding out how they make their living. Asking questions that are intensely intimate without being personal can create a more connected playtime without either side sacrificing personally identifying information...

smiles, cat

 

[demien3k5]

Here are questions I love to answer...

1. What are you passionate about, either in your soul or in real life?
2. Why, what is it about your passion that makes you tick?
3. If you could change one thing in the world, what would it be?
4. If money wasn't an issue, how would you spend your time; what would you do?
5. Favourite movie/music/foods/beverage?
6. What non sexual activities make you feel sexy?
7. What is your perfect morning?
8. Either or's... eg. Peanut butter and toast - With butter or without? Scotch - with rocks or a splash?
9. Where would you love to travel to? Why?
10.Who is one person you'd love to spend an hour with? (Dead or alive) What would you talk about?

Our society has set standards that for some reason demand we know "the profile" of the people we meet. What you do, your name, your life circumstances etc but that doesn't ever give an open insight into the spirit within which is far more important imo. I would rather spend 10 minutes listening to the details of someones passion than finding out how they make their living. Asking questions that are intensely intimate without being personal can create a more connected playtime without either side sacrificing personally identifying information...

smiles, cat

Very classy response Cat! Thanks for that! :YMAPPLAUSE: :good:

 

[Flash Bazbo]

Grand Prix week for a GFE lady like me is a week to take vacation from funlife and work real life. It is for sp with enhance body and no interest in meeting except for the wallet of the gents,most are not even from Montreal,imported sp lol

What does sundry means?

"sundry" means 'additional' or 'other things not specifically mentioned', the same as 'et cetera'; 'etc'', Lily of Montreal. It's a word often used in a contract or job description - "... and sundry other duties, as required...", The French equivalent is 'En plus' or 'divers'. 'Divers' means 'plongeurs' in English.

Thanks for an answer completely different from what I would have expected. Are there 'event periods' that are above average volumes of interest for the local Escorts in Montreal, such as the 'Jazz Festival', "Just for Laughs Festival', long weekends, like Labor Day? Back in the day, Labor Day weekend was very busy for tourism in Montreal; a 'cheap European vacation' for Americans, especially from the New York City area, because the worst of the summer humidity was over by then in Montreal. I don't know if that still applies.

In YOUR opinion, when is the best time of the year for someone from out of town to visit Montreal, with the intention of seeing the local Escorts, in addition to other tourist activities?

 

[Lily of Montreal]

There is no ''bad moment'' to come here and meet I would say except between Xmas and New Year ,for a lady winter is always slow so if you have a specific lady in mind January to March is the way to go ,summer is busier and you have the festivals as a bonus.

Personally I would avoid Grand Prix week but after is like a carnival with so much action the heads turns...Any week will bring you action in and out of bed lol

 

[Flash Bazbo]

@ Lily of Montreal: September weather in Montreal is often wonderful, with warm but not humid air during the day, and cool temperatures at night. Windy days in January are brutally cold. Back in the day, the bus drivers would go out of their way to drive through potholes in the streets, filled with salty slush, to splash pedestrians on the sidewalk.

Thanks for the information. It's twenty years since I was last in Montreal.

 

[bolt.upright]

I love Montreal. It's been a year and a half since I was last there and I need to go back soon.

 

[Lily of Montreal]

Well some things change in 20 years as I can attest ,being someone who do not drive so takes tons of buses,the bus drivers do not go out of their way to agress pedestrians....

Weather wise I agree fall or early summer is he best time to visit Montreal...