What is the best way to get over a relationship?

[HOF]

Oh yes, remember to see Bridgette 5 to 6 times to make all your woes disappear!:-Cool/"

 

[Blank_Dave]

IMO the best way to get over one is not to get into one to begin with.

Though Bridgette does sound like a good alternative too.

 

[Bridgette_xo]

Though Bridgette does sound like a good alternative too.

+1 lol!

 

[Bridgette_xo]

Oh yes, remember to see Bridgette 5 to 6 times to make all your woes disappear!:-Cool/"

Shill

 

[HOF]

Ah Lola, I could make you say OH GOD!

 

[LickingGravity]

Not sure I ever will. I'm sure I never want to, may she RIP and forgive my attempts to.

 

[LickingGravity]

Wow. Thanks for that confession, Licking. Kinda awkward, but who here isn't.

Sorry didn't mean to be melancholy. My wife passed away from cancer a couple of years ago. Just when you think you are getting over it you have a flashback/relapse. Strategies to get over it have been varied and interesting and have strecthed boudaries even if they have had mixed success.The concept of disrespecting her memory in post mortem is illogical but hard to shake.

 

[Blank_Dave]

+1 lol!

I'm allowed to kiss ass once and a while. And might as well make do with online ass kissing, since I don't know when I'll be kissing anything else in the near future.

 

[Blank_Dave]

Lola, finally figured out who you remind me of. Jamie Lee Curtis.

 

[God]

Ah Lola, I could make you say OH GOD!

Hey, that is my job.

 

[Jesus Quintana]

Erm. WTF is that supposed to mean, Quintana? Did I fellate multiple of your cousins? It's kind of what I do, since I quit teaching Sunday school.

Nah he I thought I was asked for another option so I presented you as an option.
Sunday school? Damn I wish I was one of your students. It wouldn't bother me at all to be "Hot for Teacher" !

 

[HOF]

Hey, that is my job.

You snooze, you lose!

 

[HOF]

Lola, finally figured out who you remind me of. Jamie Lee Curtis.

I would add Lori Petty (tank girl) and Annie Potts (pretty in pink) and Pink when she first started.

 

[The Options Menu]

What is the best way to get over a relationship?

How did you do it?.

'The best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody.'

Crude, but true to a degree. Go have some fun with a civi, but make sure she knows the deal, or hire a pro.

My honest advice is to wallow for a bit, go on a good guys night or six (your friends will know you're dying, but they should also know to be cool... studies ACTUALLY show that's how men support men), and sew some wild oats (civis giving better ego points). When you get that done, fill your time with doing things you wanted to do, but that relationship time kept you away from. Preferably social things around real live human beings. Resist the urge to dial, text, IM, or email your ex, especially if you're drunk / high. Make no more than 'one pitch' at reconciliation. Dignity, man. Dignity. No stalking, cyber, real life, or other. The biggest thing to know is that 'let's be friends' is all well and good, but until both of you get your post-rebound lives going again, 'being friends' is just going to fuck up and sabotage each of your shit more often than not. (The same goes for falling into the sack.)

Getting back to 'normal' takes time, and a different amount of time for everybody. With that being said, if you honestly feel like you're stuck in the wallowing, or stuck in the guys nights and sewing of wild oats, or you can't separate yourself from your ex's life and find a way to happily fill that former relationship time, by all means consider seeing a mental health pro as opposed to the sexy kind. If you're mentally stuck, and you don't want a mental health pro, REACH OUT TO SOMEBODY. I've seen more than one guy get fucked in more than one way by getting into a fucked up rut.

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Ah Lola, I could make you say OH GOD!

LMFAO!

If I was a betting man I'd wager the other way.

 

[-b]

Deal with the any relationship like this.....It has taken me awhile to
finally come to terms with my ex or other people who wanted to be my friends for all the wrong reasons...
So a friend sat me down and handed me this....I keep it on the fridge.....I read it over and over again..

 

[Esquire]

I had a young SB that ticked me off. During that week apart, I saw Angel Monroe. The SB was very cute and knew how to DT without gagging much, but Angel Monroe took the curse away.

I would recommend these 3 ladies then: Angel Monroe, Candice Cane and Winter.