It's just another day, rate it and use it as you see fit. It's not a day that specifies "men must do this or be this".... Both men and women. have an opportunity to express their love on this day if they so choose to follow it's commercialism...the original Valentines day, I believe was in 496, back when I started escorting, lol and was a roman festival called Lupercalia, a festival held to celebrate the start of spring.
I'd think two people who love each other would want to express that love on a regular basis, not just on one specified, over commercialized day and express it by showing respect, trust, by being understanding, forgiving, etc, towards their partner.....but that's just how I see it Happy V day Danny