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Walking Away

justme74

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Usually I can't walk away even if i didnt like what i have seen. I know client has the right to say NO I'm sorry I'm not staying and leave and an escort has the right to say NO I'm sorry I'm not staying and leave as well.

But how do you say this to an escort you have booked?
 
Just say that she is not what you expected, turn around and leave. It really is that simple.
 
Chunky said:
Just say that she is not what you expected, turn around and leave. It really is that simple.

Better to hurt her feelings than your pocket :neutral:.
 
I have walked away many times. I tend to venture off the beaten path and at times when the door opens, AYA DIO I have had to bolt. I have also walked out when I have found no soap in the showers or if I thought the lady was not showered etc...
 
I have walked away many times, nothing wrong with that. If shes not your type just say so, im sorry but your not for me. I have also stayed a few times and wished I had walked away, once you do that once or twice it becomes easier to bolt.
 
I can tell you that if you stay reluctantly, you will create an awkward and uncomfortable session unless you also drop that at the door when you decide to stay. She will certainly sense that, too, so it is better to avoid that by making an apology and leaving. If she is not as advertised, you have nothing to to feel badly about. If she is as advertised, menu included, but you just aren't feeling attracted for you personally, then offer a 20 for her time with an apology/excuse. It is better to leave with good karma, than to stay with bad.
 
shadowsun said:
I can tell you that if you stay reluctantly, you will create an awkward and uncomfortable session unless you also drop that at the door when you decide to stay. She will certainly sense that, too, so it is better to avoid that by making an apology and leaving. If she is not as advertised, you have nothing to to feel badly about. If she is as advertised, menu included, but you just aren't feeling attracted for you personally, then offer a 20 for her time with an apology/excuse. It is better to leave with good karma, than to stay with bad.


Very well said SS
 
justme74 said:
Usually I can't walk away even if i didnt like what i have seen. I know client has the right to say NO I'm sorry I'm not staying and leave and an escort has the right to say NO I'm sorry I'm not staying and leave as well.

But how do you say this to an escort you have booked?

I think the reason many guys have a problem doing this is because throughout our entire life, we've been the ones rejected by women, not the other way around. So when it comes to our turn to have to make that decision, we're out of practise. On the other hand, women do it so often, it's second nature.

If any industry gives us the upper hand (in this regard) it is this one. If we don't like what we see? We have the right to leave since we're the customer and it's our hard earned money.

One good place to get practice doing this is a strip club. I used to travel for business extensively and found that hanging out at the local club was a great way to relax after a hard day's work. I then found that since the dancers continuously come up to you for a lap dance, and you constantly have to refuse (or go broke) it gets easier with time.
 
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