JennyT
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This came to mind when I was reading my “awkward questions to escort” thread.
No matter what I do for my development, especially intellectual, I get this question “what are you going to do with it”? If I learn a language, I need to have a plan. If I take a personal training, I need to set a goal. Society tells me to always know “where I’m going with it” and have a plan for the future.
But as a matter of fact, very often I would do things just for the momentary pleasure. Exercise to just feel the physical pleasure from training, learn new skill or new language to just have it. Without any plans to visit the country or apply the skill. Without planning to bring it to perfection or even becoming decent.
My my life consists of those pleasures and trying to get them into the limitations of goals and applications just doesn’t work.
I would usually compare it to having sex. Do I have any goals while having sex? No, I purely do it for pleasure. Do I have to apply my fucking in the future? Even this statement sounds ridiculous.
No matter what I do for my development, especially intellectual, I get this question “what are you going to do with it”? If I learn a language, I need to have a plan. If I take a personal training, I need to set a goal. Society tells me to always know “where I’m going with it” and have a plan for the future.
But as a matter of fact, very often I would do things just for the momentary pleasure. Exercise to just feel the physical pleasure from training, learn new skill or new language to just have it. Without any plans to visit the country or apply the skill. Without planning to bring it to perfection or even becoming decent.
My my life consists of those pleasures and trying to get them into the limitations of goals and applications just doesn’t work.
I would usually compare it to having sex. Do I have any goals while having sex? No, I purely do it for pleasure. Do I have to apply my fucking in the future? Even this statement sounds ridiculous.