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What makes a good BJ?

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My most recent foray to the SP world, along with currently being a little obsessed by a certain lady's luscious lips has gotten my mind traveling down a strange path. I may have been a late sexual bloomer, but I've seen many providers over the years and have received many bjs. Some were good, some were not so good. Ironically, not all the not so good ones were cbj. I have had some damn good cbjs as well, so while I do think that a bbbj does feel better, I think the art of a good bj is not entirely dependent on whether it is covered or not.

My very first bj was covered, and while the actual event has been forgotten by now, I still remember the provider who did it because she not only punched my bj card, she punched my v card too. But, now in thinking back, that particular bj was probably only average. I've had the types of bjs seen in porn, but you know what, those ones don't qualify as being my best ones. When a woman goes into the bj bob too fast, I feel she's just trying to get me off as soon as possible. Sure, it still feels good, but it isn't great. So, I figured I'd jot down some things that I find especially great in a bj. Keep in mind that I'm no expert, and that these are simply things that feel good for me. I should also mention that I usually have a hard time relaxing during a bj. My mind is constantly in motion, "did I clean properly, does it taste bad, is she getting tired, am I taking too long to pop". These are the sorts of questions running through my crazy mind.

For me a good bj doesn't start with the bj. It starts with lots of teasing, licking, BLS and so on. Only when other areas of my body has been kissed and licked and the lady gives me an impish grin for the pleasure she's about to give me, does the true action start. The rest of this is from memory, from a MPA at an AMP that has given me the top 1 or 2 bjs of my life.

She starts slow. Excruciatingly slow. There is lots and lots of licking, and kissing (here's where luscious lips are best, wink wink cristycurves). When she finally engulfs my little head, her mouth is warm and soaking wet. She keeps me engulfed for a couple of minutes before moving up. During this time, she is swirling her tongue all over my exposed glands. The feeling is indescribable and leaves me breathless. As she starts her up and down motion, her tongue never stops moving, and her mouth is full of saliva, so I am literally constantly bathed in a warm wet tunnel. This goes on for a countless time. She takes a few breaks here and there, but never stops that unrelenting swirling of her tongue. As my arousal rises, she slows increases her tempo. Before I can begin climbing my mountain though, she eases off and cools me down with her breath while her hands stroke the length of me. Her other hand occasionally plays with the marbles as she does this. Then, she dives in for some licking and BLS, and then, with another impish grin, she engulfs me again. She keeps this erotic cycle going interspersed with some satisfying deep throat action. Suck, swirl, lick and grin. Over and over and I start to climb my mountain once more. This time, she doesn't ease off, and the slow sensual tempo is gone as she bobs her head up and down, faster and faster, all the while maintaining a hard suction with her lips. As I come in her mouth, she bobs a few more times and then holds the head in her mouth until I stop spasming. When I stop, she applies suction again while doing a slow bob, slowly milking me until the last drop has been sucked out. As she pulls me out of her mouth, she gives me that grin once more before leaving to spit.


I can almost hear a sigh of disappointment from you guys! I've only had a woman swallow twice in my life, and it doesn't do anything for me, so I'm ok with the spit afterwards. Ok, so that's my idea of a great bj. Share yours!
 
Closing your eyes is a start.

Oh, you weren't talking about kissing :don'twantto-see:/
 
:blush2:Thank you Erectile:)
A good bj is one that is thoroughly enjoyed, I believe the receiver can tell whether or not the giver is truly into it or not. Any women that truly loves sucking cock, will be good at it. I love giving head, playing with the balls especially. But... I like to warm up all my guests by first giving a sensuous massage. Imo, nothing is sexier than feeling and exploring a mans body with my hands, ending with me rubbing my erect nipples up and down your back, I then turn you over and let the fun begin.

I feel and tease your cock, first with my hands and fingers, feather light strokes over the balls, slow, soft strokes with my hand, up and down your shaft. While stroking your shaft I allow my tongue to gently flick over the head of your cock, lightly sucking with my soft, full wet lips, they take turns, teasing and enjoying.Lips and tongue, tongue then lips.

My hand strokes you with more pressure, while my tongue moves with slow precision up and down your cock, sure not to miss an inch, until I reach your balls, my hot breathe and strong tongue will arouse moans, exploring, taunting, teasing, lightly sucking.

I cover them with my saliva, my fingers take over as my tongue and lips slowly move back to sucking and flicking over the head of your throbbing cock, with lots of desire, wetness and hunger.

I'll deep throat, allowing your hardness to touch the back of my throat, I bob there for a few secs, drooling over you, moving up and down, flicking my tongue as I increase pressure, pace, your moans grow louder. My fingers continue to caress yours balls, tickling, teasing, between your balls and ass, all while my lips and tongue devour your cock.

Your hand guides my head, it pushes you deeper into my throat , I feel you pulse, then.......
@Leo...aww sad to think, by your comment, that you and your companions choose to shut out one another by closing your eyes, my companions love to watch, and that's sexy:)
 
cristycurves said:
:blush2:Thank you Erectile:)
A good bj is one that is thoroughly enjoyed, I believe the receiver can tell whether or not the giver is truly into it or not. Any women that truly loves sucking cock, will be good at it. I love giving head, playing with the balls especially. But... I like to warm up all my guests by first giving a sensuous massage. Imo, nothing is sexier than feeling and exploring a mans body with my hands, ending with me rubbing my erect nipples up and down your back, I then turn you over and let the fun begin.

I feel and tease your cock, first with my hands and fingers, feather light strokes over the balls, slow, soft strokes with my hand, up and down your shaft. While stroking your shaft I allow my tongue to gently flick over the head of your cock, lightly sucking with my soft, full wet lips, they take turns, teasing and enjoying.Lips and tongue, tongue then lips.

My hand strokes you with more pressure, while my tongue moves with slow precision up and down your cock, sure not to miss an inch, until I reach your balls, my hot breathe and strong tongue will arouse moans, exploring, taunting, teasing, lightly sucking.

I cover them with my saliva, my fingers take over as my tongue and lips slowly move back to sucking and flicking over the head of your throbbing cock, with lots of desire, wetness and hunger.

I'll deep throat, allowing your hardness to touch the back of my throat, I bob there for a few secs, drooling over you, moving up and down, flicking my tongue as I increase pressure, pace, your moans grow louder. My fingers continue to caress yours balls, tickling, teasing, between your balls and ass, all while my lips and tongue devour your cock.

Your hand guides my head, it pushes you deeper into my throat , I feel you pulse, then.......
@Leo...aww sad to think, by your comment, that you and your companions choose to shut out one another by closing your eyes, my companions love to watch, and that's sexy:)

Marry me.
 
Al Bumin said:
Marry me.


Lol, believe me Al, there are a lot of women out there that love giving head, as much as some men love eating pussy:) Penises are God's gift to women:wink2: and I thank him by sucking them as often as possible:)
 
cristycurves said:
Lol, believe me Al, there are a lot of women out there that love giving head, as much as some men love eating pussy:) Penises are God's gift to women:wink2: and I thank him by sucking them as often as possible:)

Hmm, maybe there should be a daty thread...I love going down on a woman who appreciates my efforts. But, I'm not sure I want to share my secrets because I'm convinced it's what has netted me so much mileage in the MP world, even from low mileage girls. LOL, but then considering where I used to hobby, there really arent that many low mileage girls! :LMAO:
 
Effort and Enthusiasm is Elegantly and Exceedingly more Exciting. Or EaEiEaEmE for short, try saying that out loud :))
 
If there isn't heavy eye contact, not worth the price of admission.
 
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