Al Bumin said:
Buddy it's what's inside that counts. No wonder you are still alone. Being, living and thinking materialistic and outside the box may be your problem. You say you are happy but I do wonder.
No malice on my words just an observation.
Notice I didn't say "homely"? And while "what's inside counts" is the go to answer for people with issues, being overweight is a strong indicator of a number of internal issues.
1) Self-control: This indicates that they can't stop themselves from eating. What else can't they stop themselves from doing?
2) Health: being overweight has as many detriments to one's health as smoking or over-drinking
3) Appearance: I dated an overweight woman, once. Sorry, when you have to lift up your gunt in order to see your genitals, well, that's a problem lol.
Sorry dude, you may think I"m shallow but if someone has more chins than a chinese phonebook she won't be riding shotgun in my vehicle.
I also don't really care if you believe that I am happy or not. I will tell you this: I've never been happier with my living situation. I listen to all the guys at work (or most of them anyways) complain, bitch, and moan about the females in their lives and I daily say "there but by the grace of god go I".
Another thing, I"ve dated woman who were extremely hot. I've dated women who one would consider average. I've dated women who one would consider "homely". They ALL have issues. every one of them. Now if I have to deal with all the so-called "women's issues" one might as well deal with a hottie because, well, at least she's hot right?
