The longterm effects of seeing SPs

[Cesarply]

I was wondering what the opinions are on how seeing escorts over a long period of time affects how you see women, particually back in the 'real' world.

 

[kasanova]

Effects? maxed out credit cards, few line of credit to pay and empty wallet.

 

[Cunning Linguist]

Excellent question...

Excellent question...

I was wondering what the opinions are on how seeing escorts over a long period of time affects how you see women, particually back in the 'real' world.

... and my unfortunate answer is that after a return to hobbying only 3 or 4 months ago (after a 3 year hiatus), just about every woman I see is now evaluated primarily as a potential sex partner, rather than as a person. Total objectification is not a good thing (IMO, anyway, FWIW).

 

[Bubba]

Hobbying has spoiled me. The SPs stay the same age and I get older, out in real world, I'm attracted to women half my age or more, where I should be checking out women closer to my age. My view has definitely been distorted.

I know a good shrink. You want his Number :bad:.

 

[thetank]

I agree. I see younger women in my civilian life as sexually accessible. The more I hobby, though, the more my appetite for sex grows. That is a good factor in my books.

thetank

 

[Inexsis]

It makes me get confused "Real" life with "fantasy" life. Couple of times I asked "How much extra for PSE" to a girl I just met at the bar. :na:

 

[raggie]

It makes you forget that you are an fat ugly old guy. It is a good thing for short time period.

 

[Nova5]

Couple of times I asked "How much extra for PSE" to a girl I just met at the bar. :na:

LMAO!

 

[HOF]

Well,

For the longest time, I wouldn't see any lady that was young because of this question, but then one day, I said FUCK IT and I did! Now, I enjoy the company of ladies early 20's to early 40's. 28-38 is great for me.

I quite enjoy the maturity of a "milf" and sometimes a young "gilf" and when the urge comes to visit the 20-28 age bracket, I know that it's a phone call away.

For example, the cute little bank teller or check out girl at the grocery store. Even better, the cutie that works in the body shop or lasenza, and even better than that the Ti-Cat cheerleaders bouncing around infront of my seats (Yes, I have the calendar-it's placed on the wall across from the throne in the master bathroom) :tongue:

Now, that this thread has got me started, I'm goin' to have to make some arrangements to see two 21 year olds to make up my age Monday or Tuesday!

Damn!

 

[Nova5]

So far most of my experiences have been very positive; I have met some wonderful SPs’ who have created some very memorable moments that will last me a lifetime.

 

[tboy]

So far most of my experiences have been very positive; I have met some wonderful SPs’ who have created some very memorable moments that will last me a lifetime.

Yup, me too.

I dont' see any long term effects other than being happy. The fact that we have this option takes the "pressure" off of having to meet someone, or settle for ones with issues, just to get some affection.

As for expectations in the real world, I don't think mine have changed. I had pretty high standards before starting to pay for play and those haven't changed much.

You have to be realistic though and remember that for the most part, these hot young ladies are only doing you for the $$ and to expect civvies to do the same, well, you're fooling yourself (like I said, in most cases).

On a similar note, I realized something about being single in my 40's. When you meet a woman when you're young, she's attractive and over the years, the looks fade. But you have (or should have) a strong relationship to carry you through the years as her looks go downhill. The problem now is if you meet a woman your own age, you missed all her golden years lol and now her boobs are around her waist, and her ass has it's own zip code and she has cottage cheese thighs....oh and you have to deal with ALL the assholes she's met and wed before you. When they're younger, they haven't (hopefully) met that many yet.....

 

[athaire]

I have always been confident when in the company of women. Either younger or older. I think it has made me realize that there is more to women than just sex. It has made me appreciate civilian women more.

Much the same as an earlier poster I tend to look at woman as potential partners until I engage in conversation with them. Sex with SP's while fun and hassle free, for the most part, is also hollow and unfulfilled in an emotional sense. I don't get the love that I need from them.

 

[SillyGirl]

On a similar note, I realized something about being single in my 40's. When you meet a woman when you're young, she's attractive and over the years, the looks fade. But you have (or should have) a strong relationship to carry you through the years as her looks go downhill. The problem now is if you meet a woman your own age, you missed all her golden years lol and now her boobs are around her waist, and her ass has it's own zip code and she has cottage cheese thighs....oh and you have to deal with ALL the assholes she's met and wed before you. When they're younger, they haven't (hopefully) met that many yet.....

It's a good thing age doesn't affect men, eh? I'm sure you're still the Adonis you were at 25. :roll:

 

[Trump]

It's all about the money, power and fame. A mans age is forgotten provided there is some wealth, confidence and power backing the man.

If not hire an escort!:na:

 

[Auggie]

It's a good thing age doesn't affect men, eh? I'm sure you're still the Adonis you were at 25. :roll:

In my case I'm fitter and happier than I was at 25. The eyesight is worse and the skin sags in different areas but I was a mess when I was half my age.

But in general you're right, there's a different standard for men and women in being allowed to age which isn't fair.